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cdd-system-terms · 2 days
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Internalizer
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An internalizer is a headmate who holds negative internalized feelings. These feelings are often internalized ableism, homophobia, transphobia, but they are not limited to just that. These headmates will often be pessimistic because of this role.
This internalized feelings are the result of abuse and/or conditioning done to hate these specific groups of people.
This role doesn't excuse shitty behavior or any intentional hate towards this groups.
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not-alpharious · 7 months
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I really hope that when Space Marine II comes out they let you choose Titus’ pronouns just to fuck with this guy specifically
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phddyke · 3 months
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Hazbin Hotel is actually healing my inner ex-Christian so hard.
No joke, I nearly started cheering when Lute called Charlie and Vaggie’s love “vile and blasphemous” (and then burst out laughing when Adam immediately followed it up with “Hot as fuck though”). I know that may sound weird considering that I am, in fact, a lesbian, but here me out:
Seeing Christians being explicitly homophobic onscreen? It validates me. It makes me think “Oh yeah, I’m not crazy, Christians are that hateful!” And, call me crazy, but I think homophobia being tied in with villainy is a good thing. Neither Adam or Lute are supposed to be good people; they are very obviously the villain, and that establishes their behavior as bad. Someone on Twitter said that Lute gave them religious fanatic vibes and I couldn’t agree more.
And here’s the thing, too: it’s explicit homophobia, not some dumb metaphor. There’s no way to take it as anything else. And I really need that. I need to see Christians being explicitly homophobic onscreen in the same way that other people need and create worlds where homophobia doesn’t exist.
But me? I want my pain and suffering acknowledged. I want the harm that Christianity does acknowledged. Homophobia is real and the religious kind doubly so. I related to Vaggie so much in that episode; I felt her trepidation about going back to Heaven. Felt like a good metaphor for escaping a fundamentalist church only to be forced to visit again.
And Viv is not afraid to explicitly point this out and criticize them. Like, yes! Say it! They are hypocrites! They don’t care about people being better, they only care about punishment! They maimed one of their own and left her to die because she spared a child! They’re homophobic freaks! They would never see the good that Angel does and how he’s improved and is wonderful, they only see that he’s a drug addict and a sex worker and think he’s worthless for that even though Jesus broke bread with sex workers and people considered the dregs of society. (And of course Angel is gay on top of that.)
And another thing: not only did the Adam line make me laugh, but the second homophobic Lute line about “he blew his shot like the cocks in his mouth” cracked me up too. It reminded me of the pilot where Katie Killjoy said “I don’t touch the gays” to Charlie, which is a line that made me laugh for 4+ years straight. When I told my brother that was the funniest homophobia I’d ever heard in media, he very wisely said, “All homophobia is funny if you think about it.” And you know what? He’s right. It is funny, because it’s so fundamentally goddamn stupid, so let’s give characters ridiculous lines so everyone can laugh at how idiotic they and their beliefs sound.
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lgbt · 8 months
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(Sarcasm) Apparently “no homo” hasn’t had the positive impact they thought it would. I’m so surprised.
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mickedy · 1 month
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The moderator of r/SamandMax banned shipping content revolving around the characters. Horrible but also really funny because the moderator announcement post (tw for homophobia obv) looks like this.
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And this is the top comment:
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i-give-u--stuff · 28 days
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True story:
I was at school and some guy walks up to me and calls me the f-slur. Witch was v random bc I’m closeted at school and have like no pride pins on anything
I just turned to em an said
“takes a queer to know a queer buddy”
bro was speechless
bigots are funny sometimes
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midnights-dragon · 10 months
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homopobes saying they won’t let their kids watch nimona because of bal and ambrosius or because of the trans metaphor is WILD because the least they could do is be like “wellll the guy gets his arm cut off and I don’t want my kids seeing that” or “I don’t want to expose my kids to suicide attempts” to at least TRY to seem like they aren’t a fucking jackass
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roboticchibitan · 1 year
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I remember when same sex marriage was legized in my state (3 years before obergefel vs Hodges which legalized it nationwide). It won by a very narrow margin.
People who had taken care of me when I was young, people who were like second parents to me, (along with half the other people I knew) were saying it was the end times because I could now get married. And I couldn't help but wonder... would those people have protected me, cared for me, let me play with their children, if they had known I would grow up to be queer?
I came out in 2011. I was lucky. My parents were accepting. My mom was clearly uncomfortable at first but she made it clear she loved me no matter what.
Except.
My dad didn't care if I was queer and assured me that didn't mean there was anything wrong with me (in a speech I didn't need to hear but I think he needed to say). But he still said "that's gay" and "that's faggy" anytime my little brother showed vulnerability.
And I was a lucky one. My father used homophobic slurs around me regularly. He turned the word gay into a slur with his homophobic mouth. And I was a lucky one.
When I came out publicly, my grandmother stopped speaking to me for a while. I'm lucky that she changed her mind. I'm lucky that my grandparents let me bring my girlfriend with me when I went to visit them in October. October of 2022 and I still consider myself lucky that my grandparents let my queer partner into their house. My other grandma likewise visited with us, and was polite and friendly, but she still refused to call my gf anything other than "your friend." Still lucky. Incredibly lucky.
People don't understand just how bad things were as much as ten years ago. When I came out at school, I was lucky. No one bullied me. No one shoved me into lockers or called me slurs. They all just stopped talking to me. I became invisible. I went to a small school. I was the only person who was out. Exactly one person talked to me the rest of the year. And I was a lucky one.
When I was in middle and highschool, the go to insult was "that's gay." I heard it constantly. Every day. Sometimes people said it to me to insult me, long before I even knew I was queer.
I was lucky because the worst that happened to me was social isolation and people using slurs around me or turning my identity into a slur. No one called ME faggy. No one beat me up behind the school bleachers. I was incredibly lucky.
I have experienced the word "gay" used as a slur far more than I ever heard the word "queer" used as a slur. Young "queer is a slur and only a slur" people need to know the world you live in is not the world the rest of us live in. Why is "queer" a slur but "gay" isn't? My homophobic father thought the word "gay" conveyed just as much offense and disgust as the word "faggot." So why is queer the horrible word that can never be reclaimed but people say "that's gay" as a compliment now? The loneliest I have ever felt was in a room full of teenagers who thought my identity was the height of insults. So why is gay fine but queer isn't?
I am a fat butch queer and I do not hide that. My shoes have a pride flag on them. I have a masculine haircut and wear men's clothes. I look queer.
And I am afraid. I dress like this anyway, because I want other queer folks to know I am a safe person. I dress how I do partially because I like it but also partially so any queer person in the room, no matter now closeted, can see me and feel a little bit safer. Because I will protect other queer people with my life if need be.
Because I am openly and visibly queer and live in a world where being queer can get you killed. Because it can. Gay bashings still happen. The alt right are getting bolder in their violence, and that includes homophobic/transphobic violence. There are organizations in the US that are actively pushing to make homosexuality punishable by death in Africa. They know they could never accomplish that here. But they would if they could. People want us dead.
Young people need to understand that. And they need to understand that the people who did the most work to free us from criminalization were queer. They identified as queer. And they weren't the perfect law abiding queers toeing the line of what's acceptible. Because being queer itself was illegal. You could end up on the sex offender registry for being gay. In fact, there are queer people who are STILL registered as sex offenders just because they were queer in 2001. Pride wasn't a permitted parade with wells Fargo floats. It was angry queers illegally marching down the streets, screaming "We're here. We're queer. Get used to it."
Being openly queer is a radical act. It is still a radical act.
I did not live through Windsor vs the united states, the referendum 74 debate, my father punishing my brother for being human with homophobic slurs, and the pearl clutching fearmongering about "the gay agenda" (that was a go to phrase for 2012 homophobes) for some LGBT kid to come at me with TERF bullshit they got off tiktok about how my identity is a slur and I'm a horrible person for using it.
I was a lucky one and I'm still saying "no, absolutely not" to this bullshit.
Queer is more inclusive. Queer accounts for any possible fluidity because people change. Identities change. Queer is there for people who know they're Something Different but are not sure of the details yet. Queer is intentionally vague. When you're young you want everyone to know exactly who you are but as you get older you realize actually my identity is none of your business. In fact, sometimes when you tell someone your identity, you're handing them a bludgeon for them to hurt you with.
If you have trans classmates, you do not understand the world the rest of us grew up in. Trans people were not a public topic. They were not even acknowledged as existing by most people. I didn't know what being trans was until I was like 17. I'm nonbinary now and consider myself trans 10 years later.
And I didn't even have it that bad. But you know what? It still sucked and it was still hard and I can't imagine what it was like to grow up a decade before I did. I had it easy compared to most people.
If you can jokingly say "that's gay" when someone expresses queer love, then you can fucking handle people using the word queer as their identity.
The infighting and policing each other has to stop. You're oppressing queer people with this bullshit. It does not matter what words queer people use to describe themselves when there are people actively killing us. What are you doing? For fucks sake look at the bigger picture. Direct all that rage at our oppressors and the people who mean us harm. Queer people and he/him lesbians and bi lesbians and people who use neo pronouns and whoever else is the discourse of the day do not deserve this kind of treatment. Punch a homophobe and maybe you'll feel better.
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incorrectbatfam · 11 months
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Damian: Father passed this lady her drink and she said, "Thank you, sir... well I guess I'm not allowed to say sir anymore, since it's a pronoun" and he literally looked at her like 😐.
Damian: He's now very worriedly asking me if he "looks like a conservative."
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tub3rculosis · 4 months
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it is 2024 can we PLEASE stop w these kind of videos now. thanks
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armoralor · 7 months
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WolfWren featuring real comments from the fandom. It's okay to have different opinions on fiction, but maybe let's all remember there are actual real life people having to read this shit daily
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the-sappho-of-lesbos · 9 months
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Sometimes I get worried that the way and reasons I feel frustrated over homophobia makes me look like I’m just a sex craved lesbian
Because I’m not and obviously I value more then just that. But it feels like that aspect of my sexuality has never been MINE. So I get so defensive over it. It’s a porn category. A debate. Not treated as rock solid. Something I have to hide and be ashamed of. Something that took me a lot longer then lots of my straight peers to fully acknowledge. Something my childhood sexual trauma made harder for to access. Something that people use to paint me as a bigot or rude or mean or disgusting.
But goddammit, I LOVE breasts. I love vulvas. I love the female form. I love women’s bodies. I love kissing women. I love making them feel good. I love helping them reach those special feelings and touching them and I just get so unbelievably frustrated that this beautiful and natural part of who I am as an adult woman , an adult lesbian, gets so often stripped from me. It’s not fair.
I live in a world where women who date men never stop talking about them sexually and it’s all well and good. I listened to SO many of my classmates talk about penis in-depth when I was in high school and it was no big deal. I mention boobs or vulva or vagina and it’s a record scratch. Suddenly it’s a conversation, a debate, my morals and personhood or being brought into question . I hate it.
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petitprincess1 · 1 year
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CONGRATS, CRIMSON! YOU BEAT BOTH PAIMON AND BUCKZO FOR BEING THE MOST FUCKING AWFUL DAD EITHER! I HOPE MOXXIE KILLS YOUR ASS ONE DAY!
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