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malusokay · 7 days

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⋆˚࿔ you got mail… 𝜗𝜚˚⋆

!! You can click on the pages to make them bigger :) !!

hi hi, Angels… It’s that time of the month again, YOU GOT MAIILL <3

I know I know... I AM LATE... IM SORRY. But it is finally here and I hope you guys enjoy it! for April I decided to make it a bit health-focused since that is something I've been reading and learning a lot about lately and I hope you guys will find this useful. <3

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malusokay · 8 days

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When's the April mail coming out? :)

Tomorrow!! <3

(around 3 to 4 PM CEST to be exact lmao...)

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malusokay · 8 days

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Can I ask what your green juice recipe is? And do you use a juicer or a blender?

The recipe will be in my April Monthly Mail and I use a Vitamix blender!! I still haven't gotten around to buying a juicer, but for now, the blender works perfectly too, and I'm sure a bit of extra fibre won't hurt. <33

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malusokay · 13 days

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⋆˚࿔ Weekly self-care checklist

Self-care night. Candlelight bubble baths, hair mask, manicure, face mask, home-cooked meal, a good book or your comfort show, some journaling... allow yourself some rest <3

Organise and use your planner/calendar. This will help you reduce stress by helping you stay structured and focused.

Update your Spotify playlists. Nothing is more annoying than being on the go, trying to relax to your music, and constantly having to skip songs that don't resonate with you anymore!!

Sunday reset is a non-negotiable!! laundry, fresh sheets, cleaning your make-up brushes, decluttering, etc...

Catch up on some sleep. Take a nap or choose a night to go to sleep extra early. (I recently read this article on sleep dept... VERY interesting!! -> Click here)

Plan a weekly girl's day!! maybe a picnic, some shopping, a movie night, or perhaps just a coffee date? make some plans and catch up with your girls <3

Go on a long morning walk; maybe you'll be able to catch the sunrise too!!

Buy yourself some flowers. You deserve them. <3

As always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and tips in the comments!! ♡

love ya ･:*₊‧౨ৎ

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malusokay · 24 days

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Learning to love yourself 𝜗𝜚˚⋆

Celebrate yourself. Every accomplishment deserves to be acknowledged, no matter how big or small. Stop putting yourself down by thinking that you don't deserve to celebrate your achievements just because others have accomplished "greater things." Also, there is so much fun in hyping small wins; call your girlfriend, bake a cake, and enjoy yourself!!

Invest time in things that you love. Doing what makes you happy is essential for your mental health. It's so important to pursue one's small and simple pleasures without the intention of turning them into profit!!

Boundaries and relationships. Learn to say no, define and set boundaries, question your current relationships and friendships, and distance yourself from people who make you feel unloved or worthless.

Allow yourself to grow. Let go of the notion that you are undeserving of growth. Acknowledge the past for what it is, learn from it, and grow from it.

Refelct. Getting to know yourself deeply is key to self-love; journaling is a great way to reflect. Ask yourself questions, question your habits, observe how you respond in certain situations, etc...

Trust yourself and your intuition. Listen to yourself, and don't dismiss the small cues that your inner voice gives you!!

Care for yourself. It is not selfish to look after yourself. Start exercising, eat balanced and healthy, stay hydrated, educate yourself, read complex literature, consume media mindfully, prioritise your sleep and routines, care for your skin and hair...

Be patient. Self-love takes time; you must slowly unpack and unlearn past habits, confront uncomfortable thoughts and memories, and gain a deep understanding of yourself. Give yourself time and approach this as a journey to enjoy. <3

You guys ALWAYS ask about self-love and confidence, sooo I hope this can be a little helpful to some of you and as always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and tips in the comments!! ♡

love ya ･:*₊‧౨ৎ

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malusokay · 24 days

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I used to be a morning person but now I can't wake up early 😭even if I do I'm tired and procrastinate to workout or do anything productive pls help 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

I recently started taking melatonin, and even though it doesn't really make me tired, it has, for some reason completely fixed my sleep schedule within like 5 days of me taking it...

one thing that also helps me in the morning is not checking my phone right after waking up, I just try to get up as quickly as possible. If you can't get yourself to workout in the morning (I'm also an evening workout kind of girl) but you still want to be productive, READ. Trust me, I always feel so refreshed and content when I read in the morning!! <3

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malusokay · 24 days

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How tall r u ? If you are tall please give me tips to grow taller

I'm 163cm (5'3??), so... yeah, I don't think I can give you many tips on how to grow, haha. I think it's mostly genetics, no?

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malusokay · 24 days

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Hi Malu! Would you give credit to people who participate to your monthly mail ?

I always credit everyone I select from the submissions unless they prefer to stay anonymous!! <3

I will also be posting next month's theme soon, I just need a few more days to plan the concept for April :)

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malusokay · 26 days

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hiii malu !!

I hope you are doing okay,

I wanted to see if you had any tips for saving money ?

If you don’t it’s alright

have a great rest of ur day / night <33

Since I'm a passionate luxury shopper there is this little thing I do to not completely blow my allowance haha

Make a list of everything you want to buy (with link, product name, picture, price, or however elaborate you feel like making it) and then wait one month before purchasing.

The number of times I looked back at the stuff I wanted to buy and thought "what on earth was I thinking???" is INSANE and it has saved me soooo much money!!

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malusokay · 26 days

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Maluuu, I have a friend who is currently starting to get together with another girl, I feel very excluded and I don't know what to do, what do you think? 😓

Oh, how I know this feeling. Looking back at all my friendships that ended this way, I'd honestly just advise you to focus on your other friends and not let it get to you too much. From my experience, there simply are these people who always chase a more exciting or new friendship. Those people usually just aren't the ones that stick around for long, and there is no point in chasing after them. I know it sounds a bit harsh, and it might be different in your situation, but this is what I can say from my point of view... I hope you get past this without too much trouble <33

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malusokay · 26 days

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generally i am content with the way I look, I do think of myself as pretty too (sometimes) but when I'm in a room with beautiful women i immediately feel mentally drained and ugly. What can I do about that?

"another person's beauty is not the absence of your own."

Id suggest reflecting on WHY you feel that way, maybe try journaling about it to understand where this "insecurity" stems from.

Did something happen that caused my confidence to drop?

Do I change the way is speak/act/express myself when I'm in a social setting?

What exactly was I feeling in the moment?

Be honest with yourself when reflecting!! I would also suggest putting yourself in similar situations more often, "exposure therapy" has always been what helped me the most, even when it is TERRIBLY uncomfortable. <3

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malusokay · 26 days

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Do u think tumblr is a safe place for face reveal ?

why does this kinda sound like a threat lmao???

no but fr, I honestly don't really care since I've been all over the internet for years... Twitter, TikTok, Pinterest, Tumblr... you name it

I also don't think people should post skincare and glow-up tips without face revealing... just saying... I would feel like a fraud posting the stuff that I post without letting you guys know what I look like; how would you, for example, know if you should take inspo from my hair care routine if you don't know what my hair looks like??

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malusokay · 26 days

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Hi! I hope you’re doing well 🌷

I need an advice, I recently broke up with my boyfriend due to cheating. I am struggling every day trying to get over this situation, but is really hard.

I’ve been so confused, because he just lied to me the whole time we were together, and we’re talking about almost two years… and he would still do it if I hadn’t find out.

It hurts. Just that. I don’t even missing him, but the feeling of being despised in such a cruel way it’s exhausting.

Take care sweetheart 🌷

Oh god, I can't even imagine how you must be feeling right now... being lied to for so long by someone you value so much is terribly cruel. I think to be able to move forward, you'll have to give it some time...

focus on yourself and allow yourself to process your emotions, thoughts, and feelings. If I were in your situation, I'd definitely turn to my friends for support and distraction. try focusing on your hobbies and things that bring you happiness so you don't lose yourself during such a hard time!! <3

I wish you all the best, and if you need someone to chat or trash talk your ex with, you can always message me, and I'll be happy to gossip with you haha :)

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malusokay · 26 days

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hi

could u do a "how to survive april" aswell?

of course!! If you guys have any more requests you can always leave them here -> "ask malu" (maybe for some YouTube videos too..?) <3

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malusokay · 1 month

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⋆˚࿔ My current makeup routine 𝜗𝜚˚⋆

here it is babes!! <3

since the weather is getting warmer, my makeup routine has simplified A LOT lmao… but I feel like this is a pretty “fool-proof” make-up routine, so maybe you guys can take some inspo from this!!

what I used:

Benefit "goof-proof brow pencil" (shade 3.5)

Nars "radiant creamy concealer" (shade custard)

Benefit "Benetint"

Charlotte Tilbury "airbrush flawless filter" powder (shade 2 medium)

Too Faced "Cinnamon Swirl" eyeshadow palette (like 3 years old and most likely expired)

Catrice "More Than Glow" highlighter (shade 010 platinum glaze)

Benefit "they're real! magnet" mascara

Radome lash clusters on the outer corners only

Clinique "Black Honey"

Let me know if you guys have any questions and pleeeaassee let's just ignore how seorjgspewijef my eyes look in the beginning, I cried myself to sleep last night!! ˚ ༘♡ ⋆

‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧౨ৎ

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malusokay · 1 month

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I looove your blog and tiktoks ur literally so so prettyyyyyyy 😭😭 can you please please please upload a makeup routine/ makeup tutorial? 😭🫶

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malusokay · 1 month

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⋆˚࿔ you got mail… 𝜗𝜚˚⋆

!! You can click on the pages to make them bigger :) !!

hi hi, Angels... It's that time of the month again, YOU GOT MAIILL <3

This month with community contributions, which I am VERY excited about!! Special thanks to @being-addie , @ravenclaw-diaries , Anon 🌸 , and everyone who submitted a post, so much love to all of you!! <3

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