(questioning) cluster b culture is accidentally telling someone about your homicidal ideation and them saying "it's ok lots of people have intrusive thoughts about that." no. you don't get it. I LIKE thinking about this. It makes me feel BETTER.

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BPD (and suspecting NPD maybe?) Culture is hearing a therapist online say that they think their clients with BPD endure more pain than anyone else they see, and going "teehee that's so true", and feeling compelled to repeat it to your friends constantly like, "Hey, see how this guy says I'm constantly in emotional pain, it's so true, why don't you pay attention to me and pity me for how miserable I am all the time (BECAUSE YOU NEVER TALK TO ME!!!!!)"

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cluster B culture is not understanding why everyone gets so upset when you don't apologize for something you aren't sorry for (what, you really want me to just lie? where are your manners??)

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BPD culture is feeling yourself getting fixated on a person (platonically or not) and just knowing you're going to fuck it up by being too clingy...

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ASPD culture is "I actually wasn't trying to give you attitude right now, I was perfectly calm, but now that you've perceived me as attacking you I might as well lean into that, so fuck you actually"

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cluster b culture is being the walking definition of “when they go low, i go lower”

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aspd culture is grossing people out, creeping people out, and cringing people out on purpose for some sense of control over them. aspd culture is loving to know that youre hated.

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npd culture is firmly believing that you are better than everyone while also hating yourself and believing you’re worthless because you’re not “winning” at life

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Quiet BPD culture is really needing attention from someone, but the thought of asking for it and being ignored/rejected is even more painful than just continuing to feel alone

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BPD culture is being sick and tired of the BPD TikToks you keep seeing that also demonize NPD like!!! No!!!! Stop it!!! NPD = friends!!!!! Who also deserve to not be stigmatized!!!!

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Cluster b culture is being scared of getting into new relationships because people get upset when you tell them your diagnosis. How are we supposed to know if they're safe to tell unless we bring it up?

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Cluster B culture is being genuinely shocked when you learn that most people don’t have homicidal thoughts multiple times a day or even more than once a week. Are people not getting angry or is that just not their first impulse?

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cluster b culture is pretending you're cold and heartless when you self isolate but you're waiting for them to text and check up on you

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Cluster B culture is never feeling safe around neurotypicals. They are constantly exhibiting the the exact same behaviors that they will demonize and dismiss you for as a cluster B. Being manipulative, gaslighting you, and even hitting you is totally fine and "just a mistake", but god forbid you yell or call them names in response- then you are a total monster!

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bpd culture is "yeah, i struggle a bit with mood swings haha" "yeah, you do" "woah hey what the fuck is that supposed to mean!?"

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bpd culture is wishing your FP was as obsessed with you as you are with them, when in reality, you wouldn't wish this kind of pain and suffering on your worst enemy

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