npd culture is unintentionally treating others like they also have NPD. like oh? you've earned my respect? well this is how my brain works so i will treat you how everyone should treat me

like giving non pwNPD supply n shit instead of however the fuck you're supposed to interact positively with people and offer support

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npd culture is having a bpd best friend who compliments you and fulfills your love language needs in return for your comfort and reassurance and having it be the best goddamn friendship you've ever had

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uhh???

sorry for being mentally ill and actually having symptoms it will happen again xoxo

dear npd people with manipulative tendencies that theyre working on, i love you

dear npd people with manipulative tendencies that they can't work on, i love you

dear npd people with intrusive thoughts, i love you

dear npd people with a billion different blogs for all the possible attention, i love you

dear npd people with low or no empathy who dont try to mask it, i love you

dear npd people with low or no empathy who DO try to mask it, i love you

dear npd people who have been told they're wrong their whole lives, i love you

dear npd people, i love you

my abuser had brown hair im a victim of brunette abuse :(

I wish people who believe in narcissistic abuse and act like people with NPD are so evil were not even human understood that having NPD can absolutely motivate people to do good things.

I have NPD and I work in education. At the school I work at, we have a couple Ukrainian kids who don’t speak English. I have begun learning Ukrainian (or well, trying to, this is my first time trying to learn a language that uses a different alphabet than English so progress is slow), specifically because I want to be the one to make these kiddos feel welcome. I want to be the one teacher who has put in effort to learn their language, rather than just trying to teach them ours. That’s a good thing to do, but if I didn’t have NPD I probably wouldn’t bother to do that and would just use google translate (like all the rest of the teachers).

I, like other narcissists, find that most of my motivation comes from looking for another narc high, and for me, I am much more likely to get a narc high from doing something good and feeling good about myself because I did something good, than I ever would from making someone else feel bad about themself. Why would I spend my time going around hurting other people for no reason when I could put my effort into doing something actually cool and then everyone will think I’m awesome because I actually did something awesome?

I know I’m not the only narcissist like this, but sure, let’s keep spreading the rhetoric that narcissists only exist to hurt people.

Cluster B Culture is knowing you will never be able to fully enjoy true crime because pretty much all true crime creators are constantly throwing around the words "psychopathic" "psycho" "sociopathic" and "narcissistic" as if they're being paid for every ableist insult they can come up with and pin them on perpetrators like an armchair diagnosis right after calling them evil and demonic as if they're synonyms for personality disorders

That precious moment when people call you toxic, manipulative, evil, cruel, and any other "bad" adjective, and instead of feeling guilty you feel drugged on supply. Please, keep talking sweetheart. I'm near divine at this point.

NPD culture is "Yes. Rely on me. I'm everything to you." And "God leave me ALONE you co-dependant LOSER." At the same time.

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egotypicals will get upset pwnpd often have superiority complexes, but will go around talking about us as if we’re subhuman monsters, implying they see us as below them and are superior? ok girl

you have any fucking word in the dictionary to describe your abuse. please stop using the one that describes a personality disorder

Does anybodys npd make them egotistical but only internal? I dont really show my npd its more of “YES IM THE BEST EVERYONE ELSE SUCKS” but then i actually interact with people and all they see is a anxious idiot in a sweater and shorts listening to shitty vocaloid music

‘you just think you’re better than everyone’

yes. yes i do.