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#love yourself
each-usually-upon · 20 hours
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here to remind you...
...that your struggles have always had to give up against you.
you might think that you had to lose against certain situations in life, but guess who is here today?
it's you! maybe not the version of yourself that you imagined but a version of you that has fought, gotten hurt, and yet prevailed to reach here, today.
be proud. you've been amazing. and keep going, no matter what ✨
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blackgirlnature · 20 hours
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📸 bisou bisou, mon noir !
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feliciao1 · 2 days
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I've always had a difficult time in setting boundaries since young. The innate desire to please everyone that has come to me for assistance is so strong, that I would brace through the mountains and storms, just for those who need me. In fact, I remembered I was kinda proud of it, because it shows how valuable am I as a colleague, friend and daughter.
But soon, I couldn't handle it anymore and collapsed. I then realized, our energy levels are finite. We are just normal human beings, not some superheroes with unlimited strength and power. Therefore, from that day onwards, I decided to set some healthy boundaries with the people around me, so that I won't burn myself out.
At first, they were unhappy about my change. Some of them even think that I was being "selfish" for not wanting to help out. But I know, that if I continue to drain myself out when my energy levels are low, it's not going to end well for everyone.
So when I'm feeling low, I start to reschedule or reject any work that is not urgent, including my colleagues' "request". I would gently let my friends and family know that I'm currently in a bad shape and couldn't share the burden of their worries and complaints at the moment.
Sooner or later, everyone around me starts to understand where my limits and boundaries were. They stopped thinking of me as selfish anymore, and knew that I was rejecting them at the moment because I was drained and needed time to recuperate.
As for me, my mental state was more stable that I ever was before, and I'm looking at life with a more positive outlook.
A gentle reminder, setting boundaries is not a selfish act, rather, it's a form of self-care, for us to protect our precious energy levels so that we don't get drained out.
I hope that everyone is doing well at the moment. Stay happy.
Felicia.
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asvospace · 1 day
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nhu-an · 2 days
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“杨绛说:"一个女人最重要的能力,不是你把自己打扮得多么漂亮,也不是你挣钱有多厉害,而是无论发生任何事情,你都有快乐起来的能力。"
总有一天你会明白,能治愈你的从来不是时间,而是你内心的格局和释怀。
爱自己胜过一切,不要试图在别人身上找安全感和归属感,因为最大的安全感只有自己能给”
Dương Giáng từng nói: “Khả năng quan trọng nhất của một người phụ nữ không phải là ăn mặc đẹp như thế nào, cũng không phải kiếm tiền giỏi ra sao, mà là khả năng giữ mình vui vẻ dù bất cứ chuyện gì xảy ra.”
Sẽ có một ngày bạn hiểu rằng, thứ có thể chữa lành bạn chưa bao giờ là thời gian, mà là khuôn mẫu trong lòng bạn và sự buông bỏ.
Hãy yêu bản thân mình hơn bất cứ mọi điều, đừng cố gắng tìm kiếm cảm giác an toàn và cảm giác thuộc về từ người khác, bởi vì cảm giác an toàn nhất chỉ có thể tự mình trao cho mình mà thôi.
- Như An dịch
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itsjustvane · 2 days
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I LOVE MY HIGH PAYING JOB
I receive money every day
Making money is fun and easy
I am finally free
I have my dream job
I am the best at what I do
Money loves me
My life is so perfect
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arisingsun · 8 months
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z-mizcellaneous-z · 9 months
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Everyone seemed to really need/appreciate this last time I did it so I'm doing it again:
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papa-yaya · 5 months
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fat people are hot
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motivatedaily · 6 months
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bebx · 6 months
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from me. to me and to you.
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nhu-an · 1 day
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“我们听到的一切都是一个观点,不是事实。我们看见的一切都是一个视角,不是真相”
Tất cả những gì chúng ta nghe được chỉ là một quan điểm, không phải thực tế. Tất cả những thứ chúng ta nhìn thấy chỉ là một góc độ, không phải sự thật.
- Như An dịch
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