stop playing the victim. ★

⚠️ caution: tough love post ahead, this is a lot more rude than my usual content

you're mad again that you don't see results in the 3d, it seems like everyone on tumblr is entering the void, getting their results in the 3d and shifting to alternate realities,but for some reason you can't do it. "what am i doing wrong?" you think. "something must be wrong with me, why can everyone get their desires but i cant?!"

look, i don't wanna be mean, but you're not special.

"but star my circumstances are CRAZY, like never imaginable like i just can't manifest with them 😪😪" it doesn't matter if you have suuuper intricate and special circumstances. you must not understand the power of this community. people have manifested out of physically ab*sive households, mentally ab*sive households, poverty, bullying, everything. why do you think they can all do it but you can't? people who get results aren't cherry picked by the universe as people who are good at manifesting.

stop playing the victim. "the universe must have problems with me!" "i think i'm the only one who can't manifest..." YOU'RE NOT SPECIAL. EVERYONE CAN MANIFEST. there are just some people who know how to get out of their victim mentality and start applying all the information that they've consumed.

understand how privileged you are. think about all the people you know, your family members, friends, probably people you've passed on the street, and how they don't know about loass. i don't know for sure, but i'm pretty sure i've seen bloggers saying that only 1% of people actually apply/believe in loass. you're so privileged to have been guided by the universe to this community, to understand loass. there are people out there who don't even know that they can completely change literally everything about their life simply by changing their mindset.

so go get out of ur victim mentality and get your dream life babe 😘

🎀💗YOU ARE THE CREATOR💗🎀

You are the ultimate CREATOR of your reality. Your thoughts, beliefs & assumptions create your reality. Then why do you care about others limiting beliefs and opinions ? Stop putting others opinions and limiting beliefs on a pedestal, they don't matter at all because you are the creator of your reality. Their limiting beliefs and opinions create their reality, not yours. If what they say doesn't favor your desired reality, then just ignore . Similarly, don't put the 3d or circumstances on a pedestal too. The best way to get out of a victim mentality is to realize that you create your reality. YES ! You control your reality . Think thoughts that align with your desired reality. This is where mental diet comes in - entertain thoughts which are productive and align with your desired reality. In the wizard liz recent video( overthinking one ) , she said that whenever you get negative thoughts, think of those thoughts as a bubble and poke them . Suppose someone told you that you are ugly or manifestation isn't real ( because they are insecure and miserable themselves) , you think of that thought as a bubble coming in your head and then just poke it. Since you are the creator of your reality , that's why you should be your own validation and not put others limiting beliefs, 3d or circumstances on the pedestal .

STOP COMPARING YOUR JOURNEY TO OTHERS.

Why are you method, technique hoping and all the above just because someone had success with doing something different then you? Why are you getting jealous, upset, mad, or angry at the fact that someone manifested their dream life in 2 days while you been “trying for a month.” Everyone’s journey is different. I don’t care if they manifested instantly in two seconds. I don’t think you guys understand that THE PERSON WHO GOT INSTANT RESULTS, HAD TO GO THROUGH THE SAME THING YOU DID. They had to have a mental diet, watch their thoughts as well. I promise you nobody got instant results with a shitty mindset, bad sc, quits, spirals, cries and gives up as soon as they seen the 3D hasn’t conformed. (UNLESS THEY HAVE THE ASSUMPTION WAVERING DOESN’T CONTRADICT THEIR MANIFESTATIONS) NOO, I guarantee that they also had a journey and a story! Everyone is different, you are on your own path and way. Be happy for them! You know that you day is coming and your faithful to the 4D, so that means you get the same instant, overnight results like they did! Change your mindset, and quit the victim mentality of “aw they got a button nose in 2 days, I wish I can manifest that quickly” or “I can’t manifest fast” , “I been waiting for the 3D to catch up for my hair to grow 5 inches but it’s still so short🤓” what ever the case may be. Your 3D is NEVER DELAYED. KEEP PERSISTING IN IMAGINATION AND THE 3D WILL REFLECT WHAT YOU ARE! Happy Manifesting!💝💝

stay away from people who describe themselves as victims , they might not use that words but a good indication is if they say stuff like “nobody cares about me” or “bad things always happen to me”. people that view themselves as victims lack self awareness and are not committed to working on themselves. they are incapable of seeing their actions and their wrongdoings cause they are victims in their reality so they can’t possibly be perpetrators. there’s people who will lie, scream and manipulate you and not even remember it the next day cause they completely lack awareness of their behavior cause everything they do is justified in their minds cause they have been wronged their whole lives or so they think.

It’s not lack of communication that ruins relationships and friendship, it’s the lack of comprehension. You can communicate in the most articulate, coherent and eloquent way to a person, but if they can’t comprehend what you’re telling them due to lack of emotional intelligence, then communication is useless. Might as well be speaking a foreign language. Rumi said, “Listen to silence. It has much to say.” Let them understand your silence.

Are you seriously telling me that I’m supposed to feel bad for a crazy narcissistic cougar (you should be grateful i didn’t call her p@do) stuck in her victim mentality looking down at the whole world because she was enslaved by celestial dragon at some point? What does it make of Hatchan, then? What does it make of other victims of celestial dragons? How about Ginny? How about Kuma? So, she was abused. But so was Sanji, so was Nami. I guess the difference is that that abuse and trauma doesn’t define them, unlike Hancock who thinks everything she ever does should be forgiven. Disgusting!! Her character is simply disgusting - I tried my best to bring myself to like her but I just couldn’t..

Not sure who needs to hear this but if you refer to actual victims of abuse as “having a victim complex” I hope you choke on nails

“Victim complex” doesn’t mean “actual victim who still bears massive amounts of trauma, sees repeating signs of abuse and calls them out as such” you stupid fuck. That’s JUST a victim. The complex part comes from when there’s nothing to WARRANT that woe-is-me mentality. If you know someone who survived abuse and they call you out on something that reminds them of how they were abused and you back-chat them about it and accuse them of having a victim complex YOU are the one with the complex. YOU are the one who cannot handle that your actions and behaviour have consequences. YOU are the one using someone else’s misfortune to treat them like shit and get away with it.

How to get out from the victim mentality?

ABANDON THE OLD MAN

There are many ways on how you can get out of this mentality

1st of all, define what you mean by "Victim mentality" because that specific phrase can mean a million things.

Take power over your own thoughts, reactions, emotions, and feelings by practicing being in the present moment.

The present moment is the key.

Whenever the old man/the old story comes up mentally tell it to "fuck off", yes that's right! If you find it "hard" to serve the new man, tell the old man to stfu. "I am on a different timeline and things are working out in my favour in the best way possible, so the old man simply has no place to exist on this timeline"

You can also try any of these to help you change your state:

- work on your self-concept

- journal / script

- find what makes you unique (define your strengths and talents)

- focusing on the new state

- listening to affirmation tapes

But at the end of the day, when you know the world is under your feet and nobody can ever compare with you because you are irresistible, irreplaceable, and unforgettable, then you can't be in a victim mentality (so prioritize your self-concept and mental health above anything)

Especially after a very big trauma or repeating ones for which we are not responsible (that may have occurred in our childhood), it may happen that we start developing a victim mentality (which has nothing to do with victimism or playing the victim, but it's a clinical condition) as a coping mechanism. For example:

-We may think others are the cause for everything negative in our life without realizing we're avoiding taking responsibility for our own actions and decisions (our mental pattern may be so rooted in us that we don't realize we have another choice but we keep ourselves stuck in a certain place; we blame others also for things we decide to do to ourselves as we just got used to our life being that way).

-We may also often believe others are there just to hurt us, even in those situations when that's not their intention: especially if we have been treated in a certain confusing/hurtful way (and we're already stressed by other events), we may tend to misinterpret them and their words/actions more easily and let anger and resentment born in our past fog our mind.

-We may also tend to believe others have it easier, and give up on everything without trying cause "I'll fail anyway" or "it's impossible for me"; we may also get relieved after receiving self-pity and sympathy from others.

There can be other behaviours or types of thoughts that may occasionally originate from what we had to deal with and that can be connected with the huge spectrum of the victim mentality, like for example: feeling undeserving and unworthy, guilty and shameful (since the way we were treated); avoiding taking risks; loss of control; feeling passive, pessimistic, generally powerless and helpless but not deciding to understand the cause of those feelings; being hypervigilant around others, overly self-defensive and self-absorbed or entitled (despite being deeply insecure); seeing people and actions/values as good or bad and no-in-between; lacking empathy; needing recognition and validation; feeling morally superior and wrongly persecuted by threatening unmoral people; ruminating over situations and their causes rather than finding solutions.

This is even more true if we feel like we haven't grown or changed, nor gained power or resources from the time in which we happened to experience that deep trauma. But we did. We just cannot see it for various reasons (generally our mind is trying to keep us "safe"). Try to remind yourself that you are in control of your own life, and that you can make different decisions and that you will be safe. You can get out of that hurtful place (at least mentally), whenever you decide it's okay to and in whatever way. Ask for help, talk about your problems with others. Remember you can say no, you can have boundaries, you can start taking responsibility for your life and you don't have to be successful at the first try. Don't give up, even on days when it feels like your mind is right: it may be, but remember to be grounded and objective. Keep questioning its reasons, get to the root cause and slowly try to get out of there. It's okay and it will be okay.

(part of source)

The funniest thing about Christianity is how preaching in public is seen as "brave and courageous" and Christians will all be like "Ah what a brave man preaching despite the danger!" and it's in a country like England, Ireland, South Africa, the USA or whatever and there's absolutely nothing brave about it.

Christianity is the major religion in those countries, but everyone will cheer and applaud you for preaching like that. If you were from any other religion it would be called terrorism and forcing your beliefs on others.

It's like drinking water with ice in a place where everyone loves water with ice and people praises you for "bravely" drinking that instead of water without ice, like the terrible sinners do.

You know what is brave? Coming out. Especially in places that will get you beaten up, kicked out or sent to conversion therapy.

Christians are so utterly desperate to be oppressed that it's actually pathetic. They don't seem to understand that they are one of the largest religions in the world with a huge amount of influence over the laws/governments of first world countries.

Christians are not opressed

When I read about religious trauma, specifically concerning Christianity and tags such as ex Christian, ex evangelical etc. It's mostly stories about people who have been hurt by Christians, or rather professing Christians (who themselves didn't know, nor practice/aren't doers of God's Word, those who didn't know Christ Himself or else they would've embodied Him and what He represented) or the Church that hurt them in some way. When I see such posts (and this might sound harsh towards them) but if you left Christianity you weren't a Christian to begin with, I doubt you even had a relationship with Christ Jesus Himself nor understood the power of His healing that comes through the Holy Spirit. When Jesus calls you where you are, He already knew where you were, what you were going through and He called you because He has a plan and purpose for you and has the capability to redeem you, change you, begin a work within you that makes you a better person/Christian. What He begins to do within you (through the Holy Spirit) is free you from the bondages of your sin, from your traumas etc. And what I'm saying is, if you truly had a relationship with Him, if you truly knew Him, you wouldn't leave Him because He makes you better and heals you (as I've stated). How could you leave after knowing the truth? The power of His Holy Spirit? Then it comes down to, you were possibly just a professing/cultural Christian and considering you left and now are an ex Christian/evangelical etc. this tells me that you didn't have faith in Him nor gave Him a chance to truly begin that work. There's no way you can still be holding onto that trauma/pain/hurt without not forgiving . Forgiveness means to let go, let go of what was done/said to you, by whoever it was said/done through. Forgive so that you can be forgiven. Then it comes down to this as well: if you're an ex Christian/evangelical etc. with "religious trauma" you're playing the victim because all those in Christ Jesus is VICTORIOUS, THERE'S VICTORY WITH JESUS CHRIST. WHAT HE BEGINS, HE DOESN'T STOP UNTIL IT IS FINISHED. I'm out.

More Black and white Moth concept art, focusing on Siegfried and von Weiss. The main message I want to get across in this story is that victims often blame themselves for their misfortunes, we must blame the people who mistreated us and either defeat or escape them. Abusers with power will tell you that everything bad is your fault as they screw you over.