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genderqueerdykes · 25 days

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the butch lesbian community has always been extremely diverse. the butch umbrella in general is extremely complex, but whenever people attempt to distill butch lesbians down into "women who wear men's clothes" it shows how little they really know about the community. the butch lesbian community is full of women who are confident in their womanhood and don't struggle, but it's also chock full of people who have some of the most complex genders you'll ever come across. butches have such varied life experiences that lead us to have a complex relationship with gender and sexuality

the butch lesbian community has always been full of genderqueer, gender non conforming, multigender, genderfluid, two-spirit, and non binary people. it's always been full of intersex people. it's always been full of people who don't identify as women, as well as people whose masculinity is inherently tied to their womanhood. it's always been full of people who identify as men, but in a distinctly lesbian and sapphic way. it's always been full of trans men and mascs. it's always been full of trans women and transfemme butches. it's always been full of people who identify as something other than a woman while still being a lesbian. it's always been full of bisexual butches. it's always been full of asexual butches.

the butch community is as varied as any other community and attempting to force butches into a narrow box is the terf shit and inaccurate to queer history. let the genderfucked butches speak. let the genderqueer butches speak. let the trans male butches speak. let the trans femme butches speak. let the intersex butches speak. let the bisexual butches speak.

let all butches speak.

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sassymoon · 10 months

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Pro tip: to drive a butch mad, open the door naked and drag them in by their belt loops.

May result in being unable to walk.

#was also wearing a tail plug but that’s for the tags #butch/femme #femme4butch #stone lesbian #lesbian nsft #sassymoon

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violottie · 1 month

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shout out to lesbians whose gender is also lesbian

lesbians for whom the only way to describe yourself is lesbian or butch or femme or stud or dyke, for whom you don't identify as a woman but do identify as a lesbian.

i see you, and I understand, and i assure you we are exquisite

❤️🧡🤍🩷💖

#lesbian #lesbian pride #lesbianism #lesbian positivity #lesbian gender lesbian #butch lesbian #femme lesbian #stud lesbian #stone lesbian #trans lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #dyke #dyke pride

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deepdarkbunnybrains · 2 months

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stone4stone love is sacred and divine, actually. i’d never try to change you, lover—and you never expect more from me than i can offer. i understand that my pleasure is yours to have, it is yours to engage; and you understand the inherent joy i get from being able to give you what i can and to have you fully satisfied without crossing our boundaries. there is no disappointment, no pressure to perform a certain way for each other.

WE ARE LOCK AND KEY 🔐💘 you are the only one for me 💞

#i glow pink in the night for you #stone lesbian #stone4stone #lesbian nsft #femme4butch #high femme #stone butch #butch4femme

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chokecherrylore · 9 months

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Still not done and this is an incredibly IMPORTANT part of the conversation around stone identities.

I am not going to "melt the stone" or try to force my partners boundaries in the name of reciprocity, my fiance is a stone butch top. I'm not going to press them to let me touch them or fuck them or talk to them in a way they aren't COMFORTABLE WITH OR WANT.

Stone tops aren't damaged or broken or just need coaxing to enjoy something that is outside of their boundaries.

My butch doesn't want to take strap or want to be penetrated, I'm not gonna try to manipulate them into trying because SOMEONE ELSE WHO DOESNT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT US OR DYKE STONE IDENTITIES, thinks my sex life isn't shared and reciprocal.

Stop disregarding stone identities.

And lovingly from my stone butch top fiance, stay out of dyke business ✨️💋

#cherry tinted rage #burnt cherry #stone top #stone bottom #stone butch #stone femme #stone lesbian #high femme lesbian #wlw post #wlw #lesbian #okay i think im done for now #maybe #depends on how i feel in 20 min3 #stone identity

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butch-with-a-deep-voice · 1 month

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"I think this is my favourite way to touch you" she said lovingly, while gently tracing circle after circle with her nails along my bare back.

"What?"

"Scratching your back, I think it's one of my favourite ways to touch you. That, or playing with your hair."

I post a lot about how stone4stone love has been healing for me in a way that is so profound and almost spiritual, but finally having it in person has only taken that to a whole other level. My darling femme saying this caused my entire world to slow down as I processed what, up until that point, I thought impossible. A fantasy that would never fully be spoken.

For context, my top three favourite ways to be given physical intimacy/love are the following:

Having my hair played with over long periods of time

Scratching my back and scalp

Massage, especially when chronic pain flare ups are bad

I react so intensely that it excites people a lot of the time. You'd think I was having sex if you were simply listening to the sounds from the other room (which is ironic given I actively hate receiving during, joys of being stone). For my entire life, for my nearly 15 years of dating, every single person before my femme has followed the same pattern.

They'll discover how positively I react to scratches/hairplay, and they actively engage in it regularly due to the advent of your new partner enjoying something that much. Inevitably they get bored but will continue because it makes me happy. Eventually though, the novelty fully wears off and the only true way I can get that level of attention is when I explicitly ask for it. I've often gotten sighs followed by "oh alright" as if it's some chore, or worse yet, half sarcastic "if only you made sounds like this during sex". Every single time I'd inevitably start feeling guilty, anxious, and simply stop asking.

The sheer number of times I'd ask myself "if I said I never wanted to receive during sex again, if I wanted intimacy in only this way, would so-n-so be upset" and the answer was always yes. Always. I'd begun to internalize that my way of receiving was a chore. That how I wanted to be loved was a reward to be earned.

Then comes this absolute darling of a femme, unprompted during our quiet night of non-sexual intimacy after a long day, casually dropping that her favourite way to show me physical intimacy is tied between scratching my back and playing with my hair. By accident in a single half-entraced phrase she took my perceptions of love, what I deserve from love, and what I could expect to receive, shattered them into a thousand fragments, and then stitched them back together into a mosaic that would make the Byzantines weep.

There is something to be said for your partner loving you in a specific way because it is how you like to be showed love, even though it's not their preferred method of showing it. It is a league-of-its-own different feeling to find someone who shows you love the way you want to be shown love because it's how they prefer to show love. She has taught me that and I am never settling for less again.

I've said it before, and I'll say it again.

Stone4Stone is Holy.

#this femme y'all #i love her so much #finally writing about the trip #oh vampling... 💕#stone4stone is holy #bite me #stone4stone #butch #lesbian #wlw #nblw #sapphic #stone lesbian #stone butch #stone top #butch/femme #butch/femme culture

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stonebutchstories · 7 months

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I know I’m not alone, I know that. I know there are dozens of Stone butches out there, and there have been dozens more before, all just like me. Someone has walked where I’m walking now, how else would there be this path to take? How else would I know the word, if someone else hadn’t said it first?

I just wish it weren’t such a lonely word. I have such a spectacular queer family, every stripe on the flag working together to tend, to hold, to mend. All of them are wonderful, and none of them had even heard of Stone before they met me. I wish that weren’t the case.

I struggle to reconcile the Stone community that I know must exist with the isolation that I experience. I struggle to talk about this in any meaningful online Stone spaces I’m a part of. (I’ve drafted this post and its lookalikes at least a dozen times.) I feel an obligation, since there are so few places for us, to be unstoppably proud of my identity. To be a force for fellow Stones, and to only write about Stones being respected, loved, and happy. To prove to myself and others in my stories that a happy life is possible for us.

Someone else has walked the path before me, and everything I write clears the brush a little more for the next traveler. For now, my Stone butch brotherhoods exist only in books. I read about their histories, and I feel like I could know them. They were like I am, a long time ago. Surely, there must be others even now. Surely I’m not the only one.

I wish more existed for me than this placating reassurance that brotherhood exists ‘elsewhere’. I wish my options weren’t to look backwards, or to charge forward alone. I know we must be somewhere. I know I’m not the only one. I keep my head down and try not to be irrational. Calm down, you’re not alone. Be reasonable, you know there are other Stones somewhere. Somewhere. There must be.

#stone butch #stone lesbian #stone femme #stone bottom #stone top #butch lesbian #kay writes

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grimoiresheart · 1 month

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sassymoon · 1 year

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Rough animalistic lesbian sex is fun and all but receiving soft aftercare from a butch is even better 💖

MEN MINORS AND TERFS DONT’ TOUCH

#sassymoon #yes we’re both partially dressed #this is stone sex at its finest #butch in boxers and femme In lingerie #stone lesbian #wlw nsft #femme4butch #butch4femme #stone femme #femme lesbian #lesbian nsft

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violottie · 5 days

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to celebrate lesbian visibility week, all lesbians have legal immunity and thus are allowed to, and encouraged to, freely kill every man and lesbophobe who dares open their steaming gob to spew lesbophobic bullshit inside and outside the wider community, and especially around our own.

stay safe, protect each other, and have fun out there ❤️🧡🤍🩷💖

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bearybutch · 2 years

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stone butch.

(Her skin meets smooth marble, but she doesn’t wish for me as her Galatea. I am loved as I am. I kneel before her and her blade falls flat on my shoulders in knighthood where another might hold the point to my throat and demand I yield. I press a clam shell into her palm and tell her there’s a pearl inside - it’s rough, but she could shuck it, if she wanted to. Her fingers never pry. The promise is enough.)

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[ID: Theodore, a stone, transmasculine butch lesbian, is shown from torso-up on a side perspective. He is depicted as a marble statue with golden and black veins, with underarm hair visible, and curly hair on his head. He has a golden cross earring and small diamond stud earring. He is looking down at an unseen figure, and a white arm is draped across his chest with the hand resting at his neck. There is a collection of pink, purple, and blue hydrangeas with thick green leaves to the left of the image. The right of the image has a beige background, with multiple petals fluttering across the empty space. Tears fall from the marble statue’s visible eye and shine brightly on the background of hydrangeas. End ID.]

#stone butch #butch #butch lesbian #lesbian #butch art #lesbian art #butch artist #lesbian artist #stone lesbian #trans art #trans artist

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chokecherrylore · 9 months

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Actually I'm not done.

If you look at the most TYPICAL definition and idea of sex between a straight cis couple, the man penetrates the woman with his penis, they may mutually perform oral on each other or they may not, perhaps only the woman performs oral on the man or vise versa.

MOST OF THE TIME we do not associate the woman in this scenario as "lazy" or selfish for not penetrating her partner or "reciprocating" in a way that he would not want or ask for.

USING THIS AS AN EXAMPLE

Why would you EVER EVEN INSINUATE that a stone bottom femme lesbian, is LAZY or SELFISH for not reciprocating?!?!?! Like DO PEOPLE THINK we as stone bottom or high femme lesbians are forcing our partners to "ONLY GIVE" and not having any kind of genuine communication. Jesus fucking hell! Most stone bottoms seek to be in relationships with stone tops or we ACTIVELY TALK ABOUT OUR BOUNDARIES and communicate our sexual compatibility with our partners.

If YOU think the sex I have with my butch isn't reciprocal, go die ✨️ or any stone femme bottom or high femmes sex with their partner isn't reciprocal for that matter.

Fuck. Right. Off

#cherry tinted rage #burnt cherry #wlw #lesbian #stone lesbian #stone femme lesbian #high femme #high femme lesbian #stone4stone #brought to you by a mean and angry femme dyke who is sick of people not knowing jack shit and saying stupid thinfs

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butch-with-a-deep-voice · 3 months

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In today's adventures of stone4stone healing: The fact that I prefer back scratches, massage, and fingers ran through my hair over being touched in a classically sexual way is good and desirable actually

#she actively wants to do to that over anything else and its just 🥰🥰🥰#the number of previous partners who instilled so much shame with sarcastic “why cant i get you to make these noises during sex?”#dont ever make shame-inducing jokes to how your partner enjoys intimacy y'all #our society has enough shame around sex #bite me #stone4stone #stone top #stone lesbian #stone butch #butch #lesbian #sapphic

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