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healing-is-cool · 1 year

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After you leave a toxic or abusive environment, a lot of normal things are going to feel weird, and just plainly awful at the beginning. Buying that thing you've always wanted can make you feel guilty for spending money on yourself. Resting can feel a lot more like being lazy. Safety and happiness can feel so temporary, almost like you are just waiting for life to get bad again.

It's normal, it's part of the process. You will get used to be at peace. To feel joy. To be safe. I know you will<3

#mental health #self love #recovery #self care #kindness #positivity #trauma healing #narcissticabuseawareness #narcissist parents #trauma survivors #trauma

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narcitism · 2 months

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seeing things like "how to TORTURE and KILL a NARCISSIST" isn't very fun, imagine if we made things called "HOW TO SLAUGHTER AND MAKE AN EMPATH BLEED OUT!!!!!" i think we would get shot

#narcissistic personality disorder #actually narcissistic #npd #narcissism positivity #npder #npd positivity #narc abuse isn’t real #narcissistic abuse #npd safe #narcissistic abuse isn’t real #narcissticabuseawareness #narcissism #narcisst #narcissistic awareness #npd traits #narc posting #narcissistic abuse awareness #raised by narcissists #empath

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thelonelyelysium · 1 year

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I wish anyone who uses the term “narc abuse” “narcissistic abuse” a very bad holidays and I hope your tree burns for you being ableist. And if you don’t celebrate Christmas I hope your oven catches fire like in the sims

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redflagbreakfast · 1 year

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Introduction:

Buckle up, because this ride is going to be a doozy, and I already know it, and the story has just begun. I am constantly drawn to successful, handsome men who fall head over heels for me and do all the things I could dream of to win my affection in return. Sounds like a dream, right?

But hold on to your panties, ladies, because these guys aren’t your typical prince charmings. Nope, they’re narcissists. And guess what? Now I’m going dates with them on purpose! I don’t seek them out, they find me, and rather than immediately, turning down, I simply stick around long enough to journal about the red flags.

Now, some of you may be thinking, “Why the hell would someone willingly subject themselves to dating a narcissist?” Well, friends, let me tell you – it’s all for the sake of education, entertainment and training purposes only.

You see, I, like many women out there, have been taken advantage of by narcissistic men in the past. But instead of wallowing in self-pity and bitterness, I’ve decided to take matters into my own hands. I’m dating these men as a social experiment to learn their ways, document the red flags as they happen, and ultimately teach women how to be in control. I mean…what could possibly go wrong?

I will be writing this journal in real time, and sharing past stories of my spectacular dating failures along the way. So obviously, I don’t even know how this ends. Maybe it’s a journal of my ultimate demise, maybe I fall prey to one of these men, or even worse, fall in love because I am not as tuned in as I think I am. But, I doubt it, Fuck, I eat red flags for breakfast.

And let me tell you, the red flags are already flying high…and it has only been a few short weeks. Love bombing, jealousy, and a sense of entitlement – these guys have it all. But I’m not one to back down from a challenge. As an entrepreneur who owns multiple companies in male dominated markets, I know a thing or two about taking charge.

So join me on this potentially haphazardness roller coaster. Let’s take a page out of these narcissist’s play books and learn how to be in control, no matter the situation. Who knows, you may even pick up a few dating tips along the way (but let’s be real, probably not from them).

#red flags #dating #covert narcissism #gaslighting #entrepreneurship #abuse survivor #abuse recovery #narcissticabuseawareness #domestic violent relationships #healing from trauma #ptsd flashbacks

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ouidepressoespresso · 1 year

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and when I cut all contact, I hope you realize what you’ve done.

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niceboyeds · 11 months

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there is nothing wrong with cutting off toxic family. there is nothing wrong with blocking numbers. there is nothing wrong with standing up for yourself. there is nothing wrong with doing what is best for you. there is nothing wrong with protecting your peace. there is nothing wrong with any of the choices you are making to help yourself heal from whatever trauma happened to you.

#feeling a lot of things rn #this is harder than i thought #things i wish people would say to me #toxic people #toxic family #narcissticabuseawareness #narcissistic father #childhood trauma

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oasisr · 10 months

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Getting yelled at by your family members for being the voice of reason or just trying to communicate and work out complex issues is a sign that your family is filled with toxic narcissists.

#I swear my entire family is like this #narcissistic #narcissistic men #narcissistic abuse #malignant narcissism #narcissists #narcissist #narcissticabuseawareness #raised by narcissists #narcissistic personality disorder #npd #abusers #toxic #family #justnofamily

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orlandoswords · 2 years

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if you’ve ever loved a narcissist, this is for you

yes, my pain became anger

portrayed as numbness’ rage

because who can stand your selfish soul

scraping against the skin

with it’s dull and rusted blade

i am not the first

to fall victim to your ruthless game

nor will i be the last

because you never change

you only replace

“this time will be different” you say

only to still gaslight, lie, blame, manipulate

chaos is all your “love” creates

go ahead

convince the world your new love is great

but your new victim

just hasn’t seen through your fake

you are a parasite

taking love and taking life

you find good and kill it

you hate it because it’s nothing like you

you have no faith

the shame that you wear as chains

is all that guides your way

you leave casualties

like the clouds leave rain

if only i could have seen your soul

instead of your face

if only i had known that your body

is your only grace

i’d have run miles and miles away

you tell your friends i changed

that i was unstable

that i was deranged

tell them i was insecure and paranoid

tell them all about my reactions

to your abuse

and avoid telling them everything you’d do

go ahead, paint yourself as the victim

but don’t ever say you had good intentions

because you’d have put a rope

around my neck; pushed me over the edge

and watched me choke to death

if you had to choose between me

or cheap validation

and more money on your paycheck

everything i had, i gave

and you gladly kept it

but what am i left with?

this knife in my chest

cuts on skin

poison on my lips

that’s it

you create messes

and leave so you don’t have to clean it

you cut me

but became upset that i was bleeding

then you poured bleach on my skin

and said i was insane for screaming

these people aren’t like you and i

they lie with dead eyes

they can tell you they love you

and sleep with others at the same time

there is no remorse or regret in their kind

no conscience in their mind

they break you down within an inch of your life

just to watch you lose your mind

and leave you there at your lowest

but only after they’ve found their new supply

whom they cannot love but can only idolize

as much as it hurts to admit it

this is what happens

when you love a narcissist

#narcissticabuseawareness #love

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razzleberryjam · 2 years

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Not all narcissists are abusers, not all abusers are narcissists, but narcissistic abuse is a specific pattern of abusive behavior produced by a narcissist who is abusive. It's that simple, and it's also important to recognize narcissistic abuse as being related to narcissism as that is how both the abuser and victim can get treatment, especially since narcissistic abuse directly causes Borderline Personality Disorder

#npd #bpd #narc abuse #narcissticabuseawareness

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escapingabuse · 9 months

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I wanted to share this article my grandma on my mom's side sent me.

This article talks about what it means to have a narcissistic parent and the outcome that it has on the children who live with it.

#narcissticabuseawareness #parental abuse #escapingabuse #culty #narcissistic father

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finleyforevermore · 11 months

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#so this is a thing now...#if my wounds were visible #world narcissistic abuse awareness day #narcissticabuseawareness #narcissist abuse

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narcitism · 2 months

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*claws at the walls of my cage.*

pls...... nnarc supply,,...... i won't bite yo u again........

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thefakersystem · 7 months

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narc abuse is real and the push against acknowledging it is just from narcissists trying to escape blame for their actions

#npd things #npd safe #npd positivity #npd #actually npd #npd tag #npd culture is #npd posting #npd vent #actually narcissistic #narcissistic abuse #narcissistic personality disorder #narc abuse #narcissistic gaslighting #narcissticabuseawareness

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trekahouse · 10 months

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I had to learn in the most devastating fashion that he didn’t know how to love, but he damn sure wanted all of the love I had to give. He made himself a victim of everything, and used that to gain my empathy. It was suppose to be a trap, but I escaped. I don’t care how he explains my escape. I don’t care how he villainize me. Just know that my mind is free and I finally have peace. This is going to be hard to hear. He will never love you, no matter what you do or how much you do it. Not because you don’t deserve love, he’s merely incapable. He doesn’t know how. But he’s not going to tell you that, because he loves all the ways that you love him. He loves how you pacify, make excuses and sacrifice yourself for him. He loves how hard you work to prove your love. He’s going to drain you in every capacity, and eventually you’re going to feel like nothing is ever enough. And you’re right, it never will be, because darling he’s empty. He’s an endless pit of darkness and he’s trying to drag you into the tunnel of nothingness with him. You are next in line for everything that he said about me and did to me. Sadly, it just might be worse for you. I wish I could rescue you, but right now you’re busy trying to prove that you’re different. He has projected all of his negative behavior onto me and you believe it. So unfortunately, you can’t be saved. You have to find out like the rest of us. Just remember that when you finally wake up to the man behind the mask, to give yourself some grace. He’s good at fooling people.

Treka L. House

— I pray for you often.🧎🏾‍♀️

#covert narcissism #narcissisticgaslighting #narcissticabuseawareness #triangulation #recovery #trekahouse #inspirational quotes #motivational quotes #life quotes #love quotes #positive quotes #life lessons #encouraging quotes #words of wisdom #i love you

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god-of-defenestration · 2 years

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Narcissism is a mental illness, not an adjective. “Narcissistic abuse” isn’t real, and the odds are that the ex or ex friend that you armchair diagnosed as an evil narcissist is just a shitty person, end of story. When a person with depression is abusive, we don’t call it depressive abuse. When an autistic person is abusive, we don’t call it autistic abuse. Stop using narcissistic abuse as a hashtag. Stop using it as a term. You’re perpetuating a harmful stereotype about a mental illness. You cannot claim to care about mental health or mental health awareness if you demonize NPD.

#I understand npd can be difficult and scary #both for the person who has it and for the ppl around them #but the shit they say about narcissists being subhuman and incapable of empathy #is exactly the shit they said about other mental illnesses neurodivergencies #don't do that shit #narcissistic abuse #narcissist #narcissticabuseawareness #npd #narcissistic personality disorder #personality disorder #actually bipolar #bpd #mental health #mental health awareness #mental illness

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thelonelyelysium · 1 year

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"Narc" Abuse = Emotional Abuse

It's funny seeing something so relatable to you on instagram regarding family trauma or relationship drama in general then you look at the tags to see it is tagged under "Narcissistic abuse" AND "Emotional abuse". FYI they are the same thing, one is an incorrect and ableist version while the other is the correct version.

Then you get to the comments and it is so MUCH worse, especially when someone is trying to educate these people who refuse to educate themselves and trauma dump to justify their ableist views and why they use narc abuse as a term to describe an abuser.

NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) stems from trauma that causes an emotional imbalance, which causes unwanted out-lashes towards those they love and are close to. This is why ACCOUNTABILITY is important for the person with NPD (or really any disorder that has horrible symptoms that one cannot control), it is also important for the other person to understand that the person with NPD cannot control their symptoms. You can be hurt because it is an emotion that will happen regardless, but you cannot use ableistic terms on them especially if they are trying to heal and trying to do better

Narc Abuse DOES NOT EXIST and if you believe it does your are an extremely horrible and disgusting person who needs more therapy than people with NPD do. Don't use terms that aren't for you to use and don't just water the term down because you gained the wrong information and choose to believe it instead of listening to those who struggle with the stigma every single day

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