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narcissisticpdcultureis · 1 day

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covert npd (maybe) is when you see other peoples writings get more love than yours when yours is obviously a lot better and i’m just going to assume that everyone person in the fandom is a raging transphobe since i write the characters as trans a lot and it doesn’t get as much love as the cis ones. i’m clearly better and have more creativity than everyone else. why does what they have in their pants matter so much to people?? assholes.

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#npd culture is #covert npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #covert npd #covert narcissist #covert narcissism

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love-me-love-my-weirdness · 5 months

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Sick and tired of narcissists being talked about like mythological wild animals. I just read something that described covert narcissists as “highly defensive and extremely hostile”. I’m not a skittish dog. Why can’t you put it as “traumatised with extreme trust issues” like you would for any other less stigmatised disorder?

#npd #actually narcissistic #cluster b #actually npd #npd safe #actually cluster b #covert narcissism #narc abuse isn't real

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selfhealingmoments · 3 months

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#closure #toxic friends #toxic relationship #toxic people #narcissist #narcissistic personality disorder #covert narcissism #covert narcissist #mindgames #mind games #manipulation #manipulative #victimhood #victim mentality #move on #moving on #let it go #let them go #letting go

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cccat-in-a-meat-sack · 3 months

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A list of narc abuse believers for all my lovely pwNPD to block <333

@dragon-master-kai

@liquid-pie

@understandingclusterb-npd

@beenthereregrettedthat

@wilwheaton (hasn't been on for a few months but oh well)

@terrified-of-life

@secretlykoishi

@lostmf (I believe)

@nothing0fnothing

@greenevergreens

@silent-t0n

@not-a-narc-apologist

@anscathmarcach (they blocked me boo hoo)

@galactic-spec-of-dust

@selkie-ifs

@internum--urbes (also hasn't been on for a while)

@daughterofanarcissistwoman

@narcissistic-abuse-blog (wow they have their own blog :0 they hate borderlines too just so y'all know)

@furiousgoldfish

@webanglikethat (not 100% sure????)

@jay7vera

@daringdaphne

@enbygunderson

@houseofdonald

@uncoveringthenarcissist

@callmecandle

@dontbestupiditsnotthathard

@soberscientistlife (doesn't really believe in narc abuse per se, but still is very anti-NPD)

@survivingnarcissism

@howtohealfromnarcissisticabuse

@healingchildhoodtrauma

@snapnarissisticabuserecovery

@narcsurvior (either the above two blocked me or their blogs don't exist anymore)

@beauspot

@cosmic0de

@howtohealfromnarcissisticabuse

@narcopathicabuse

@narcsurvivor

@actuallydiagnosedtraumagenic (says that's it's okay to say you can be a narcissist without having NPD)

To find these people I used the following tags: #narcissistic abuse #narcissistic abuse is real #raised by narcissists #surviving narcissism

This is not an argument post. If you want to argue, shoot me an ask. This is a blocklist so that pwNPD can feel safe. You don't like, block me or send an ask. I am not here to care about your feelings. This list is also not complete/definitive. If you have other people to add, again, send an ask or comment. I love you NPD's <333

#overt narc #overt narcissist #overt npd #covert narcissism #covert npd #pro npd #npd stigma #npd positivity #actually npd #npd safe #npd #narcissism #actually narcissistic #narcissistic personality disorder #It Talks #It Disagrees

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trekahouse · 9 months

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Do yourself a huge favor, and run as fast as you can from people who are running from their healing. Behaviors never lie. People who deny themselves in the mirror, will deny your reality and cause you your sanity.

Treka L. House

— when the mask slips, don’t talk yourself out of what you see. trust your intuition.

#trekahouse #inspirational quotes #motivational quotes #life quotes #love quotes #positive quotes #life lessons #encouraging quotes #words of wisdom #i love you #covert narcissism #covert npd #covert abuse #narcissistic trauma #gaslighters #emotional manipulation

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shelovesplants · 18 days

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Narcissistic abuse is REAL.. You matter, don't let anyone tell you otherwise 🙌

Please reblog, for narcissist survivors 🙌✨️

#narcissistic abuse #mental abuse #mental health #mental illness #narcissistic personality disorder #covert narcissism #reblog #you matter #you are loved #my post

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poetrybyonur · 4 months

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It’s about the emotional void that they so desperately try to fill with another’s soul. They will often seek supply online or elsewhere in the guise of making “soul connections,” to satiate the emotional emptiness they contain and to satisfy their constant hunger that is needed to feed their egos.

#poets on tumblr #love quotes #love poetry #romantic poetry #love poem #romantic writer #onurtaskiran poetry #poets and writers #gentleman poet #love #relationships #friendships #vulnerable narcissist #covert narcissism #empty soul #writers on tumblr #poetrybyonur #spilled ink #sad quotes

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connieaaa · 2 years

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I remember being 17 and working at a retirement community. I made a casual comment to an 84 year old man about his ADHD.

He replied a very confused, "What?"

Me: "ADHD, it used to be called hyperkinesis back in the day." *proceeds to explain ADHD*

Him: *in shock nearly crying* "There is a name for it? I always thought I was broken"

Variations of this scene have played out for me again, and again, and again. The last time was less than 10 days ago.

Quirky kids who declare that they are just like me. Parents of Autistic kids in shock that I can have a "normal" conversation but still occasionally head bang in frustration. Explaining a specific learning disability, and having someone shout "That's a thing?! I was told I was stupid".

This is what I think about when I hear Semler's Thank God For That lyrics, "Hallelujah, we are all fucking weird, and there is a place for you at the table, honey, here."

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j7cvera · 4 months

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Gaslighting at its best. Be careful of these predators.

#toxic #narcissistic abuse #parentalalienation #mental health #child abuse #narcissisticgaslighting #gaslighting #narcissist parents #trash #truth #fucking cowards #slander #emotional abuse #manipulation #female manipulator #covert narcissism #toxic femininity

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redflagbreakfast · 1 year

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Introduction:

Buckle up, because this ride is going to be a doozy, and I already know it, and the story has just begun. I am constantly drawn to successful, handsome men who fall head over heels for me and do all the things I could dream of to win my affection in return. Sounds like a dream, right?

But hold on to your panties, ladies, because these guys aren’t your typical prince charmings. Nope, they’re narcissists. And guess what? Now I’m going dates with them on purpose! I don’t seek them out, they find me, and rather than immediately, turning down, I simply stick around long enough to journal about the red flags.

Now, some of you may be thinking, “Why the hell would someone willingly subject themselves to dating a narcissist?” Well, friends, let me tell you – it’s all for the sake of education, entertainment and training purposes only.

You see, I, like many women out there, have been taken advantage of by narcissistic men in the past. But instead of wallowing in self-pity and bitterness, I’ve decided to take matters into my own hands. I’m dating these men as a social experiment to learn their ways, document the red flags as they happen, and ultimately teach women how to be in control. I mean…what could possibly go wrong?

I will be writing this journal in real time, and sharing past stories of my spectacular dating failures along the way. So obviously, I don’t even know how this ends. Maybe it’s a journal of my ultimate demise, maybe I fall prey to one of these men, or even worse, fall in love because I am not as tuned in as I think I am. But, I doubt it, Fuck, I eat red flags for breakfast.

And let me tell you, the red flags are already flying high…and it has only been a few short weeks. Love bombing, jealousy, and a sense of entitlement – these guys have it all. But I’m not one to back down from a challenge. As an entrepreneur who owns multiple companies in male dominated markets, I know a thing or two about taking charge.

So join me on this potentially haphazardness roller coaster. Let’s take a page out of these narcissist’s play books and learn how to be in control, no matter the situation. Who knows, you may even pick up a few dating tips along the way (but let’s be real, probably not from them).

#red flags #dating #covert narcissism #gaslighting #entrepreneurship #abuse survivor #abuse recovery #narcissticabuseawareness #domestic violent relationships #healing from trauma #ptsd flashbacks

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narcissisticpdcultureis · 4 months

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Covert NPD is thinking you’re a worthless piece of shit most of the time but how DARE anyone else think that

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#npd culture is #covert npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #covert npd #covert narcissist #covert narcissism

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love-me-love-my-weirdness · 5 months

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This is why narcissistic abuse is not only an incorrect phrase but an incredibly harmful one. You search for npd recovery and get a bunch of bullshit about porn and how we’re all unloveable.

#npd #actually narcissistic #cluster b #actually cluster b #actually npd #npd safe #narc abuse isn't real #covert narcissism #narcissistic personality disorder #narc abuse

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chaos-in-one · 1 year

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People with npd: Hey can we not be treated like abusers just for our disorder and be treated like actual human beings instead of monsters?

'Narc abuse' mfs: Is this an excuse to trauma dump on a complete stranger who is most likely a trauma survivor already?

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giunass94 · 1 year

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E&D + Personality disorders

fanart by: wannacryexe

#mental health #columbine 1999 #borderline personality problems #borderline #narcisistic #covert narcissism #mental illness #eric and dylan #reb and vodka #true crime #tcc #1999 #90s

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crooked-wasteland · 6 days

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If you were to write a thesis on Vivziepop, what would you write about?

I may unironically publish this legitimately. Not just some blog post online, just a genuine review of our failures in mental health, media education, and online echo chamber culture bred out of the #relateable content mill of apps like TikTok.

There's nuance to all of this. It's not a one finger pointing at Vivziepop necessarily. But an acknowledgment of how her rise as an artistic content creator directly correlated to multiple systemic failures of society in regards to mental and physical health, education, economics, social liberties, and civil and governmental unrest over the last decade.

The pandemic in specific played a massive role in her ability to cultivate a foothold in animation and media. The lack of new content from any major studios, as well as the accessibility granted through venues like social media, added with the government imposes isolation of quarantine and the desperation to connect through parasocial relationships are merely what pushed her over that last hurdle.

The ideal human condition is to create. And when placed in this ideal, this is what she created. Taking advantage of chaos, uncertainty, and insecurity, she dug through the dredges of the internet's most unstable and susceptible people to get to where she is. Combing for people desperate for attention, catharsis, and community. It's why the fanbase (and even the critics) mirrors many high-control religious groups in tone and behavior.

There's so much more I could go into in regards to philosophy and even theology on the matter. But maybe I should just write.

#vivziepop critical #vivienne medrano #vivziepop #vivziepop critique #spindlehorse critical #spindlehorse criticism #in this essay i will #mental health #good damage #covert narcissism

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clusterrune · 1 year

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stop calling every self-centered, self-serving, self-absorbed, manipulative, cold and apathetic person you meet/know a narcissist.

npd is a disorder. not something you can apply to every person you dont like or who is hurtful.

if you were to live with a condition that people only associate specific stigmatized negative traits to and only thought of those traits when they heard about your condition and hated you for it, you'd be upset and hurt by the misinformation and misunderstanding too. especially if it prevented you from getting the help and support you needed. thats what happens to us, to many people with all kinds of conditions.

people associate those things with us and immediately apply our term to anyone with those traits and deem them unworthy of help, making it harder for us to be deemed worthy of the help we need.

use different descriptors, theres tonnes of them.

Narcissus didn't live his life, stare at his reflection and have a flower named after him just for a term based off his name to be used in vain.

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