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thepeacefulgarden · 9 months

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inmyperfectworld · 16 days

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To all of the healers, protectors, nurturers, and empaths:

It's NOT your duty to help, save, or heal everyone. Some people just simply can't be helped or saved. Also, remember some people are getting the things that they dished out to others, back to them, meaning they're receiving and facing their consequences. That's something that they have to deal with on their own. 🤍

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ahmoments · 1 year

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#deep thoughts #self awareness #self help #inner peace #thoughts #you're not too old and it's not too late #stop enabling #life #positivity #sittingwithyou

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redheadlesbianfreak · 7 months

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Yes, people do need to take accountability for the partners they choose to date, at least to some extent. And no, this doesn't apply to abusive relationships, that situation is entirely different.

I'm talking about white people who date other white people who are openly racist. I'm talking about "allies" who date other people who are openly homophobic and transphobic. I'm talking about liberal women who date very conservative men. And seeing bigotry as nothing more than a "political issue."

Of course, it's different if your partner lies and actively hides their political views from you. But if your partner is openly voting for people like Trump, openly supporting conservative politicians, openly hating/harming minority groups, then you should leave them. And you should be held accountable if you to choose to stay with someone like that.

#personal #rant #just because i see this a lot #if you stay with someone like this it enables their behavior #oh and this applies to queer people too #because queer people can be shitty and bigoted #i get that many situations are nuanced but i'm talking about people who say that it's okay to date someone despite “political differences”#that excuse completely stops when it comes to human rights

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sha-biest · 19 days

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AYOO, HAIR?!!?

HELL YEAH

THESE ARE OLD BUT I THINK I HAVE TO REVISIT THEM

#rottmnt #biestart #bodyguard au #IM GOING CRAZY #HELP #YALL ENABLING ME #acutally dont stop #FEEDING MY BRAIN

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choccy-milky · 8 months

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❌ no more dark magic!! ❌ ((inspo pic))

#no hairclip since this had to be before they were dating. if it was after seb woulda just dropped the book and made out with her instead LOL #sebastian sallow #sebastian sallow x mc #sebastian sallow x oc #hogwarts legacy #sebastian sallow fanart #hogwarts legacy fanart #also funny that i was working on this last night while also debating in discord about how seb shouldnt have used imperio on that one goblin #LMAO still mad at u guys STOP ENABLING HIM!!!!#choccyart

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stemmmm · 1 year

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their death count looks like this so I can look like this (#1 super jump spot)

immediately before i drew this they soloed a team so hard that i barely even saw them

#m.png #splatoon #the thing that frustrated me the most in sploon was always the times i spent dead when i could be inking #my solution was to stop dying #thank god they enable me i love winning by doing nothing

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moomanmilken · 1 year

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they collectively share a singular braincell. anyways, this is my entry to the House md fandom or something. I've been binge watching it and my brain is EXPLODING.

#house md #gregory house #james wilson #lisa cuddy #house md fanart #gregory house explode challenge #i would ruin james wilson that's all #everyone stop being a house enabler challenge failed #uhhh this is a redraw of that one screenshot i saw #my art

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kuragesoda · 9 months

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do you see my vision . do you see it

(+ textless ver and bonus with THE song lyric of all time)

#me when i spend way too much time on smth i originally started as a joke (again)#gentaro is filming btw . bc ofc he would enable this to happen #anyways i could NOT stop thinking abt how how much planet of the bass' lyrics sounded like it could be in hpmi #like come ON: life; it never die??? boom hear the bass go zoom??? peak hypmic lyrics-core #hypmic #hypnosis mic #ramuda amemura #dice arisugawa #fling posse #fanart #uhhh actually is this eyestrain????#oh well; just in case:#cw eyestrain #bright colors #made by me :))

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fairuzfan · 6 months

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Something that really shocked me these past few days is the clarification that it isn't a matter of ignorance for these representatives and world leaders — it's blatant selfish interest that motivates them to commit atrocities on a large scale.

I think a small part of me assumed that once people find out about who we are and what we represent, naturally love will prevail instantly and the Palestinian people will finally receive our unending liberation — but that's not what happened. We have Biden confirming the beheaded babies stories despite not seeing a shred of evidence and at the same time downplaying the reported number of Palestinian deaths and it's not that he doesn't know. He's President of the United States for God's sake. He probably has intel on what Netanyahu ate for breakfast, of course he can see the public videos of Palestinian children with their heads blown off. Its not that he doesn't know — its that he doesn't care.

It's fully just the complete lack of compassion and empathy — placing your own selfish desires above everyone else's and for what? Truly, for what? For a few billion extra dollars? To assure that a select few will survive even if it means alienating the rest of your countrymen? Who is he serving and benefiting other than himself in this situation? What use is that money if you're going to die soon anyways?

I can't comprehend the level of selfishness these people have, to sacrifice lives that he knows can never speak up against him. But that's "the cost of war," isn't it Biden?

#palestine #gaza #i am so fucking angry everyone is saying oh he will go down in history for abetting genocide #and aside from the fact that he PROBABLY WONT its the idea that i dont WANT him to go down in history i WANT him to stop enabling it #it doesnt comfort me that Palestinians will only have their voices hear 20 years from now in thinkpieces about how everyone was so fucking #fascist #i wamt them to stop it NOW #i will never forgive anyone in office for the standing by

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thepeacefulgarden · 1 year

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#people pleasing #codependency #fawning #boundaries #rejection sensitivity #mental health #self care #self respect #self compassion #self love #stop enabling

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allthe-lights-inthe-sky · 10 months

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Felt like I might need these in the future so I made them! Free to use, no permission needed!

#My art #Buttons #88x31 buttons #Webcore #Web graphics #Anti ai #Chat gpt #I'm thinking about making a neocities page so... yeah I feel like everyone should know my stance #But seriously stop enabling art and writing theft like this

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eerna · 4 months

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"there's lots of infodumping and I dislike it but it's the beginning of the story so I guess it has to be that way" "yeah it's OOC that this character is acting like this but since we can't read their thoughts I guess it has to be that way" save me

#''i guess it can't be helped'' IT CAN. STAND UP STOP ENABLING BAD WRITING #eernatalk #i should just stop interacting with any reviews ever honestly

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matrixbearer2024 · 2 months

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Just something stupid in the "Get Off My Screen" series I was talking about with my cousin:

So- Reader calls Vox a ton of things, sometimes just random nicknames to his face but other times things they'd never dare to say- but imagine what'll happen when booze is stuck in the mix-

Angel on his 5th shot of tequila: "So toots, what do you think of Vox?"

Reader on their 3rd shot already drunk: "Vox??? He's cute-"

Vox with his empty glass next to them: "Okay, maybe that's enough for you doll."

Reader unintentionally smacking Vox's screen: "NoOoOo- Get away from me you slutty-waisted seven foot Samsung!!!"

Cue Angel just dying from laughter and Vox mentally making a note to never let you get drunk again. Husk would literally be behind the counter trying not to laugh at Vox just looking at you so offended and confused. Like, he knows what a Samsung is- but slutty-waisted? Bitch tf-

#vox x reader #hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel vox #vox #hazbin hotel x reader #hazbin vox #hazbin vox x reader #hazbin hotel vox x reader #vox x you #get off my screen series #shitpost #ah yes the waist joke #drunk reader is fun reader #Vox doesn't think so #but he's not always there to stop us from drinking #Angel is an enabler I'm calling it

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mismatchsocks · 2 months

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the amount of times dan is like “herbert stop!” then makes no effort to stop him

#‘stop!’ proceeds to watch him do whatever he was planning to do #he’s an enabler #‘herbert stop!’ proceeds to help him #reanimator 1985 #reanimator #re animator #herbert west #daniel cain #dan cain

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moderndaypandora · 1 year

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The LAYERS needed in a modern/human Dreamling au. Some level of Endless family dysfunction, obviously. Hob's family can be be dead or not, it's all good. Are they old enough to have individually gained the awareness they are off-puttingly intense and should hide it a bit at first, or still in that "no, why would I need to Elsa this" stage?

Option A is both of them trying to play it cool, like "don't scare him off" except they so badly want to go from zero to sixty.

(Death and Desire have ruthlessly drilled Dream with flashcards about how to react appropriately in situations.

Desire: it's your one-month anniversary, what do you do?

Dream: [hesitantly] NOT propose?

Desire and Death, conferring, because that's technically correct but the delivery was suspect.

Death, encouragingly: Good start. And? 

Dream: a nice dinner and maybe a walk?

Desire: well done!

Death: and for a three-month anniversary?

 Dream: give them a key to my flat.

Desire: [airhorn] NO. RED CARD.)

Option B makes them the classic anecdotal "my grandparents got engaged within seven days of meeting each other and still are happy together".

(Death, rubbing her temples: so you met this guy--

Dream: Hob

Death: -- Hob, and within 1 day you gave notice to the Registrar's Office and figured out the best day to get married. And Hob agreed to this?

Dream: NO.

Death: oh thank go-

Dream: Hob SUGGESTED this.

Death: . . .

Dream: are you going to be a witness or not?

Death, 29 days later in the Registrar's Office, to Hob's witness: Is he sane?

Johanna Constantine, drinking heavily from a large flask: unfortunately yes, by all legal definitions.

Death: fuck

Johanna: [passing the flask over] if your brother's even a tenth as intense as Hob, they'll be fine. Probably.

Death, brightening: Is Hob that bad? 

Johanna: You know how sometimes you meet somebody and think "oof, they're a bit much, best give them a wide berth"? 

Death: yeah.

Johanna: Hob's like a camouflaged hole in the ground of muchness. Except he's done the hole up all nice and he knows that sometimes you just want to be left alone in the hole to sulk and rattle the spikes for a bit, and occasionally get a F&M hamper tossed in.

Death: [hmmmmmmm'ing approvingly]

Johanna, morose: the bastard.

In the background, Hob and Dream are pressing their foreheads together and basking in each other's presence)

#dreamling #the sandman #it's underappreciated how many red flags hob probably is buried under his amiable exterior #he looked at dream of the endless and went 'yeah'#not even as a 'i can make him better'#very much as a 'i can vibe with his current state and frankly even if he was worse i'd still be like that's my husband [shrug emoji]'#'what am i supposed to do? i knew who he was when i married him'#everybody around them: [extremely done with their shit] STOP ENABLING HIM #hob: he's my goth sweetheart #dream's entire family: he's ten sulking cats in eyeliner and a dramatic coat #hob: i know :D i love him!#johanna constantine is like 'hob's insane'#and everybody's going 'oh no don't be so mean he's just a little boring next to dream'#johanna: he saw dream being dream and went 'i need to stamp my name on him. how do i permanently tie us together'#johanna: he'd never safety pin a condom but i can just see the gears turning in hob's head about how to get to spend more time with dream #johanna: just radiating smug contentment over his insane wet cat #hob: i cannot wait to spend the next 60 years with that man #hob: and ideally die in our sleep together still holding hands #death and johanna: [staring at him over their fourth round of drinks]#dream: [heart of eyes and pink of cheeks]#dream: we should never not be holding hands #hob: okay but what if occasionally we stop holding hands just to then appreciate the feeling of starting to hold hands again #dream: [mulling] acceptable #death and johanna could probably start an entire benefriends or actual romantic relationship entirely based on judging dreamling

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