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gay-otlc · 10 months

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People who have been dehumanized and go "fuck you, I'm a human no matter what you say" and people who have been dehumanized and go "fine then, I'm not a human and I'm happy with that" are equally awesome and should hold hands

#and maybe kiss #this is in a disability way and an aro way and all the other ways

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isabellascarlett1 · 8 months

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No Queer person owes you an explanation for their Queer identity.

No Plural person owes you an explanation for their Plural identity.

No Disabled person owes you their diagnosis.

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genderqueerdykes · 21 days

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🏳️‍🌈 New additions to our shop! Severely disabled trans person stabilizing after recent bout of homelessness♿

hello, my name is equinox, i was recently homeless for 6 months. i am an intersex genderfluid trans butch lesbian. i am multiply disabled, i am autistic, schizophrenic, and bipolar, and have hypermobile eds, arthritis, fibromyalgia, degenerative disc disease, chronic fatigue and other physical health issues. i am struggling to make ends meet right now after paying a deposit and first month's rent after living in a hotel for 2 months where i was paying at minimum $1,200 - 1,400/month to live there.

my food stamps are on hold right now because the government is "receiving 400 - 500 applications per day" and it is somehow my fault for not thinking to come in in perosn to talk to them depsite the fact that they told me i am approved online. i have been starving for months. i need to eat in order to work to pay my bills. thank you for considering helping me, it goes very far

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that-disabled-princess · 4 months

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Making a poll that caters to one of my overly-specific niches. Had to redo it because I accidentally put "aromantic" instead of "alloromantic" on the first one 😂🤦‍♀️

#the niche being a disabled aro #i dunno something about my aromanticism and being disabled go hand in hand #no option for alloros who are abled and neurotypical because i'm interested in the overlap #actually disabled #actually neurodivergent #actually aromantic #aromantic #polls

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five-thousand-loaves-of-bread · 2 years

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shout out to disabled aces and aros, physically developmentally cognitively intellectually you name it

shout out to aros and aces who aren’t “born this way” or whatever

shout out to aroaces whose aromanticism is more salient/important/prominent than their asexuality and is sick of aromanticism being seen as less important or secondary to asexuality

shout out to allo aros who is tired of aromanticism being falsely collapsed under the asexual umbrella

shout out to aces who have sex who like sex who love sex who want sex who enjoy sex

#ace #aro #asexual #aromantic #disability #loaf screm

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thechronicsloth · 3 months

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The sunflower is the official symbol of hidden/invisible disabilities.

Three more flags on sunflowers! These are for asexual, aromantic and aroace people who also have invisible disabilities.

Feel free to use it and share it. I just ask that you credit me.

If you'd like to have it on pins, stickers, tote bags, clothes and other merch, these pride sunflowers are all available in my shop.

Let me know if you'd like a particular flag on a sunflower.

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theaceandaroadvocacyproject · 10 months

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Hello everyone! We wanted to do a piece talking about the intersectionality of disabled and aspec identities and experiences - does this ring true to your experiences? What did we miss? Info on the images are written out below and included in alt text.

[Text reads: July is Disability Pride Month. Let's discuss Disability and Aspec Identity. While individuals may be both aspec and disabled, the two groups also have many similarities outside of people who exist in both. Ableism and aphobia, while both robust issues on their own, have intersecting pain points. Ace and aro people may be accused of being "sick" or "unnatural", and in need of a cure. Simple existence is conflated with suffering, and some people may be more invested in "fixing" aspec people rather than accepting them.

The idealized future - long life, independent living, marriage, children, etc - does not necessarily leave room for people in these groups. Disabled and aspec people can definitely have wonderful futures, without adhering to ableist and amatonormative notions of what a future should look like. Both groups are frequently treated as an afterthought in the realms of legislation/political advocacy and community care*. *A great time to remind y'all that we are still in a pandemic. Wear a mask.

People who are both disabled and aspec may deal with the added stress of stereotype threat*. Stereotype threat is the anxiety and stress that comes from possibly confirming a negative stereotype about the demographic one is apart of. Stereotype threat may arise due to the stereotype that disabled people are not suitable for romantic and/or sexual relationships, or due to the stereotype that asexuality and aromanticism are signs of illness or dysfunction. *Stereotype threat can occur to people of any minority demographic - age, race, gender, orientation, etc.]

#ace #aro #aspec #disability pride month #aromantic #asexual #aroace #alloaro #alloace #gray ace #grayro #also let us know if alt text in the caption is unhelpful #we don't want to assume everyone has a screen reader or knows how to access alt text

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whereserpentswalk · 4 months

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Reblog to make yourself or someone you love more mentally ill.

Reblog to make sure the next child born will be disabled.

Reblog to make a random child trans.

Reblog to make someone suddenly decide to go off their meds.

Reblog to make someone who was in an allo relationship suddenly realize they're aromantic.

Reblog because all of these are good things.

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questionmarklive · 15 days

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No one talks about the unique hell of being disabled and aroace and no one understanding what it means to be either

#aro spec #aro spectrum #aroace #aromantic #ace spec #acespec #arospec #ace spectrum #asexual #disabled #disability #i have never felt more alone

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thedenofravenpuff · 10 months

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A lil something I put together for Pride Month this year.

The cane has become a daily tool I can no longer deny, and wanted to create something to show the acceptance of this aspect of my life. Alongside with the many colours I've found through the never ending journey that is self discovery.

I did create one flag myself here, the bottom right purple one. Purple is the colour ribbon used to represent fibromyalgia as well as the butterfly used as symbol for this chronic illness. I took those elements and made my own fibro flag to go with the Disability Pride flag.

Do enjoy and merry Pride Month to ya'll.

Trans Gender Package The Autism Awareness Package

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deancaslover · 5 months

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Please reblog!!

#poll #tumblr polls #ace #asexual #aro #aromantic #aroace #disability #physical disability #developmental disabilities

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identitty-dickruption · 10 months

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disabled people 🤝 aro people 🤝 disabled aro people

being exhausted with expectations around what an “adult life” looks like

#aro #disabled

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bizarreaizen · 3 months

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if you don't think that cis men who are aromantic are queer, get out. if you think that lesbians who are sometimes straight and gays who are sometimes straight are not valid, get out. if you don't support trans people who are sometimes cis, get out. if you don't support lesbians and gays who are genderfluid or multiple genders, get out. if you don't support xenogenders, get out. if you feel "uncomfortable" around disabled people, get out. if you don't support straight people who are sometimes gay, get out. if you don't support trans people who don't want to transition, get out. if you don't support feminine trans guys and masculine trans girls, get out. if you don't support gnc people, get out. if you don't support straight trans people, get out. if you don't support people who use neopronouns and xenopronouns, get out. if you don't support trans people who don't pass as their gender, get out.

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aro-culture-is · 10 months

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aro culture is celebrating, uplifting the voices of, and practicing advocacy with the disabled people in our lives this disability pride month.

#aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod phoenix #disability pride month #also a book recommendation for y'all: Academic Ableism: Disability and Higher Education by Jay Timothy Dolmage #it's somewhat USAmerican and Euro-centric due to... y'know... the general structure of Higher Education worldwide #but it's got a very informative and frank discussion right off the bat about eugenics and the very recent history of incredibly terrible #ableism in the last century that was only rejected in word and sorta in spirit when eugenics became a core ideological facet of nazis #highly recommend that if you live in an area where you have access to a library / library system #that you check if they have access to it - and if they don't: request it! - and read even the first two chapters

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violottie · 1 month

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ahem, taps mic....

lesbianism is not a quota to fill. lesbianism is not what you do. it is innate; it is who you are.

a lesbian is a woman or lesbian aligned nonbinary person who is exclusively attracted to women and non-man aligned nonbinary people.

you fit that? you're a lesbian!

lesbian sexuality is so profoundly beautiful and diverse and powerful. it is boundless, limitless and abundant. it is joyous and overflowing with glory and strength.

take pride, lesbians. we are the best.

❤️🧡🤍🩷💖

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grandparentcore · 10 months

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i love you🫶🏽

#unsourced #grandparentcore #queer #lgbtq+#lgbt #lgbt+#disabled #cripple punk #disability #chronic illness #mlm #wlw #nblnb #polyam #trans #nonbinary #ace #aro #bi #pan #positivity

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