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cluster-b-culture-is · 2 days

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(questioning) cluster b culture is accidentally telling someone about your homicidal ideation and them saying "it's ok lots of people have intrusive thoughts about that." no. you don't get it. I LIKE thinking about this. It makes me feel BETTER.

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#cluster b culture is #questioning cluster b culture is #cluster b #npd #aspd #bpd #hpd #Mod Reef #anonymous #mood

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 2 days

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NPD culture is being so frustrated that egotypical people don’t seem to understand that motivation does not matter.

I did a good thing! I do lots of morally good things! Stop getting pissy with me just because I did them to make myself feel good. That’s why most people do ‘altruistic’ things anyways.

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#npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b

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nyanfever · 1 day

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i hate having npd and getting ignored in social situations like hello hi everyone please pay attention to me or else i'll explode

#cluster b #npd #actually npd #actually narcissistic #npd safe #★ mine

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evilsystemm · 2 days

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NPD culture is compliment me but if it sounds even slightly infantalising I'll never let you see anything I do ever again

#npd #cluster b #npd safe #actually narcissistic #actually npd #bpd #actually bpd #aspd safe #aspd #narcissistic personality disorder

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autopsyfreak · 23 hours

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i don’t see the point in apologising, it seems pointless and hypocritical.

the only thing that would warrant an apology is an action that hurt/negatively affected someone, which i either didn’t mean to do or i did mean to do.

if i meant to do it then an apology would just be lying. if i was intending on hurting you and then apologised for the pain i caused, i wouldn’t actually be sorry because i got the outcome i wanted.

but at the same time if i didn’t mean to do it then why should i apologise? accidents happen so really there’s no reason to apologise, even if i have caused you accidental hurt.

apologies just have no value.

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bastardboi333 · 2 days

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I think it’s so funny when people are like “people with aspd are super manipulative and evil and are constantly plotting to ruin your life 🤓”, when in reality I’m just someone who does bad things because I’m bored, lack any self control, and I don’t really care who the fuck it effects because at least I had that millisecond hit of dopamine.

Like goddamn it’s MY life I’m plotting to ruin, stay out of it 💀

#actually aspd #actually cluster b #aspd safe #aspd thoughts #cluster b #aspd #aspd things #aspd traits #cluster b culture is

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dodgeryy · 2 days

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Any other narcs like hate anything that makes them feel coddled. Even though rationally it's probably from a place of love.

Ex: it's your birthday and something goes slightly wrong and everyone rushes to comfort you and ask what you want even tho you're not upset

Or like "can I make it up to you? We can go to xyz" no.

DONT SPEND TIME W MY ON CHARITY AND PITY IM GONNA KILL MYSELF WHAT.

#life of ery #npd #npd safe #narc abuse #reclaiming that tag and flooding it w my kwn relatable stories. fuck yall.#actually npd #actually narcissistic #cluster b

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ohara-n-brown · 4 months

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As a late diagnosed autist I will say one of the most damaging but transformative experiences I've ever had was being misdiagnosed with BPD.

Everyday my heart goes out to people with BPD.

The amount of stigma and silencing they face is astonishing and sickening.

I took DBT for years. Therapists use to turn me away because of my diagnosis.

I would be having full blown autistic meltdowns, crying for help literally - but because I was labeled as BPD ANY time I cried I was treated as manipulative and unstable.

As if the only reason I could be crying was if I was out to trick someone.

95% of the books out there with Borderline in the title are named shit like 'How to get away from a person with Borderline', 'How to stop walking on eggshells (with a person who has BPD)'

I was never allowed to feel true pain or panic or need.

That was 'attention seeking behavior', not me asking for help when a disability was literally inhibiting my ability to process emotions.

There were dozens of times where I had a full meltdown and was either threatened with institutionalization or told I was doing it for attention.

My failing relationships weren't due to a communication issue, or the inability to read social cues. No, because I was labeled borderline, my unstable relationships were my fault. Me beggong nuerotypicals to just be honest and blunt with what they meant was me pestering them for validation.

Borderline patients can't win.

And the funny thing is - I asked my therapist about autism. I told her I thought I was on the spectrum.

BPD is WILDLY misdiagnosed with those with autism and I had many clear signs.

Instead - she told me 'If you were autistic we wouldn't be able to have this conversation'. She made me go through a list of autistic traits made clearly for children, citing how I didn't fit each one.

And then she told me that me identifying with the autism community was the BPD making me search for identity to be accepted - and that I wasn't autistic, just desperate to fit in somewhere.

I didn't get diagnosed for another ten years. For ten years I avoided the autism community - feeling as if I were just a broken person who wanted to steal from people who 'really needed it'.

Because of my providers - I began to doubt my identity MORE, not less.

Ten years of thinking I was borderline and being emotionally neglected and demonized by a system meant to help me.

To this day, I still don't trust neurotypicals. Not fully.

I know I'm not borderline now - but my heart aches for them. Not for the usual stuff. But for the stigma. And the asshole doctors. And the dismissiveness and threatening and the idea of institutionalization hanging over their head.

I love Borderline people. I always will. I'm not Borderline but if you are I love you and I'm sorry.

You're not a bad person. You're not a therapists worst nightmare, you are a human with valid feelings and fears.

Borderline people I'm sorry.

#autism #bpd #borderline personality disorder #actually autistic #neurodivergent #neurodivergency #neurodiversity #cluster b

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worms-in-my-brain · 5 months

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People with psychotic disorders are neurodivergent too.

People with personality disorders are neurodivergent too.

People with substance abuse disorders are neurodivergent too.

People with tic disorders are neurodivergent too.

People with bipolar disorder are neurodivergent too.

People with dissociative disorders are neurodivergent too.

Neurodivergence isn’t just ADHD, autism, anxiety, and depression. (Plus those last two also get left out sometimes!) Neurodivergence is anything that affects your brain.

“Neurodivergent people hate loud noises” is actually just as valid as a statement as “neurodivergent people have delusions,” “neurodivergent people have tics,” or even “neurodivergent people have low empathy.”

#neurodivergent #aspd safe #npd safe #bpd safe #personality disorders #cluster b #cluster b safe #cluster c #cluster a #dissociative disorders are neurodivergencies #dissociative #osddid #did #osdd #tourettes #tic disorders are neurodivergencies #tics #bipolar disorder #substance abuse disorder

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a-healthy-dose-of-apathy · 6 months

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i feel like someone dead pretending to be alive

#bpd #actually bpd #borderline personality disorder #bpd problems #actually borderline #bpd feels #bpd meme #bpd memes #paranoia #bpd rage #cluster b #cluster b vent

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abyssa111 · 1 year

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#abysa1 zone #cluster b

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cluster-b-culture-is · 3 days

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BPD (and suspecting NPD maybe?) Culture is hearing a therapist online say that they think their clients with BPD endure more pain than anyone else they see, and going "teehee that's so true", and feeling compelled to repeat it to your friends constantly like, "Hey, see how this guy says I'm constantly in emotional pain, it's so true, why don't you pay attention to me and pity me for how miserable I am all the time (BECAUSE YOU NEVER TALK TO ME!!!!!)"

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#cluster b culture is #bpd culture is #bpd + npd culture is #bpd + questioning npd culture is #cluster b #bpd #npd #Mod Reef #anonymous

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 3 days

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Npd culture is seeing those posts about "People aren't ignoring you on purpose" and "Be patient with others, they might be struggling :(" and be like

NO!!! FUCK YOU!!! I don't care what other people's reasoning is, alright?

If I have to act like a decent human being around others, I can expect the same level of courtesy from them towards me. And I have every right in the world to be upset about it, regardless if it was "intentional" or "not their fault". I deserve better than this!

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#npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b

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jewishranpo · 11 months

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“the intrusive thoughts won” “that’s psychotic” “i’m so delusional haha” “narcissistic abuse” “the weather is so bipolar” SHUT UP!!!!!! SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!!

#ocd #actually ocd #psychotic #actually psychotic #actually bipolar #bipolar disorder #cluster b #personality disorders #mental illness

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evilsystemm · 14 days

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uhh???

#npd #cluster b #npd safe #actually narcissistic #actually npd #npd culture is #npd traits #npd positivity #npd posting

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sin-esthezia · 7 months

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the thing that gets me the most about ableism against pd’s is that ppl will be like “these disorders make you an ASSHOLE!!!!” and then turn around and pretend that other disorders can’t and don’t make you act shitty.

depression and anxiety can make you irritable and snappy. they can cause you to refuse to listen to people and to be distant and withdrawn. they can cause you to seem angry, bitchy, rude, uncaring, etc.

ptsd causes an array of difficulties in forming meaningful relationships. it pretty much shakes up your entire worldview and sense of self a lot of the time. ptsd can cause you to get angry often. it can cause you to yell and scream. it can cause you to withdraw from others, run away, or cut them out. it can cause general changes in demeanor and more cynical worldviews. it can make you seem grouchy, negative, explosive, impolite, difficult, needy, controlling, etc.

and yet when people with personality disorders have symptoms of that nature, suddenly we are irredeemable monsters. when it’s npd, bpd, hpd, or aspd instead of ptsd or depression and anxiety, people suddenly and magically lose the ability to be understanding.

mental illness is an explanation, not an excuse. i firmly believe that. hurting others is never justified simply because you have any disorder.

but if you can be patient with people who have depression, anxiety, ptsd, ocd, or any other more well understood mental illness, you can be patient with us.

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