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Using narcissist as an insult is stupid, let's start using it as a compliment
🫵 You. You're a narcissist. /Pos.
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"Narcissists expect you to sacrifice your personal life in order to serve them."
That's not narcissists. That's capitalists.
And they don't even try to hide it. They say it openly. They openly declare that it's "good work ethic" for workers to prioritize work over anything else, to always be productive no matter what personal struggles they have, and to never take days off.
They normalize an economic system that praises selfishness then demonize mentally ill people for being selfish.
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theconcealedweapon · 2 days
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Why do you not believe in narcissistic abuse? Or what’s your stance on that?
Because there's no pattern of abuse that's exclusive to narcissists. Everything that gets labeled as "narcissistic abuse" is a pattern that people with enough power and privilege have on a regular basis. Calling it "narcissistic abuse" scapegoats mentally ill people while giving mentally sane people with the same patterns a free pass.
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deceiver-of-god · 3 days
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I am convinced that, objectively, I am better than the vast majority of people I interact with, especially in the academic field. No matter how hard I try, there is no one who can compare to me. Nobody has such good ideas, nor works so efficiently, nor is so perfectionist or detail-oriented, nor has so much knowledge, nor creates such correct work. My contributions are impeccable. How sad it seems to me that I have to interact with people with abilities so far below mine. How dare they even be in the same class as me?
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mx-seraph · 6 months
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I love you people who show kindness because "it's what you're supposed to do". I love you people who show kindess because they like being thanked. I love you people who show kindness because it makes them feel good. I love you people who show kindness because they were shown kindness first. I love you people who show kindness for "selfish" reasons. I love you people who show kindness for the "wrong" reasons. I love you people who show kindness in a body that rejects the very notion. Your kindness is not any lesser because of its motivations. The good you added to the world is just as valuable as someone doing it for the "right" reasons. Your effort is seen. Your effort is valued.
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sin-esthezia · 6 months
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the thing that gets me the most about ableism against pd’s is that ppl will be like “these disorders make you an ASSHOLE!!!!” and then turn around and pretend that other disorders can’t and don’t make you act shitty.
depression and anxiety can make you irritable and snappy. they can cause you to refuse to listen to people and to be distant and withdrawn. they can cause you to seem angry, bitchy, rude, uncaring, etc.
ptsd causes an array of difficulties in forming meaningful relationships. it pretty much shakes up your entire worldview and sense of self a lot of the time. ptsd can cause you to get angry often. it can cause you to yell and scream. it can cause you to withdraw from others, run away, or cut them out. it can cause general changes in demeanor and more cynical worldviews. it can make you seem grouchy, negative, explosive, impolite, difficult, needy, controlling, etc.
and yet when people with personality disorders have symptoms of that nature, suddenly we are irredeemable monsters. when it’s npd, bpd, hpd, or aspd instead of ptsd or depression and anxiety, people suddenly and magically lose the ability to be understanding.
mental illness is an explanation, not an excuse. i firmly believe that. hurting others is never justified simply because you have any disorder.
but if you can be patient with people who have depression, anxiety, ptsd, ocd, or any other more well understood mental illness, you can be patient with us.
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frogsforthefrogwar · 1 year
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We love people with low and no empathy here!
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fella-lovin-fella · 3 months
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hey i just wanted to give a shout out to people with personality disorders real quick. your disorder doesn't make you evil, it doesnt make you an abuser, and it doesnt make you unlovable. you're just as deserving of respect, care, and support as people without personality disorders. stay safe, i love you and i hope you have a happy holiday season. we're in this together <3
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mirroringshards · 6 months
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you have any fucking word in the dictionary to describe your abuse. please stop using the one that describes a personality disorder
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only-man-in-the-sky · 1 month
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"a narcissist's eyes will turn pure black" you mean like an adorable kitty cat?? an adorable kitty cat who saw a fun toy??
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chaosdisorganized · 1 year
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I just discovered a narcissistic abuse believer in my followers. So friendly reminder:
I love people with npd. People with npd deserve compassion and understanding. People with npd are not inherently abusive just because they have a disorder. No disorder is "abusive person disorder" and people with npd deserve so much better. I love narcissists and I hope they have a lovely day.
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witch-of-the-creek · 8 months
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Reblog to kiss a narcissist on the forehead
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Parents: "I demand that my children obey me without question. I hit them if they don't. I believe that all problems in the world are caused by children not being hit enough. I yell at my children and consider it disrespect if they yell back. I control my children's interests and career choices. If my children are disabled or LGBT, I demand that they act normal in order to protect my image."
Landlords: "I intentionally put myself in a position where people must benefit me in order to have access to life's necessities. I use people for my own personal gain and discard them like garbage if they stop being useful to me."
CEOs: "I demand that people prioritize my personal gain over anything else. I demand that people care about me while I openly refuse to care about them. I do everything I can to stop people from unionizing so I can maintain power over them."
Police: "I demand that people obey me at all times. I believe that it's my right to kill people if they don't obey me. I terrorize anyone who I can get away with terrorizing then act like the victim when people say that they don't like me. I'm violent on a regular basis while expecting protesters to always be peaceful."
White, Christian, Cis-Het, Neurotypical Men: "I intentionally twist what oppressed people say on a regular basis. I assume that they want power when it's very clear that they want equality. I go out of my way to start arguments with them in order to overwhelm them so they eventually say something wrong that I can use against them."
Conservatives: "I openly brag about how unfair the world is and anyone who doesn't like it is a crybaby special snowflake. Fuck your feelings."
Narcissists: "I was abused and had to be selfish in order to survive it."
Society: "ZOMG NARCISSISTS ARE EVIL! NARCISSISTS ARE SELFISH AND HAVE NO COMPASSION FOR OTHERS!"
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a-sip-of-milo · 7 months
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NPD Resources Masterlist
[BPD]
The official resources masterlist for NPD. Includes all the links I've shared in the past and stuff I haven't.
Any posts I've linked about supporting those with NPD have been put in the misc section because I do not want to take away from what this post is really about, which is helping people with NPD, not the people around them.
Diagnostic criteria
NPD diagnostic criteria, rewritten by someone who has it
Official diagnostic criteria
An explanation of the diagnostic criteria
Recovery resources FOR the narcissist
NPD recovery resources
How to find therapy for NPD, common types of therapy and signs of an abusive/toxic therapist
Narcissist supply
What is narc supply?
Things that can give a narcissist supply
NPD stigma
The perception of NPD symptoms vs. how a narcissist might actually experience them
Why those with NPD have a hard time seeking help (spoiler alert: it's not because they're unaware)
A plea from someone with NPD (and some resources debunking common misconceptions)
Narcissism is not abusive / abuse is abusive
Debunking common myths on NPD
Common disproven myths about NPD
Miscellaneous
How to support someone with NPD
NPD Carrd (What is NPD, dpt skills and self-help)
Unravelling the connection: npd as a trauma response
NPD terminology (do's and dont's)
NPD safe blogs
@empath-abuse-awareness
@enigma-in-reality
@loverofmirage
@the-npd-culture-is
@nicepersondisorder
@theegosystem
@mischiefmanifold
NPD positivity so you don't have to go looking
Reblog to kiss a narcissist on the forehead
Reblog to tell your local narcissist that they're the best ever
Happy NPD appreciation day
Positivity for systems with NPD
Be normal about narcissists unless it's to give them love
NPD should be EPD (Epic Personality Disorder)
Of course I have a praise kink, I have NPD
Narcissists are so beautiful and handsome and wonderful
Positivity for narcissists who like sex
I love my narcissists
Aromantic narcissists are amazing
Narcissists I love you
Easy ways to spot a narcissist (it's not what you think &lt;;3)
Narcissists deserve to be loved
As usual, if something needs to be deleted because it's wrong/comes from a toxic author/etc. please let me know. I tried to look on Google but all I found was ableist shit, so these are all found by your fellow narcissists on tumblr :)
Edit: If you have any resources, please send them to me through an ask or DM and i'll check it out/add it!
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cupboard-of-npd · 3 months
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Woe I made a hyper specific NPD bingo
Egotypicals can interact just dont be weird
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narcitism · 21 days
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reblog to kiss a narcissist on the mouth (with passion)
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