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lesbian-polls · 3 days
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Friendly reminder that gold star lesbian is not a valid term to have as it demeans lesbians who have been in relationships to men prior to figuring out they're lesbians
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farmerlesbian · 1 year
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EDIT: IF YOU ARE COMING HERE TO REBLOG THIS WITHOUT MY ADDITION FUCK YOU JUST BLOCK ME INSTEAD!! get your lesbophobic ass out of my house. this is my post and you don't get to cut off half of what i'm saying!
lesbians can and frequently do: love, desire, fuck, befriend, date, kiss, seduce, dance with, take as lovers, flirt with, marry, build community with, have and raise children with: genderweird people, transmasculine guys, nonbinary individuals, pansexuals queers, faggy dykes, trans ladies, people who don't use labels, bi girls, gender deviant folks, and so on.
lesbianism does not require or insinuate/suggest/assume cis-ness. it does not mean clear cut binary womanhood of all involved. it isn't limiting or stifling or harmful or outdated. many of us have complicated genders ourselves and love our partners with complicated genders and identities.
anyone who says otherwise or is trying to convince you otherwise doesn't know us very well.
editing to add my addition to the original post:
all of this and STILL lesbians are not into men.
yeah, some people's partners realize they are men and transition after they've been together. other people only realize they are lesbian after or while in a relationship with a man. other lesbians are sex workers and have men as clients. some lesbians might be questioning and experimenting, or may be pushing themselves through uncomfortable experiences with men. they may not be in touch with their own desires (and lack thereof as well). these things can be tough and complicated and my love goes out to all these people.
but lesbians do not, willingly happily healthily choose to pursue and go after and romance and love and make out with and have sex with and have a relationship with, men. lesbian does mean something, words have not lost all meaning quite yet!
there are wonderful beautiful words for those who do like men, like bi and pan. bisexual and pansexual are wonderful! so are sapphic, wlw, gay, queer, and other terms that folks use. you can be as specific or vague about it as you want.
lesbians are real, we really do exist. we are not your boogeymen, we are not a hypothetical theoretical figure, or a platonic ideal or an academic concept or a figment or fiction to place your fears and anxieties upon. we are real people.
it is harmful to perpetuate either of these things i’ve described here. simply put: lesbians do get with genderweird folks AND still do not get with men. both are true.
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highfemmewhore · 1 month
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[Image ID: a white paper texture with an orange background. there are white speech bubbles with terms of endearment in each of them. "sweetness, loverboy, my knight, prince, my baby, my handsome girl, my love, honeybee, husband, cowboy, handsome, husbutch, darling, mi amor, my girl, beloved, wife." /.End ID]
happy belated valentine's day! i asked my followers what they call their butch! these are some of the responses
dedicating this post to my wonderful butch 💘 two of the names i call her are on here
TERFS DNI
@highfemmewhore on instagram
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russetpuddle · 10 months
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BIG fan of women explaining things.. love to hear women speak... random informational instagram reels are sermons to me..
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lesbianredpanda · 1 year
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I'll always be the first in line to give strong butches the praise they deserve 🥺💜😩🙏🥰✨, but how we feeling about strong femmes?
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Femmes that will open your jars for you, femmes that will carry your heavy boxes, femmes that will toss you around disrespectfully
[strong femmes encouraged to drop your fave pics!]
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sapphos-darlings · 11 months
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On this day of 🌸Lesbian Visibility🌸 know that...
Lesbians are homosexual women!
Female homosexuality is normal, natural, and unchangable! We don't choose it, that's how we are born!
Lesbians have always existed and we always will!
Lesbians owe no tolerance or understanding towards lesbophobia (=when homophobia and misogyny intersect)!
Lesbians are everywhere, in every country, culture, walk of life, shape and size! We are a diverse group, not a stereotype!
Lesbian Pride means striving towards self-acceptance, freedom, love and happiness! We are not alone, we are a community!
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bug-lesbian · 2 years
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What a beautiful day to love, respect, and support non-binary lesbians ❤️🧡🤍💖
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tiredyke · 1 year
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hey you! the sapphic reading this! i just want you to know that liking boobs is cool. theres nothing wrong or shameful about your attraction. it’s okay to like tiddies i promise and it’s very cool if you do
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femailment · 2 months
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Im in a group for Baldur's Gate 3 and all the supposedly gay women just talk about being horny for the vampire Astarion and all the "lesbian" posts about women characters are made by men who identify as lesbians
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The fact that Hayley Kiyoko, the most known and accepted millennial lesbian, recently had to quickly delete a TikTok video she filmed because she realised that people would be annoyed by the fact that she doesn’t like when her friends talk about penises, sensing she would be called transphobic for it (which of course happened) tells you everything you need to know about the huge amount of lesbophobia we have to bear in this day and age.
Lesbians must talk about our sexual orientation. We must make the jokes we want to make regarding our sexual orientation without being looked down upon by non-homosexuals who are too insecure to let us live peacefully. If the most visible of us delete something that relates to all lesbians there is a problem of rampant lesbophobia. There is very much the possibility she was advised to do it which is even worst because ... publicists, including straight ones, nowadays might still control the lives of lesbians ? So, I will say it for Hayley and for the entire lesbian community. Don’t let others push you in a second closet of shame. Yes it’s not enjoyable for us to hear friends talk about penises, that makes perfect sense and anyone who thinks it’s transphobic to say it can quite seriously FUCK OFF. 😃😌😘
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failurefemmegf · 8 months
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trying to explain that i'm not femme in a "soft pink sparkles glossy lips and sheer sundresses long hair" kind of way but femme in a "sour candy energy drinks smudged makeup hyperactive neon nintendo gamer" kind of way
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lesbian-polls · 2 days
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farmerlesbian · 10 months
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highfemmewhore · 7 months
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[Image ID: a white paper background with text that reads "butches and femmes must take care of each other! mutual protection is power." there are two illustrated hands in the middle of the page. the hand on the left has long, red, pointy nails and is making a fist around brass knuckles. the hand on the right has short, unpainted nails and is making a fist that is wrapped in red barbed wire. this hand has a thumb ring and a pinky ring on. /.End ID]
THE BUTCHFEMME THESIS
terfs dni
@highfemmewhore on instagram
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saminha · 8 days
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me n my butch !!!!!! (im cats) :3
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sapphos-darlings · 5 months
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💜 Female homosexuality is good, natural and beautiful!
💜 It's NOT narrow-minded, boring, or in need of fixing!
💜 Lesbians are wonderful and fine just the way we are! Exclusive homosexuality is in our nature and we deserve happiness on our own terms!
💜 Female homosexuality is a complete and normal variation of sexuality, and we lesbians never need to change a thing about it!
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