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autopsyfreak · 3 days

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tired of people on tiktok acting like BPD and HPD are the ‘good cluster b disorders’ or the ‘victim cluster b’s’ meanwhile NPD and ASPD are the ‘evil mean abusive cluster b’s’

stfu.

we’re in the same cluster for a reason, you can’t support some whilst demonising the others.

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starspd · 4 months

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people with personality disorders: it was difficult to survive on the ground, so i climbed in a tree and now im stuck and can’t get down

mental health workers (and everyone really): it seems that they climbed in trees to manipulate us. they are fully capable of getting down but doing so would make it harder to abuse us, so they stay there

#personality disorder #personality disorders #actually mentally ill #actually bpd #actually disabled #anti psych #cluster b personality disorder #cluster b #cluster b pds

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neuroticboyfriend · 8 months

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a lot of the time, abusers are just regular people. abuse is something we're all capable of - it's a pattern of harmful behavior in which there's power imbalance. we all hold various privileges, connections, and knowledge that can be turned into the power to abuse others. we can all exert our will, thoughts, feelings, etc. onto others in a way that hurts them and takes power away from them.

abusive people have done something horrible and inexcusable, yet they aren't... inherently special. they're people, capable of choosing between right and wrong, capable of change, just as much as others are. i say this in part because i think a lot of people have this lofty idea of abusers that leads them to think they couldn't possibly be a victim of abuse. but abuse can be incredibly mundane - and this also means we all have to watch out for abusive behaviors in ourselves.

abuse isn't just something Obviously Bad People (TM) are capable of... and abuse isn't caused by mental illness, substance use/addiction, gender, etc. etc., even if these things impact what happens. idk. there's no real end point to this post. i just wish people didn't mystify abuse, and realized how (deeply unfortunately) normal and subtle it can be... and often is.

#softspoonie #abuse #abuse survivor #trauma #ableism #sanism #mentally ill #cluster b #cluster b pd #cluster b personality disorder #personality disorders #mental illness #substance use #substance abuse #substance misuse #addiction

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siren--squid · 9 months

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Anyways, support people with low/no empathy, sympathy, and/or compassion.

Those things are not required to be a good person, and nobody should feel like those things are a requirement in life.

#low empathy #no empathy #low sympathy #no sympathy #low compassion #no compassion #neurodivergent #personality disorders #cluster b #cluster b personality disorder #npd #narcissistic personality disorder #autism #autistic #actually npd #actually autistic

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dollotron · 6 months

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the empath phenomena that's emerged in the past 5-10 years on the internet is borderlining on cult mentality. The term empath was originally coined in J.T. McIntosh's science fiction novel "The empath" which came out in 1956. It's about telepaths.

it very often feels like people online use faux psychology about empaths to honeytrap people. Once they've gotten people's attention they'll start talking about "narcissistic abuse", "the evil narcissist", and how people with low/no empathy are dangerous or inferior to "empaths".

It's easy to recruit people into belief structures that "benefit" them. especially if you're pandering to and preying on victims of abuse that want to feel seen and heard. The recruitees will then spread the word because they've been indoctrinated into the belief structure. This is what cults do.

This isn't a dig at people with hyper empathy. Use critical thinking when surfing the internet.

You are not superior for having more empathy than another person. Actions speak louder than words, and just because someone doesn't experience empathy doesn't mean their actions are 'bad'.

#i dont know if this makes sense #cluster b #cluster b personality disorder #npd #aspd #actually aspd #bpd #narcissistic personality disorder #hpd #antisocial personality disorder #narcissistic abuse #empath #mental health #tw ableism #ableism

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starfallensyndicate · 1 month

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It's funny how our narcissism influences how we love.

We see someone extraordinary and unique in a person we love. Someone who is finally on our level. Someone we are willing to show what perfect love means — and that they can experience it with us. We want to show them all the wonders of the world, give them a place beside us, with their own throne, beside ours. In the grandiose fantasies, we make room for them and especially for them.

It's not a manipulative, cold-blooded attempt at controlling someone when we do everything to make the person we fell for feel special — because we actually view this person as special. Why else would we want them around us.

Like, the need for association with extraordinary people and fantasies of ideal love are literally in the criteria, so what should anyone expect here?

#actually narcissistic #actually npd #npd #narcissistic personality disorder #actually cluster b #cluster b pd #cluster b #cluster b personality disorder

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necroticcadaver · 6 days

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Do not claim to be a mental health advocate or a safe space for the mentally ill if you demonise systems, cluster B personality disorders and/or psychotic disorders.

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will-pilled · 8 months

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It gets so... tiring hearing people speak about those of us with cluster B disorders like we're a completely different species who is incapable of reading and hearing the things they say. They speak like we're not even here.

Do they even feel love?

How to spot them.

They're so hard to manage.

I am a person. I am right here. I can hear you. You can just ask us instead of speaking like you're studying aliens. You can just... speak to us. You realize we're the same species right? Like, we have feelings, right?

You realize we're prisoners of our own mind, right? That we don't choose to suffer like this? We don't choose to need extra support? You know that, right?

You can just.. speak to us like people.. because it gets so tiring, and people can only withstand being treated like another species for so long before they get mad.

I'm just.. tired.

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maegamists · 1 month

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woke up in the middle of the night mumbling something about how npd supply is basically "getting your narcussy slonked" and i don't think i've mentally recovered from that yet

#npd safe #npd #actually narcissistic #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #actually cluster b #narcissistic pd #npd positivity #actually npd #npd awareness #cluster b personality disorder #cluster b pds #narc abuse isn't real

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violentviolette · 1 year

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i think a lot of people would benefit from internalizing the reality that just because u had a negative emotion doesnt always mean someone else did something wrong

we can be hurt without someone else being to blame for being the epicenter of that hurt. just because something makes us upset or hurts us, doesnt mean the other person made a mistake or should have done something differently or needs to apologize

negative emotions are an inevitable part of life and sometimes they were always going to happen no matter what because of the situation and there was no way to avoid them and thats okay. sometimes there's nothing to be done to fix a negative emotion or prevent it from happening. sometimes people we love and care about are going to hurt us and thats okay. its a part of being human. we will inevitably do the same to them. but just because we were hurt doesnt mean they did something wrong.

and we can take the time and space to be upset about that privately without involving them in our emotions at all. because even when our emotions are triggered by someone else, that doesnt mean they have to answer for them

the world is not divided into victims and perpetrators and sometimes people hurt us when they do the right thing. sometimes everyone can do everything right and we can still get hurt and be upset. that doesnt make them bad people and it doesnt give us the right to blame them for it or hold them responsible

#jack.speaks #aspd #npd #bpd #hpd #cluster b #cluster b pd #cluster b personality disorder #dbt

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a-sip-of-milo · 8 months

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Everyone with a personality disorder deserves an unlimited supply of their favourite food and drinks, along with their favourite form of affection from someone they trust to go with it.

#personality disorder #cluster b #cluster a #cluster c #cluster b safe #cluster a safe #cluster c safe #cluster b positivity #cluster a positivity #cluster c positivity #cluster c personality disorder #cluster a personality disorders #cluster b personality disorder

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autopsyfreak · 1 day

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seeing NPD + ASPD positivity posts on any other platform being met with literal thousands of people flooding the comments to try and justify their ableism and discriminatory behaviour towards us is so fucking gut wrenching

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thenarc-angel · 28 days

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hey btw narcissists are so pretty and deserve to do whatever they want all the time because they're a joy to be around. the world would be so sad and awful without them.

^me petting all my fellow narcissists because I love you

#narcangel speaks #narcangel love #npd positivity #npd supply #npd love #actually npd #npd #npd safe #narcissist supply #actually narcissistic #narcissistic personality disorder #narcblr #narc supply #cluster b safe #actually cluster b #cluster b positivity #cluster b personality disorder #cluster b

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mischiefmanifold · 6 months

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hey guys guess what my therapist told me today:

it's totally normal to view most of your interactions with other people similarly to how villager interactions in Minecraft work (I give you something and you give me something, transactional relationships)!

this is mostly for my fellow cluster B's who struggle with feeling like everyone around them is an NPC and that their interactions are incredibly superficial

that's normal, especially for survivors of complex trauma like us

#cluster b #actually cluster b #npd #aspd #bpd #hpd #actually npd #actually aspd #cluster b personality disorder #therapy stuff

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neuroticboyfriend · 1 year

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i just realized, when we talk about certain mental illnesses and neurodivergencies being very stigmatized... the word we're looking for is demonized.

psychosis. plurality. addiction. personality disorders (namely cluster B). paraphilic disorders. people with these (and more) are treated like monsters simply for existing.

it's not wrong to say we're heavily stigmatized, but the word demonized makes what they're doing undeniable. i think people deserve to be directly confronted with their sanism.

but even more than that, mentally ill and neurodivergent people deserve the same rights and respect as everyone else. step one in that is acknowledging the hurt being done to us - all of us. not just the MI and ND people you find acceptable.

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clusterblood · 4 months

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having personality disorders is sooo funny couse if I have at least two hours of feeling great, I forget I have em

#npd #npd safe #actually npd #poetry #bpd #actually bpd #aspd #bpd safe #actually aspd #aspd safe #actually cluster b #cluster b personality disorder #personality disorder #whatever #tags give me attention #object permanence #emotional permanence #im fully aware this is part of the disorders lol

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