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thevirgodoll · 3 days
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hey girl,
respect yourself enough to walk away. go where you are loved, where you are cherished. go to people that wouldn’t even allow you to walk away in the first place.
you are being treated less than your value when you were out of their price range when you met them. something that is valuable would be protected and claimed. you never leave your valuables out where they can be taken. and trust me, they know you’re valuable.
they’re breaking your heart to make you question your value. they’re treating you like trash when they’d never accept that same treatment. they’re building you up, and breaking you down. meanwhile, they’re questioning their own self worth and self concept. it’s all a projection.
and come on, do you really think he is conveniently hurting you or ignoring you because he’s simply misguided or avoidant? no, he just isn’t a real man. stop making excuses for him.
when he turned his back on you, he made the decision to go towards a low value lifestyle. it’s easier to stay the same, than have a woman who will push him to grow. you can check majority of the boxes, but if he isn’t ready for you and doesn’t want to be, he will never be ready. why wait on a message that will never come?
y’all have to remember people make conscious decisions in the long run regarding who they will deal with, and who they won’t. y’all also have to remember if someone loves you enough, they WILL do their damndest to change. regardless of external factors. if he respected the fact that the dynamic is an honor, a privilege, a blessing, he would do anything to keep it. nothing would stop him.
if you were valued in this connection, you’d know it. walk away. let God use you as a lesson of how you never know what you have until it’s gone. never let anyone fumble you more than once.
keep praying, keep trying, keep staying pure hearted and genuine. be open to change and take this time to grow deeper in your spirituality. choose God because God chose you first. don’t ever let anyone treat you less than what GOD would treat you. you are worth more. choose yourself. and above all, never let anyone tell you that you aren’t worthy of being chosen.
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thepeacefulgarden · 8 months
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bootobeneficiary · 1 month
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5 Things Your Mother Never Told You About Men
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If he wanted to, it’ll be done by now. You’re meant to be surprised, not stressed out.
You are whom you give ass to. If you’re dealing with a man who acts like a “lil boy” then you indeed act like a little girl. The reciprocal.
He doesn’t listen to you because there is no incentive for him to do so. Whether you’re whining for a ring or for respect, you give him no reason to give you what you want because he already has what he wants: usually easy access ass or a hot plate and folded draws to come home to.
He has an agenda, they all do. A high quality man has an agenda of marrying you because he wants children. A low quality man has an agenda because he wants to take advantage of you financially. YOU MUST HAVE AN AGENDA TOO
Coochie is currency- don’t waste money: Use your holes to get what you want, but learn how to withhold xes in order to get what you want as well. In the words of someone’s granny:
COOCHIE IS SHAPED LIKE A COIN PURSE FOR A REASON!
Next Post: Dating Out of Pity or for Companionship Can Have Fatal Consequences (for You and Your Loved Ones)
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lettingitlinger1 · 3 months
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in another universe, i sit on your bed and you leave the room for a minute and i yell out, “come back loser”. in another universe, you come back in the room and jump on me and start, jokingly, pushing me off the bed. in another universe, you hold me and look in my eyes. in another universe, we constantly make fun of each other. in another universe, we spend every day together. in another universe, we actually talked to each other, like we planned. in another universe, we still are in contact, and our plans actually went through.
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neuroticboyfriend · 1 year
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if you want to go no contact with your abusive family/guardian(s), you have every right to do that. if you want them to work with you on developing a healthier, happier relationship, you have every right to try that. if you want to disown your birth/current family or have a found family, you have every right to do that. if you want a mix of all these, you have every right to do that as well.
because it's your life, your family, and your choice. you are the only person in this entire universe who can decide your wants and needs. and i hope however you want to move forward, you get your wish - your healing, hope, safety, and any love, care, and support you need. you've been through enough. you deserve rest and joy.
and it's okay if you don't know what to do. it isn't pleasant, it's scary, it's confusing. yet it isnt immoral. it isnt wrong. you're doing the best you can with the knowledge, support, and resources you have. i promise.
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yakultstan · 1 month
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I still trust in you to carry my secrets with grace as I protectively hold onto yours even if we never speak again
my love for you never ceased it's just changing shape
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swollenbabyfat · 8 months
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To be a daughter / See you at the next funeral
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thevirgodoll · 12 days
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the overwhelming, inescapable truth is that they know what they’re doing is hurting you. they’re literally choosing to do it anyway. people have common sense. don’t give them the benefit of the doubt anymore. they would never do it for you. they literally know their behavior isn’t something they’d condone themselves. respect is just the minimum… and they can’t even do that? let them be. that person will answer for what they are doing to you.
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and when I cut all contact, I hope you realize what you’ve done.
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selfhealingmoments · 2 months
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melblogsgfreethruptsd · 5 months
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thepeacefulgarden · 1 year
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