yooo facial hair coming in!! look at tht stache! stubbly chin!! Let’s GOOOOOOOO

here's to trans men with anger issues. here's to trans men who are loud or raise their voices without realizing, neurodivergent or otherwise. here's to trans men who get irritable or frustrated or impatient easily due to trauma, neurodivergence, mental illness, pain, or other disabilities, here's to trans men who can't take care of themselves, here's to trans men who can't stuff down their emotions, here's to trans men with violent intrusive thoughts, here's to trans men who snap without meaning to, here's to paranoid and psychotic trans men who become scared or hostile toward others without causing violence due to delusions and hallucinations, here's to trans men who struggle with homicidal ideation

here's to trans men who are bitter and angry and don't want to get better, here's to trans men who have tried to recover from trauma and have failed, here's to trans men who can't access proper mental health care because they aren't taken seriously, here's to trans men with mental health care trauma, here's to trans men who cope poorly with anger and hit inanimate objects and do "scary" things that don't actually hurt other people physically or emotionally.

here's to trans men with complicated mental health issues who need help but get insulted and called mean, rude, scary, shitty, assholes, dicks, jackasses and abusers. here's to trans men being human, too, and struggling with things just like anyone else. that doesn't make us evil, we are heavily traumatized by cisheteronormative society. here's to trans men who don't hurt other people but get told they do because people won't let men struggle with their emotions. i love you. you're loved. keep your chin up.

Dick from a butch who says "amongst" and "thereafter"

I truly wish I could get cis people and non-butches to understand how inherent transness/butchness/gender-nonconformity is for so many of us, specifically related to how visible it can be even when we do our damndest to hide it.

My parents suggested I detransition/try to appear “womanly” because it’s getting really dangerous where I live, and I’m just like…there is no world in which I can make that work. I was getting called a lesbian and a dyke as a teen before I even figured out I was gay. I was shoved up against a wall in college and sexually assaulted in public when I was in the process of coming out and presenting very femininely, specifically because I was a lesbian. Even when I spent hours playing with makeup because it was kind of fun (because I did wacky styles that make me think I was using it as a drag thing more than anything) I still stuck out next to cishet girls.

I’m not saying I can’t do things to improve my safety, but I have been butch/trans/gender-nonconforming my entire life. I cannot undo that from the fabric of who I am; even if I cover it up, the people who want to do harm can typically still pick up on it.

Gender envy

sometimes butches are trans men and sometimes they were, once, and sometimes it depends on the day. and sometimes they are faggots, and sometimes they were, once, and sometimes it depends on the day

Hey y'all, I did a thing 🤓👨🏽‍🎓🐺

Awoooooo! Happy Fat Butch Friday!

I graduated and I'm finally done with academia!! I'm so freaking glad to be done with grad school and once I pass the CPA exams I have no intention of ever studying for something this intense while also working full-time 🙃😅.

Really though, it feels so good to be done and to have the piece of paper to prove it! This is a huge accomplishment so I hear, the imposter syndrome is real and I'm learning to ignore it 😅 and I really want to thank my gf @queereldritchgalaxyprincess who made sure I ate, hydrated, slept, and held me when my brain was too loud from work and school. She has been my rock through it and I wouldn't have finished without her support 💜🥰😚🐺🍑

cis het men and minors dni

be the weird butch you wish to see in the world

In spite of a transphobic comment I've gotten,

Transmasc butches, reblog if you agree

BUTCHES ARE JUST AMAZING.

seeing older butches makes my day better. seeing butches who inspire me and make my world go round and who are the coolest people in my eyes, just in mens shirts and jeans and completely bare faced, make me feel grounded. they feel like home. they heal my teen self who kept trying to fit into dresses and earrings. they heal the part of me with leg hair that people didnt understand why i was leaving it alone. they assure me of my worth just by existing. they make me want to nod at them on the street but also fall on my knees and bake bread for them and just care care care. care for a butch the way only a butch can, even just as a friend or a fellow stranger on the street. butches, man.

male queerness does not have to be masculine in order for you to accept or take it seriously.

What is a butch if not a big puppy

*knocks on your door* do you have a moment to talk about butch cock

The overlap of butch and trans masc, bi and lesbian or any other queerness is awesome beautiful and old and should not be scorned

i found a beautiful article about the intersection of butch lesbian and trans male identity. It seems to also include the first part of a conversation about the intersection of those things with race but the article didn’t include it all so I’ll be looking for that and sharing it if I find the rest of it, but for now I recommend this article highly it was a wonderfully healing read to acknowledge the experiences of transmasculine butches https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/butch-trans-l-with-the-t

sit on my lap pretty boy

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