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hey here's a friendly warning

If I hear anyone of you claim that the A in LGBTQIA+ is for allies and you don't mention the Actual Fucking Queer Identities it actually stands for I will teleport into your room and beat the shit out of you

Every time someone talks about how it's our "purpose" or how we're "meant to" to reproduce, I want to tear my reproductive organs out and slam them down on the table.

this is according to your culture! for example a slavic trans guy and a british trans girl both named sasha would likely have different answers

as always feel free to elaborate in the tags and reblogs appreciated!

ME WHEN IM SILLY i put one twice so consider the second one as the neutral option!!

“Hunt” part 2

Previous caption: Rev is a spore Druid/urchin wood elf (my favorite kind of Druid) they have horns due to spending the last years of their life living in isolation away from civilization, adopting the likeness of goats and cervines in the heart of the forested mountains. Such is their love for these animals they decided to keep the horns and the singularly colored eyes (also, they miss the weight on their head when not wearing them) Decided to make them a genderless beast because, hear me out, a shapeshifter being connected to nature n’ living away from human costumes studying fungal behavior. What would a being like that need a damn gender for? Nothing, the answer is nothing.

Here is my art Instagram, I´m far more active there. And do NOT use/repost my work without consent or credit, dammit.

hey you!

yea you!!

your gender’s looking great today!!

whatever you identify as

however you prefer to present yourself

however you look

it looks great on you!!!!

We need to normalize people having more then one name! It’s ok if you can’t decide between a few different names! You don’t HAVE to decide, you can have multiple names! That’s ok! And you’re not “lying” or “faking” if you use different names with different people!

I’m not even talking about being a system! Anyone should be able to have as many names as makes them comfortable

And as a system as well if tons of people use multiple names then it also helps hide! “Oh yeah, I’m going by eerie today instead of Leo”

To conclude, if ya want another name, get another name

My sexual, romantic, and gender identities could all be honestly summarised as "absolutely not, but maybe, in this very extremely specific way that barely makes sense to anyone"

Im finally free from the constraints of gender im soooo fucking happy. I used she/her pronouns for me all day. Yesterday i used he/him. I didnt even notice! This is what freedom feels like. I finally found my calling. Im a creature!

i don't really know how to express how much the whole tma/tme thing rubs me off the wrong way so much. but i'm just thinking. thinking how much it feels like an extension of the thought that trans people are defined by their suffering. and that if they have the 'wrong' type of suffering or none at all, they're not worthy to call themselves trans.

Honestly the concept of being gnc has been more freeing to me as an agender person than the concept of being agender itself.

I've always worried about how people perceive me because of how my family treated me, both when I was a boy and when I was a girl. After coming out as Agender, I still felt like it was the same as before. I felt like I acted too "girly" to be taken seriously and not be seen as anything but a girl. I felt like I presented and leaned into being masculine too much that it didn't feel like I was being myself. I saw people say I had to be completely androgynous in order to be what I am, but being myself without expectations was the main reason I wanted to be Agender in the first place.

Even though I have a lack of gender and just really don't care, the concept of gender nonconformity helps me feel comfortable in my own skin. Gender doesn't matter to me. And I don't want my past experiences to keep me feeling like I have to present a certain way to keep people happy. I want myself to be happy, and I want the people who care about me to see me happy too, as my authentic self.

i'm so fucking happy to hear that. i hope that you get to be happy.