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vexic929 · 2 days

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acexualien · 2 days

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What is intellectual attraction? Read to find out more!

This is part 7 of a multiple parts series where we’re exploring a multitude of different types of attractions! I hope you’ll enjoy ☺️

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ralvezfanatic · 2 days

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being queer + aroace is so fun !! like yayyy im questioning my sexuality everytime i have/don't have some type of attraction >_<

#i always doubt my sexuality bc of the attraction i have/don't have #like I've mentioned before #I haven't had a crush in ages #like a genuine irl crush yk #sooooo #idk being aroaceflux is annoying for me #cuz im always questioning my sexuality #😭😭#𖤐 rambles #aroaceflux #aroflux #aceflux #aromantic #asexual #aroace spectrum #aromantic spectrum #asexual spectrum #bisexual

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daybringersol · 9 hours

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just to be clear, i dont hate being called aroace or treated like im aroace because being aroace is bad. i hate it cuz its constantly forced upon me by people in and out of the community. i feel like thats fair.

its like when people say it’s misogynistic to react badly at being called a girl/woman when you’re transmasc. no. im just straight up not a woman. stop calling me that.

sorry i just saw a post that had good points but someone said something along the lines of “some aroallos and alloaces really act like its an horrible thing to be aroace” and like no. its an horrible thing to be called and expected to be aroace over and over again when youre not. and at some point, some people will stop correcting you nicely and will start being less polite cuz its fucking annoying.

im just tired of being expected to put up with shit constantly from people who should be on our side and then be treated as the problem when i stand up for myself.

anyways, love you aroaces that dont do that /gen

#aroallo #aromantic spectrum #aromanticism #aromantic #aro #aromanitc #arophobia #aroace #aromance #alloace #aceallo #alloaro #asexuality #asexual #asexual spectrum #aspec #solsthoughts

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that-girl-glader · 2 days

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Being horny and asexual doesn't make sense. Because WHAT THE FUCK. Ugh, like at the same time NOOOOO NO NO NO leave my peace of mind be. I want to bleach my brain for giving me JUMP SCARES....but also???? In theory....YES YES YES. JUST DON'T ACTUALLY TAKE OF YOUR OFF YOUR DAMN CLOTHES GOSH DARN IT.

#it's so fustrating omgosh #asexual #asexual spectrum #ace #acespec #asexuality #someone please save me😭😭#the human body is so interesting fr fr

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athena-theunicorn · 14 days

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Happy ace day y'all

#ace pride #ace #acespec #asexual #asexuality #asexual spectrum

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bisexualsafespace · 6 months

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We don’t owe you simplicity.

Good.

#gay #lesbian #homoflexible #mspec gay #mspec lesbian #radinclus #rad inclus #lgbtqia+#lgbt #lgbtq #queer #bisexual #asexual #asexual spectrum #aspec #pansexual #non binary #transgender

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some---weirdo · 22 days

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If this post gets:

100 notes I'll explain my gender to my friends and tell them my pronouns

500 notes I'll explain my romantic orientation to my friends (they think I'm aroace, I just identify as ace) ✓

1000 notes I'll come out to my sibling (they're agender, I know they'll support me)

10 000 notes I'll come out to my sister (she has pronouns in her discord bio, it'll be fine)

100 000 notes I'll tell my best friend I love her

1 000 000 notes I'll come out to my homophobic, transphobic conservative Christan family that I live with (they still talk to my agender sibling, so it'll just be very awkward for the next few years...)

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bizarreaizen · 1 year

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someone: hey can you give me some relationship advice?

me who's aroace: communicate.

someone: I tried but it didn't-

me: break up.

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glitchedcosmos · 2 months

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Characters dynamic that’s like “ they’re not in a romantic relationship but they definitely love each other with all their heart and fucking soul”

#the dynamic we love #i breathe this shit #yes the is qpr #looking at you sonadow #aroace #aromantic #asexual #ace spec #aro spec #aromantic spectrum #asexual spectrum #qpr #queerplatonic relationship #qpr things #character dynamics

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sparrow-the-tired-lesbian · 4 months

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if I see one more “straight people on the aromantic and/or asexual spectrum don’t count” I will personally light shit on fire

If you’re heterosexual and aromantic, you’re valid. If you’re asexual and heteroromantic, fuck yeah, you’re valid too. You belong here, in LGBTQIA+ spaces, and I love and accept you here. You belong at the pride parade, you belong in the LGBTQIA+ clubs at your school or university, and you belong in the LGBTQIA+ community.

We love you. You belong. anyone who says otherwise can go fuck themselves.

#asexual #acespec #arospec #aromantism #aro #aspec #asexual awareness week #asexual pride #asexual positivity #asexual representation #asexual spectrum #aromantic #aromantic asexual

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acexualien · 13 hours

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What is queerplatonic attraction? Read to find out more!

This is part 9 of a multiple parts series where we’re exploring a multitude of different types of attractions! I hope you’ll enjoy ☺️

You can support me by following me on my socials (link in bio) and engaging with my posts, thank you! 🩵

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thefairfeline · 6 months

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I know it's kinda selfish, but can I have more asexual charactes that aren't aromantic? One who stands up and says that you can love without sex, and that they deserve love without having to engaging in something they prefer not to?

Also a aromantic character that isn't asexual? One who doesn't feel guilt about needing and wanting people, but not seeking a romantic relationship with them? One that is open and proud, and in no way ashamed for their lack of love and need of sex?

Please?

Edit: I realize some aroace people got frustrated at this post due to having next to no representation already, and I admit it was blind of me to phrase it how I did.

I was (unfairly) annoyed when I made this post because I kept seeing people write ace characters I really like to be aro as well. (Which is more then fine to do btw!)

This tumblr dwelling feline was a salty bean who didn't think anyone would see this.

Thank you to everyone who gave recommendations in the comments!

And please don't start arguments.

#asexual spectrum #asexual #ace #aromantic spectrum #aromantic #aro #My fellow As deserve to see themselves reflected in the media

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shitpostingkats · 8 months

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An Asexual's love letter to Good Omens 2

There's an infamous quote by Neil Gaiman going around, regarding the general vibe of season 2, and many people (I believe humorously) yelling that it could not be further from the truth. Particularly in the last episode, where that happens.

I disagree.

The final episode of season 2 was deeply, deeply comforting to me.

I am asexual. Have been my whole life. Even before I had the words to describe what that was, child-me had this feeling in their gut of being an outlier, that everyone was exaggerating, or in on some joke, that I wasn’t privy to. Because I was bombarded on all sides by shows and movies and books, telling the same story of love, again, and again, and AGAIN. It’s drilled into our brains with the same fervor as the days of the week, or the quadratic formula. Meet-cute -> misunderstanding ->declaration of feelings ->kiss. More or less steps can be added to account for runtime or complexity of narrative, but that’s the basic structure that a relationship follows. It MUST be, because that’s the formula every character who's ever been in a story goes through, often times when it even feels like an add-on, like it’s only there because this is a story, there HAS to be a romance. And it has to follow the steps.

For a long time, I felt love wasn’t for me, because if there’s only one way to be in love, I sure as hell wasn’t feeling it.

Instead, the relationship I ended up in looked a lot like what Beezlebub and Gabriel go through. Meeting someone routinely until it starts to feel comfortable. Getting to know them and slowly growing more attached. Eating chips and listening to music.

We like to joke whenever someone asks us how long we’ve been together, because the answer is we just sort of slowly fell into it, and we honestly don’t know when the line got blurred between ‘friends’ and ‘partners’. And, at least for me, a good deal of that confusion, that hesitancy to label, came from the fact that what I was feeling, what we were, couldn’t be love. It couldn’t be romantic.

We were just quiet and gentle.

And that wasn’t love.

Because it was slow, because it wasn’t physical, because there was no structure aside from consistency and companionship. Because it didn’t follow the Rules.

Then I found myself in stories, and it felt like a revelation.

Beelzebub and Gabriel aren’t the first time I’ve seen a love like I feel represented in a narrative, but it never stops feeling special. And I don’t know if I’ll ever stop celebrating it.

Throughout the sequence in the pub, I kept expecting them to “confirm” Gabriel and Beelzebub. A dramatic line, a kiss, a whatever. That’s what I’ve been taught to expect, after all, that’s the only way a relationship is “real”. Of course, this doesn't mean Crowley and Aziraphale sharing a dramatic kiss is wrong, or that I can’t see why it resonated with so many people, but for me. Those moments in the pub are worth so much more.The last scene might have been literally showstopping, but those handful of moments between the duke of hell and an archangel were the beating heart of the season for me. A simple love story in four scenes. No kisses. No ‘I love you’s. Not even any definition of what. The love Gabriel and Beelzebub have is strong enough for them to both want to shatter their worlds and flee their lives and it's just.

It's just that.

Two people in a pub, playing the other's favorite song, giving a little gift, buying a packet of crisps.

That sequence means far more to me than any kiss ever could.

Love isn’t only real when it's hot and sudden and ephemeral, it can also be

Quiet.

And gentle.

And still romantic.

Still real.

#I sometimes remember this sequence and just feel so light inside #good omens #good omens season 2 #good omens season 2 spoilers #good omens s2 #good omens s2 spoilers #asexual #ace #ace pride #actually asexual #asexual spectrum #essays #ineffable bureaucracy #lord beelzebub #archangel gabriel

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agendercryptidlev · 21 days

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People treat characters being AroAce like they're being forced to eat vegetables despite the fact that a character being aspec instantly makes them 300% more cool and interesting.

#Aromantic #Asexual #Aroace #I'm sorry but romance and sex repulsed AroAce is the coolest thing a character can be #Aspec #Aspectrum #asexual spectrum #aromantic spectrum

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merely-a-caricature · 1 month

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I just want to take a moment to appreciate the beauty that is the acespec flag

It so aesthetically pleasing!!! The color palette is just gorgeous, and I’m weak for pinks and purples.

Also the arospec flag?!!

The greens and greenish-blues are just so calming and peaceful. It makes my heart so happy!

Edit: Apparently there’s an aroace spec flag?! And it’s gorgeous too, of course ♡

I literally can’t even-

#aromantic #asexual #aromanticism #asexuality #aromantic spectrum #asexual spectrum #arospec #acespec #arospec flag #acespec flag #aro spectrum #ace spectrum #aromantic asexual #aroace #aroace spec #aroace spectrum

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