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creatingnikki · 3 months

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I want to escape myself. And yet I want to fully embrace myself. This conundrum will be the death of me because it breeds inaction. But isn't fully embracing myself the real escape? But, then again, isn't escaping myself and becoming a whole other someone the path to embracing that new self? And you know at the end of the day inaction doesn't worry me as much as misaction or impulsive action does. I don't think it's fun to make mistakes and learn from them. I think it's stupid to make mistakes so freely. I think many things are stupid. I know I'm not one of them. It's funny. I think many bad things of myself. But not this. So, then, do I really want to escape myself? If there's even one good, solid thing you like about yourself, shouldn't you just stay? And because I'm not stupid, I am smart enough to know that you can keep some and lose some and change the rest. So, then, do it. What are you waiting for? Escape the parts that need escaping and embrace the rest. The relationship with self is not simple. It's the one complex relationship worthy of sitting through patiently. And repeatedly. And with compassion and grace.

#spilled ink #writerscreed #poeticstories #poetryportal #poets on tumblr #writers on tumblr #2 am thoughts #2 am posts #2 am ramblings #relationship with self #introspection #self awareness #self reflection #self improvement #spilled thoughts #creatingnikki

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moonlit-positivity · 4 months

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A tip for finding self love- notice the things that make you feel alive. Now notice how you react to yourself while in those moments.

What are your thoughts like? Do you cringe at yourself? Who are they mirroring if they are negative and full of hate? How do you feel about being seen in this moment? Can you envision yourself lighting up with joy and excitement? Can you let that little spark of happiness in? If even for a moment? And how do you protect yourself from the thoughts and people who take it away?

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#ptsd #recovery #trauma #mental health #healing #healing thoughts #emotional work #self love #self compassion #positive affirmations #therapy #positivity #compassion #boundaries #relationships #relationship with self

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diaryofadoctor-kreativeangle · 18 days

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They say, “What's your problem?”

I wish I knew. Whenever I think I have figured it out, I am taken by a surprise the very next moment.

#feelings #thoughts #introvert #insights #writers of tumblr #writing #personal blog #writings #diary thoughts #diary #introspection #relationship #relationship with self #psychology

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sisi66 · 11 months

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But really, it is an illusion that others can’t see your worth. Someone who shows you disrespect probably does see who you are. But how you are triggers something in them; a cell memory; something in their shadow; something they cannot love and accept in themselves. There is an internalised voice in them that judges you. But that voice is a voice from their past. Someone who was hurt. You or your…

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#awareness #breaking patterns #change of direction #consciousness #Frustration #guidance #inspiration #jewels of wisdom #judgements #mindfulness #negative thoughts #reflection #relationship with self #relationships #self-development #selfloathing #transformation #understanding #zen

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thoughtstherapy · 5 months

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@thoughtstherapy

#thoughtstherapy #thoughts #therapy #mythoughtstherapy #mentalhealth #mentalheathawareness #self love #quotes #psychology #lessonslearned #relationships

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listens-to-trees · 23 days

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In order to qualify my character and integrity, someone asked if I knew Christ…

I replied, I don’t know Christ, I do know the trees, I know the flowers, I know the animals, and I know the rocks.

#know thyself #peace #inner peace #relationship with self

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honeyymistt · 1 year

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i’ve heard a lot of people say “don’t reach out to your friends first and see how many people will remain in your life. those are your true friends” and i get it. it sucks and it’s tiring constantly being the one to message first, to initiate hang outs but don’t take this so literally. some friendships require initiation. i have lost touch with so many people who genuinely cared about me and wanted me in their life because i stopped reaching out. it’s a hard pill to swallow but honestly some people just suck at it and it doesn’t mean they don’t love and value you. i’ve reconnected with some people over the past few months and it’s crazy how genuinely happy they are to see me and how engaged they are in the conversation. i just think sometimes we’re too harsh on each other & too quick to emphasize other peoples flaws and remove them from our lives but then we’ll all be alone and what’s the point of life then!!!!

#i ramble but idk how else to explain this #some ppl are just shitty at reaching out but they still love with their entire being #these belong to honeyy #reminders #gentle reminders #positivity #relationships #friendships #self care #5k #10k #15k #20k #25k #30k

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thepeacefulgarden · 9 months

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lipikkawrites · 2 months

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Time does not heal your grief, it teaches you to how to wear it.

-@lipikkawrites

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httpsdevils · 24 days

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mauvefiles · 11 months

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When a woman is consistently spoken to softly & treated gently, she becomes a new woman. You're helping her heal her nervous system, you're helping her heal generational trauma, you're allowing her feminine energy to flourish, you're helping her to remember who she is.

#black women in femininity #goddess energy #black femininity #hypergamy #high value dating #dating advice #relationship advice #self confidence

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theambitiouswoman · 3 months

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Green Flags in Communication 💚💬

"I want to know when I hurt your feelings."

This shows they are willing to understand and acknowledge the impact of their actions.

"I don't want you to feel alone in this."

This shows empathy and indicates that the person is supportive and does not want the person to deal with issues alone.

"I've been struggling with ___”

This demonstrates vulnerability and trust, as the person is open about their struggles.

"How have you been feeling about ___? I know it's been on your mind a lot."

This shows concern for the other person's issues or worries, showing that they are listening and care about what's important to the other person.

"I feel __ when you __; are you open to trying __ next time?"

This is an example of constructive communication.

"What do you need from me when this happens with your family?"

This shows awareness and sensitivity to the persons family dynamics and a willingness to provide support.

"I appreciate when you ___.”

Expressing appreciation is vital for positive reinforcement and acknowledging the efforts and qualities of the other person.

"I didn't handle that well."

This is a sign of self-awareness and accountability, recognizing one's own mistakes and being open to learning and growth.

"I'm sorry, I was wrong to say that. I'll try to be more mindful in the future."

Shows you are able to apologize genuinely and a commitment to improving behavior.

"Tell me more about that; I'm really interested in hearing your perspective."

Indicates a genuine interest in the other person's thoughts and feelings.

"I noticed you seemed a bit off today. Is everything okay?"

It shows you are attentive to the other person's emotional state and a readiness to provide support.

"I'm here for you, no matter what you need."

Offers unconditional support, creating a sense of security in the relationship.

"I love how passionate you are about your hobbies. It's inspiring to see."

Expresses admiration for the other person's interests.

"Let's work on a solution together. What do you think would be fair?"

Focusing on collaboration rather than conflict.

"I trust your judgment on this."

Trust and respect for the other person's decision-making abilities.

"Your happiness is important to me. Let's make sure you're taking time for yourself."

Prioritizes the other person's happiness and emphasizes the importance of self care.

"It's okay to feel that way. Do you want to talk about it more?"

Validates the other person's feelings.

"I appreciate how you handled that situation. You're really good at ___."

Praises specific strengths or skills, boosting the other person's self-esteem.

"I know we disagree, but I respect your point of view."

Acknowledges differences in opinion while still maintaining respect and understanding.

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thoughtsofapessimistttt · 2 months

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If I’m too much, go find less tf

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sl8tersstuff · 2 months

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I live my life in a constant state of grief of what I did, what I didn’t do, and what I can never do.

#deep thoughts #quotes #life quote #poem #poetry #quote #quoteoftheday #literacy #words #writing #grief #anticipatory grief #grieving #friendship #relationship #self esteem #self sabotage #self reflection

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sisi66 · 11 months

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Inner Child Work

It is so easy to blame the parent or parents (or anyone) for the misery we might be going through. But they did what they did with what they knew at the time. And it was what it was; there is no turning back the time. We cannot change what happened. So why resist reality? Acknowledging what was and what is, is the first step towards peace. Saying “yes” to the past is more powerful than resisting…

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#attitude #child trauma #development #family #familyconstellations #growth #guidance #healing #healing work #new attitude #pain #relationship with self #releasing #self help #self-development #transformation #trauma #understanding

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sanlangsaturday · 6 months

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i finally finished crazy person communication: the redrawening

#my art #bingliushen #pre relationship specifically #svsss #svsss fanart #scum villians self saving system #liu qingge #luo binghe #shen qingqiu #i had to downsize this quite a bit LMFAO

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