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feltired · 2 days
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People talk about abusers who never say ‘i love you’ but i wish they talked more about the ones that do. The ones that hurt you over and over and leave you ruined and confused because afterwards they tell you how much they love you and how important you are to them. That way you’ll always doubt wether what they did was truly wrong. You’ll never understand what ‘i love you’ means, you’ll always associate it with something painful. ‘I love you’ will lose all meaning. It’s so fucking painful to hear it said by the person who caused you so much pain
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dying-weeds · 2 days
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"motherhood and pregnancy aren't comparable to drawn pedophilia or rape or incest, though, are they?
@eerie-entityy do you realize that what you have just said is that you think that some people's trauma and triggers are not as important as other people's?
Do you realize that you have just causally dismissed the trauma that resulted from my abuse?
Do you realize that you are saying some people's triggers and trauma don't matter to you as much as others?
Does it register to you that that is what you're saying?
Does it register to you that you're saying that not just to me but to every other trauma survivor?
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fulltrashpolice · 9 months
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borderlineangel222 · 21 days
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the idea of being easily forgotten scares me so much.
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eljayetc · 7 months
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“You lived through that, you will live through this too”
Yes, but how many things do I have to live through? How many times do I have to be grateful I made it out alive? When do I get to stop surviving and start thriving?
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sweet-goob · 3 months
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It’s okay to let someone comfort you. (I struggle with this super bad) You don’t have to always keep your feelings to yourself. You’re not childish for wanting someone to hold you when you’re sad or crying. Physical comfort is not dirty or inappropriate. You’re not gross for wanting to be hugged and held. It’s okay to need to be comforted, it’s a hard expectation to deal with everything alone. You are allowed to express these things. It’s okay if you don’t want to be physically comforted, having someone sit with you is just as good.
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chronicallylav3nd3r · 6 months
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its okay if your trauma made you angry
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transvegansurvivor · 8 months
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sickheartmind · 1 month
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You're never "too old" to enjoy the things you never got to enjoy as a child.
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ed-recoverry · 6 months
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dying-weeds · 2 months
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bulldyke-femme · 7 months
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This is controversial but something I’m pretty passionate about so-
If you are a trauma survivor, you do not have to spend every day and every week trying to fix yourself. You do not need to constantly be reading self help books and journaling and trying to redeem yourself and throwing yourself at therapists and psychiatrists every couple of days to prove “you’re one of the good crazies”
If therapy makes you feel triggered and upheaves your whole week? You do not have to go every week- in fact if you feel emotionally inflamed and like its hard to cope with the wounds therapy opens- you dont have to go back at all. You are not “wallowing in mental illness” or romanticizing it if your healing does not look like the standard method or what will make people more comfortable with your existence.
Every time you draw a boundary, thats healing, every time you feel uncomfortable and walk away from a bad situation, every time you stand up for yourself or find even a moment of peace- thats healing. Spending time with friends and laughing and learning what healthy love feels like can be so much more healing than tearing at triggers at sore spots.
You dont have to inflict suffering on yourself in order to prove to others you are worth something. You are already worth something and trauma does not change that. We deserve to be gentle with ourselves and really pay close attention to what is a growing pain and what is just undue suffering.
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fulltrashpolice · 9 months
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borderlineangel222 · 2 months
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personally i do not allow many people to love me. when someone says they like me, i don’t believe them. or i just look away
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random-nerd-queer · 4 months
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With disability pride month being over I just want to remind everyone
A) fuck Autism Speaks
B) Disability is an inevitably
C) being Disabled does not make you immune to being ableist
Tagging some people I think would reblog this post
@neurodiversebones @sunnybugz @ndcultureis @thatadhdmood @thatautisticadhdfeel
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