I know we say don't dwell on your past and don't dwell on your mistakes but yeah you know sometimes you gotta dwell on it. Sometimes you've got to sit down with purpose and intent of getting to know well first of all am I okay now? What the fuck was that? Why the fuck did it happen, who played their roles, what the roles even were, you know? Sometimes yeah you really do need to sit down and go back over it. Get that breakdown and closure and let it change you in a different kind of way. Let it shape you in a way that says "i don't ever want that to happen again. How do I get out? What are the signs? How do I protect myself?"
Yanno? 🌸
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grieving the person you used to be
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Sorry to break yall's hearts but this is too well written of a post to not include in here.
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Can we please for the love of god stop telling teenagers they’re too young to have aches and pains. Can we please stop being dismissive about these things. Fakeclaiming is disgusting period, but it is exponentially harmful to youth. Just because you didn’t start hurting until your 20s or 30s or 40s doesn’t mean every teenager complaining of chronic pain must be lying. I learned the hard way that if kids are invalidated enough about this, they will just learn to accept constant pain as a fact of life. And then they will need surgery they can’t afford in ten years bc it turns out constant pain is NOT a fact of life. At any age.
p.s. same goes for mental health
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who else mourning the person they could've been if they were treated kindly as a child
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To anyone who was suicidal at age 14 or younger, here’s your permission to grieve. Here’s your permission to not joke about it or just flat out ignore it. Here’s your permission to acknowledge that lost child who felt way more pain than any child should ever feel. You’re allowed to cry for that child, whether you healed or are still suffering the same thoughts. Finally allow yourself to grieve for that child filled with undeserved hurt.
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you're not a monster. you're you. you're flawed, yes, but you're also incredibly alive. just human. real. capable of great things, capable of change and growth, too. don't define yourself by the inner critic lashing out at you. you're not your worst moments.
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