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#gender non conforming
genderqueerdykes · 18 hours
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i love being a genderqueer trans man. i love playing with gender in ways that aren't very expected of someone with a masculine body and presentation. i love combining cutesy looks and aesthetics with a heavy beard, body hair and deep voice. i love how makeup looks on a rugged, angular face.
i love being able to wear the clothes that made me dysphoric when people saw and addressed me incorrectly. i love being able to be femme and effeminate without feeling like i want to crawl out of my skin, but rather, like i'm living my best self, and having fun while i do it.
i love being able to play with gender now, as opposed to feeling weighed down by it. i love being genderqueer. i love being a trans man.
if you find yourself questioning if you are or can be both, this is your sign that you can. people tell us that if we're effeminate that it means that we're confused girls, but that's not the case. cisgender men get to play with their appearance at times; people who approach me to compliment my appearance always assume i'm cisgender. if they can, so can we.
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charliejaneanders · 4 days
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I made a meme, I'm so sorry
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flyingdumpsterfire · 11 months
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y'all ever seen those forms where it says
GENDER:
male
female
i hate them
at this point I have gotten to my limit of having to endure misgendering while being closeted to the point where I just tick the female box in all of these forms bc i'm AFAB so it just makes life easier
THIS SHOULD NOT HAPPEN
GENDERQUEER, NONBINARY, GENDERFLUID, AGENDER AND GNC PEOPLE IN GENERAL SHOULD NOT HAVE TO FEEL THIS WAY
NORMALISE HAVING A THIRD OPTION ON ALL YOUR FORMS FOR THOSE WHO DON'T FIT THE GENDER BINARY
BE IT 'OTHER'
'PREFER NOT TO SAY'
OR EVEN 'ENTER YOUR OWN LABEL'
REBLOG IF YOU AGREE
QUEERPHOBES AND TERFS GET THE HELL AWAY FROM THIS POST UNLESS YOU'RE GOING TO TAKE THIS POINT TO HEART
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bratprincedyke · 9 months
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sharp as fuck labrys tattoo for a babe
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caffeineecold · 10 months
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punk as hell to be trans. looked at gender norms and told from the start which gender to be and went "nah fuck that"
i love you binary trans people. i love you non binary trans people. i love you genderqueers, genderfluids, genderfluxes, xenogenders, agenders, bigenders. i love you "my gender is your mom" people. i love you people whos gender links to their presentation. i love you people who's gender doesn't. i love you heterosexual trans people. i love you butches, transmascs, trans men, boygirls, boys who are boys only when they feel like it, boys who aren't boys at all, boys who aren't anything else. i love you femmes, transfems, trans women, girlboys, girls who aren't quite girls, girls who love being tomboys, girls who hate being tomboys, girls who don't mind it all that much, people who want to medically transition, people who don't. i love you, neopronouns users, i love you "my gender takes an 84 slide power point to explain" i love you "my gender is anybodys guess" i love you "my gender is nobody's business but mine". i love you black, indigenous, indian, latine, asian trans people, i love you religious trans people, i love you i love you i love you i love you i love you i love you
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chaos-in-one · 7 months
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No one:
Me: Makes my character really feminine and then sets the pronouns to he/him
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raynedayys2 · 7 months
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Shoutout to cis men who use she/her.
Shoutout to cis women who use he/him.
Shoutout to cis people who use they/them or neos.
Shoutout to trans women who use he/him.
Shoutout to trans men who use she/her.
Shoutout to genderfluid people who don't use all pronouns.
Shoutout to nonbinary people who don't use they/them.
Shoutout to anyone who doesn't use pronouns that are typically associated with their gender identity.
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immortalthings · 6 months
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Me, very upset right now at my homophobic school.
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fallenstarcat · 1 year
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“so you’re taking HRT and getting surgery just to dress feminine again? what’s the point of transitioning at all at that point?”
to be the prettiest boy :)
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thinks-to-thought · 10 months
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this pride month i think we should normalise not knowing what the fuck gender is
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romanananan · 3 months
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sometimes i wish i was a boy but then i wish i was a girl and then i wish i was both/none of them but then i wish i was something else completely and the cycle continues on and on
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genderqueerdykes · 1 hour
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non binary is a lot of things to a lot of people. non binary for some people is being afab and wearing traditional femme clothing. non binary for some people is being amab and wearing traditional masc clothing. non binary comes in many shapes and forms. non binary for some people is being intersex and dressing in a way that "looks cis/perisex" to some people.
non binary people can dress however they want and still be non binary. presentation is not all that matters in not fitting into the binary
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When I was around eight or nine my dad gave me a book.
In it, there was a gender non-conforming character but I didn’t know that yet. I just knew that I loved that little monster girl, and I wanted to be her so so bad. I wanted to shapeshift, and be in a medieval world that had cool tech, and have bright pink hair and everything. I loved her.
There were two other people in that book too, two guys. And though it was never said, I knew those two were in love. I was so rooting for them to get together, to accept that they loved one another. I remember being so happy that it was implied they were in love.
I don’t know how many times I reread that book.
That book was Nimona.
Recently I watched the movie version as a queer person and I refelt all those same emotions as I had the first time I read that book.
The chaos, the sadness, the love, and the comedy.
I saw the kid I was in Nimona. Younger me being obsessed with chaos and violence and fire. Just a chaotic mass in a little kids body.
I saw my friends in Ballister and Ambrosius. I saw part of myself in them too.
I can imagine how eight year old me, having read Nimona, would react seeing that movie.
Seeing two guys kiss on screen for the first time.
This movie was a relive of my childhood and it was the sweetest one I’ve had in a while.
Movies and books like this are so important for young queer people, and just people in general.
I love Nimona, she was instrumental in who I am as a person and who I was as a kid.
So to the director, the actors, to ND Stevenson and everyone who worked on this movie, thank you so much for this. It was more than I could ever ask for in a movie version of Nimona.
And I do love a happy ending so thanks for that too.
(Sorry about the whole speech but it just meant a lot to me.)
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our-queer-experience · 5 months
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hey! gender non conforming men! i want to open up a discussion about how conforming cis people treat your gender expression, your experienced and your thoughts. let me know in the reblogs or in my inbox :)
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bratprincedyke · 4 months
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RESTOCKED these T-shirts ❤️‍🔥
If you want to order one for ur favourite d¥ke in time for Xmas pls order before the following dates to make sure they arrive on time!
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cripple-punk-dad · 1 year
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⚠️ WARNING⚠️
⚠️ NUANCED TAKE ⚠️
But transness does not equal gender non-conformity. A trans person can be just as gender non-conforming as a cis gnc person. Gender fuckery is for literally everybody. The inverse is also true here. A trans man can be as stereotypically masculine as he likes and a trans woman can be as stereotypically feminine as she likes. It's all irrelevant. Fuck around. Have fun with it. Or don't, and be trapped by gender prison forever. You do you boo❤️
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