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One gripe I have with the tma fandom is that they will not stop sexualizing Jon aka the ONE asexual character and then be like “Well asexuality is a spectrum! Asexual people can have sex!” Which yeah, true, but they say Jon doesn’t period. Literally the direct quote is like “Oh yeah Jon doesn’t at all.” AT ALL. Now stop writing/drawing that man having sex so fucking much
#tma#the magnus archives#especially looking for jmart stuff#tma jmart#jmart#jonmartin#jon x martin#jon sims#jonathan sims#asexual#acespec#ace
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This gig is doing wonders for my self-esteem related to my age tbh
#no one can know i don't like sex#asexual#aging#ace#asexuality#my art#nonburger#yeah yeah i know you're not supposed to put yourself as an artist because of your age#and it's not a race and everyone at their own pace yadda yadda#you try telling me you haven't felt anxious at least ONCE over those things#unless you're one of the talented young ones obviously#...and even then#anyhow#this is a breath of fresh air
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One piece fever is never ending!!!
#one piece#yamato one piece#yamato#ace#marco the phoenix#buggy the clown#jewelry bonney#sir crocodile#crocodile one piece#chibi#fanart#one piece fanart#art#procreate
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Even after all this time and awareness, it feels like asexuality is still not treated like a proper sexuality. Recently had a girl tell me that she was at a place where she ‘felt so asexual’ because all the other girls were so beautiful and guys were ignoring her because of it. She didn’t know I was asexual and I didn’t take offence (I know she didn't meant it in a malicious way) but it does feel uncomfortable that people are using ‘asexual’ in lieu of ‘unattractive' or 'lacking sexual appeal.' It's really giving 90's/early 2000's slang of using 'gay' to mean 'lame.' Even shows like Brooklyn 99 which took immense pride in being progressive with their comedy, had an episode where one of the characters says "Oh, and I'm sorry if we implied you're both asexual nerds who can only be friends with service animals."
I have mentioned this before also, when I talked about how I feel like people are more comfortable erasing the identities of canonical aro/ace characters in media but act like it's unacceptable with other sexualities... but it does feel like asexuality (and aromanticism tbh) are still not considered 'real' sexualities. In the case of shipping fictional characters, I understand there is nuance to that issue and so don't want to get into it, but it does kinda add to my point.
Why is it that people treat asexuality like it's not a sexuality? Why is it that when I come out to people I'm met with insistence that I'm wrong about my sexuality, that I'm 'self diagnosing' (it's not a medical condition), that I'm probably 'just inexperienced' or haven't 'met the right person' or have a hormone issue? Why can't people just accept that it's a sexuality like any other??
#asexual#ace stuff#aroace tag#asexuality#ace#don't mind me just needed to vent#just tagging asexuality because it was that 'felt so asexual' comment that made me feel this#but I think it does extend to aromanticism as well#but who knows at least for me I can no longer tell where the ace ends and the aro begins
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enough stories about how someone learns to truely be happy through love.
i want a story where someone is desperately seeking out love thinking it's the only way to be happy only for them to learn by the end that happiness is what they make of it and they don't need love at all to make it.
#aro#aromantic#ace#asexual#aroace#loveless aro#loveless#non-partnering#nonpartnering#non partnering#nonamorous#aplatonic#enough of amatonormative tropes in media!!! enough 'you're miserable without love' stories!!!#less “you're too focused on ambitions to make you happy that you dont let yourself fall in love”#more “you're too focused on finding love to make you happy that you wont let yourself live”#more “there is so much more to life than love and so much more that can bring your happiness if you just let yourself experience it.”#maybe I should write this story#and when i say love i mean all love. not just romantic love.#which is why i tagged aplatonic too#while i mostly see this trope in terms of romantic love i think there's something to be said about#telling stories where people are perfectly content alone too#it doesn't have to be sad or pathetic to not have friends by choice. they dont have to be a miserable person to not have friends#i think we need more variety in stories where it shows people just content in their lack of love or relationships in all shapes#not everyone wants a family not everyone wants friends not everyone wants a partner not everyone wants love#some of us are content without. that should be explored without the need to fix it.
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In hindsight, maybe an early sign that I'm allon't was viewing romance as a somewhat equivalent to dragons in fantasy. Yes I love the hypothetical of taking a dope flying fire breathing beast out for a joy ride, yes I would have a literal heart attack and facking die if I was inserted into the situation. Yes this is basically also my stance on romance, your point being?
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I don't know who needs to hear this, but:
It is absolutely fine to use a label, only to realise it doesn't suit you anymore. Labels aren't there to bind you to them. They serve as a way to better describe how one feels and what ones lived experience can be like.
I had two pipelines of relabeling myself simultaneously.
From bi to lesbian, and back to bi.
From asexual to demisexual (because I thought, that one day, maybe I feel this kind of attraction, as sex-ambivalent and oscillating were terms I related with, and still do), and back to being asexual.
Does that make me less sapphic or a-spec? Absolutely not.
And to be honest: I still haven't figured out if I'm demiromantic or aromantic. And that is perfectly fine. We don't own anyone an explanation, but ourselves.
If the label felt good at that time, but doesn't anymore, let it go and take the one that feels more fitting. ♡ We are human beings. We are allowed to grow. You are valid, no matter which label you choose.
#lgbtqia+#lgbtq+#lgbtq community#lgbtqia positivity#queer#asexual#ace#aromantic#aro#aspectrum#aspec#lesbian#sapphic#gay#pansexual#bisexual#trans#non binary#some positivity#queer labels#personal ramblings
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Happy Lesbian Visibility Week to ALL Lesbians!
❤️🧡🤍💗🩷
Lesbian Visibility Week includes:
Agender lesbians (me!) 🖤🩶🤍💚🤍🩶🖤
Asexual lesbians (also me!) 🖤🩶🤍💜
Trans lesbians 🩵💗🤍💗🩵
Aromantic lesbians 💚🤍🩶🖤
Nonbinary lesbians 💛🤍💜🖤
Genderfluid lesbians 🩷🤍💜🖤💙
Intersex lesbians 💛💛💜💛💛
Genderqueer lesbians 💜🤍💚
POC lesbians 🖤🤎❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Aroace lesbians 🧡💛🤍🩵💙
Butch lesbians ❤️🧡🤍💛🤎
Femme lesbians 💜💜🤍💗🩷
and many, many more!
#lesbian visibility week#agender lesbian#asexual lesbian#trans lesbian#transgender lesbian#aromantic lesbian#nonbinary lesbian#genderfluid lesbian#intersex lesbian#genderqueer lesbian#poc lesbian#aroace lesbian#butch lesbian#femme lesbian#asexual#ace#trans#transgender#agender#aromantic#aro#lesbian#nonbinary#enby#genderfluid#intersex#aroace#genderqueer#femme#butch
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The AroAce is protesting this vehemently. They can absolutely be trusted near massive heavy-duty machinery that can completely demolish things. They would never, EVER put important government documents or a transphobic state legislator into an active woodchipper. No way.
#aroace#aromantic#asexual#aromantic asexual#aspec#breaking news#brought to you by ^him#arospec#what has the aroace done today#aroacespec#aro#ace#aro ace#asexual aromantic#they can be a little silly sometimes. they admit that.#but everyone should have basic rights!#and sometimes those rights include messing around with woodchippers#trans rights
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as an asexual - the fact i was created by sex is pretty acephobic tbh
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bonus:
#the frog boyos <3#one piece#one piece meme#op meme#fire fist ace#portgas d. ace#portgas d ace#ace#revolutionary sabo#chief of staff sabo#flame emperor sabo#sabo#straw hat luffy#monkey d. luffy#monkey d luffy#luffy#the asl brothers#asl brothers#frogs#toads#frogs and toads
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atraction is just a lie made by the goverment, hope that helps
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Yes I'm STRAIGHT.
S - Severely
T - Touch
R - Repulsed
A - AroAce
IGHT?
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“Omg, I don’t get why people get so mad at a canonically asexual character being sexualized! Just don’t read it if you don’t like it!” Are you fucking stupid? Repeat that back to yourself
#yes this is about the Jon post#and yes Jon’s asexuality is a bit ambiguous#but asexual people can be uncomfortable when you write literally eighty fucking pages of smut about him#and it’s just him#there’s barely any Tim or Elias or Martin or literally anyone else smut#but you could make a fucking book with how much their is of Jon#and screaming at asexual people who point it out is just crazy#acespec#aroace#ace problems#ace#asexual
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"Prioritize your mental health over anyone's comprehension. Your peace and happiness matter most, regardless of others' understanding."💜
#asexual#asexual pride#asexuality#ace#asexual relationship#alloandace#asexual struggles#ace allo relationship#podcast
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