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loveyourlovelysoul · 6 months

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if you have been looking at life from a window, never seen yourself as the protagonist but often daydreaming of yourself as someone else (physically and/or as for character) able to live their *your* dream, it's normal that you feel scared once you want to start trying to change your perspective and be in charge of your life and see the real you as the protagonist. It's hard to envision all this and imagine it can even come true. You don't feel enough or good enough: it has always been your imagination's version of you (the one you *unconsciously* thought people would have liked more), and it has always been anyone else but you deciding and living your life or directing you (and you had been obeying them, maybe also out of fear of disappointing them/them overreacting if you rebeled).

It's really scary. It's ground-shaking, when you start to give yourself the chance to see things differently. It's like losing all your certainties, moving into unknown waters. But you can make it. Just be kind with yourself and give yourself time, also to listen to your fears. And give them space anytime you find a trigger and you start again telling yourself you cannot do it. Nurture them and yourself (the younger version of you who had to go through all that and now is so scared to change). You can do it. You totally can. Maybe not immediately, but you will. Have faith in yourself and don't let any doubt block yourself (do not complicate things through your mind, even if it's a human thing to do). Hold your own hand along the way. (Or also ask for support in the process to professional figures)

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goldenxshine · 2 years

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what are pan and Felix’s opinions on an s/o with stretch marks?

I'm so sorry for my late response, I still don’t know many things about this app, anyway, here it is. Hope you like it <3

Peter Pan

• he first noticed them when you were lying side by side on his bed

• he didn’t know what it was on your skin

• and being very curious and wanting to know everything, he simply asked

• “What are these?”

• you froze

• you knew exactly what he was getting at, and it made you nervous

• you've learned to live with your stretch marks, but when the boy who's with you all the time asked you about it, it made you uncomfortable

• Is he disgusted by them?

• “Those are my stretch marks, Peter”

• he stayed silent and wanted to know more

• you sighed

• “They are type of scars that develop when the skin stretches or shrinks quickly”

• you were really nervous

• “Oh, I like them, they make you look even more sexier”

• kisses each of the scar when he has a chance

• calls them tiger stripes

Felix

• he wouldn't notice them until you pointed them out

• you've always felt insecure about them

• a lot of the girls in your life, before you became a Lost Girl didn't have to deal with that, and the guys didn't like it

• that's why you always preferred to avoid any activity that might show the world your stretch marks

• but Felix knows what it's like to feel insecure about scars

• he's got a big one over his face

• “You have nothing to be insecure about. I love every part of you”

• “It’s natural”

• every night he'll tell you how much he loves you and how you shouldn't worry about it until you start loving them yourself

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malusokay · 2 years

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10 Steps to protect your Energy

Protecting your Energy is essential to being in tune with yourself and maintaining a healthy and calm mind. Focus on yourself <3

Try staying out of drama. If it doesn't involve you or your friends, just stay out of it.

Don't waste time overthinking. Stop worrying about things you have no control over.

Rest when you need to. Take action on the days you can and calmly accept the days you can't. <3

Don't compare yourself to others. Instead, focus on yourself and your own goals; everyone has their own pace.

Don't do things that you know will make you feel bad. This one is self-explanatory. Take care of yourself, haha.

Learn to spend time alone. Alone doesn't mean lonely; use your alone time to work on yourself, read, relax, study, workout...

Don't surround yourself with toxic people. Distance yourself from people who drain your energy.

Tread yourself how you want others to treat you. Speak kindly to yourself, care for your health, and don't put yourself down.

Stop doing things solely to please others. Start doing things that benefit your future and/or well-being; you don't have to make everyone happy.

Make yourself your main priority. Be your own best friend.

As always, please feel free to add more suggestions in the comments! <3

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

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nyx-rgbb · 6 months

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es-r-aa7 · 4 months

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اما اصحى بدري بس أقرر اني هروح الشغل متأخر بعد ما ادلع نفسي فالفطار 🤩😇💗

#breakfast #morning #slef love #quality time #self care #self reminder #my details #my coffee #my moments #my cam #mine ❤️#mineblr #minimalist photography

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wanderwithmex · 10 months

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I am a person

And for that I am glad

I have plenty of good in me along with the bad

And I’m not in trouble, and nobody’s mad

I just am, I just am, I just am

And I look the way that I look in my clothes

And I feel the way that I do about the size of my nose

I no longer have the energy to give half a damn

I just am, I just am, I just am

And I am pretty decent

Doesn’t matter what you say

And I’m trying

To be a better version of myself each day

So every time I try to rip my self esteem apart

I’ll restart, restart, restart, restart, restart

And I don’t need your love

To give meaning to my life

And I’ll meet a lot of people

Who may not be that nice

And sometimes I’ll be wrong

But will I ever be right?

I just might, I just might, I just might

And sometimes the day won’t go just as I hoped

And I will have more seasons

Where I struggle to cope

Will I ever feel better?

Will my future be bright?

It just might, it just might, it just might

And everything has balance

What comes up will come back down

But no matter what the planet

Will continue to spin around

So every time I wonder

If I’ll ever see the light

I might, I might, I might, I might, I might

- Emily Anne (@emhahee - Tiktok)

#slef love #mentalwellness #mentalheathawareness #love poetry #love quotes #scandinavian #travel #college #musicians #studyblr #student #adhd tag #relaxation #affirmations #asd #songwriter #school #mental health #happy

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iamlivingthebestlifeforme88 · 6 months

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Live, Laugh, Love, Manifest What You Want

pics: Pinterest

#manifest your dreams #manifesting #vision board #affirmations #slef love #i am the best #i am living my best life

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marychenlin · 2 years

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This Practice Can Improve Your Quality of Life

#ICNbuys.com #kung fu #tai chi #feiyue #tai chi pants #kung fu pants #healthy tips #slef love #self care

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artandlo · 2 years

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If you needed to hear this! I believe in you!

#Itadori #itadori yuuji #anime #manga #Jujutsu Kaisen #jujutsu kaisen fanart #self helf #slef love #mangaka #brave #inspiredaily #inspiration #fight

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bayleebubble · 1 year

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Reconnecting with myself and who I am has been such an emotional rollercoaster. I never knew how much I’ve missed who I am until I began to do the things I love again, and making time for myself. A sense of nostalgia I’ve been having while also reconnecting to my teen self before I’ve begun to distance myself from me. It’s a weird concept to describe to people. How does one distance themselves from themselves?

Simple, you begin to fit yourself to someone else’s needs and wants. I was in a very unhealthy relationship as a teen and over that time I lost who I was. Than I started another relationship, and I did the same thing even though the relationship was healthy. Now not being in a relationship, I have time to rediscover my likes and dislikes and the people I want to surround myself with.

I suggest no matter your relationship status to revisit the things you liked to do as a teen and child and see if it brings you joy and try to make time for it even if it’s once month.

#self confidence #self healing #slef love #healing #healing inner child #healing inner teen #nostalgia #rediscovering #myself

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sweetfemininetrap · 1 year

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I have staying power. Okay !

Instant gratification energy charged affirmations!!! <333333

I should give myself pridefulness

I should give myself joy

I should keep giving myself a break from hard work

I should keep giving myself time to spend in my penthouse

I should give myself perfection

I should give myself joy

I should give myself happiness here

I should give myself the power to operate as god

I should keep giving myself fulfillment

I should keep giving myself instant gratification after affirming

I give myself instant gratification

I give myself instant life gratification

I should keep giving myself more time with my personal fortune

I should keep giving myself success with no work= Rules of life

I should keep giving me a home in myself

I should keep my home I found in myself stocked with all the things I want, reaching for

I should keep giving myself proud mama looks

I should keep giving myself the dream life i never had before

I should keep giving myself everything i want that i never had before

I should keep giving myself proud looks

I should keep giving myself achievement looks

I should keep giving myself all the thing that i want are mine look

I should keep giving myself you did it look

I should keep giving myself all u need in your dream life is here looks

I should keep giving myself it sound nice in the world and on you

I should keep giving myself all the pictures of me that resemble my ideal body and face look

I should keep giving myself your personal fortune is huge look

I should keep given myself you always drive safely everywhere look

I give myself instant life gratification

I should give myself the power to operate as god

I should keep giving myself the dream life i never had before

I should keep giving myself everything i want that i never had before

I should keep giving myself everything i use to reach for

I should keep giving myself the dream life i used to reach for

I keep giving myself the best life & the best self I reach for

I should keep giving myself correct you are what you want to be look

I LOVE YOU ALLL. BLESSING TO ALL OF YOU

#LOA #loa blog #law of assumption #slef love #self concept #self growth #manifesting #mainstream #main character #mi angel #mean girls #NICKI MIANJ #void #high maintenance #loa #law of affirmation #law of abundance

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lovegusxo · 1 year

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the only love i need is from me, for me.

#slef love #self love #self growth #self concept #self healing #that girl #it girl #glow up #manifesation #law of assumption #loa #loassumption #mentality #manifesting #wellness #self care

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letsbeapoemtogether · 1 year

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I hope the Month of 'May' feels like a bandage to your wounds.

Abhilasha

#writersofinstagram #writersociety #poetry #aesthetic #writing #poemsbyme #poems #love #quotes #poemsociety #the month of may #the month of love #april #slef love #happiness

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gracepatt81 · 1 year

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Feels Happy to be Alive 👻🎈🏡⛽️

#i love it #slef love

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aubergineabode · 2 years

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Felt cute might delete later <3

#Dont worry hes fine #hes just sleeping dont think about it to hard #slef love #dsaf 2 #fnaf #dsaf dave #my face

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auroras-notes · 1 year

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“And one day she will not just survive, she will thrive.

The world around her is dark and grey,

So she wakes up every morning and clothes herself with the armor and glory of her God,

So that everywhere she goes, everything she touches becomes vibrant and beautiful with the light and color that seeps from her soul.”

- auroras notes

#spilled poetry #slef love #self improvement #thank god #beauty #my poerty #love poem #my notes #spilled ink #poetscommunity #notes app #quotes #poems and quotes #short poems #original poem #original poetry

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