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alloandace · 2 days

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"Prioritize your mental health over anyone's comprehension. Your peace and happiness matter most, regardless of others' understanding."💜

#asexual #asexual pride #asexuality #ace #asexual relationship #alloandace #asexual struggles #ace allo relationship #podcast

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yagikidd57 · 10 days

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#tw acephobia #tw aphobia #lgbtqia+#asexuality #asexual #asexuality is valid #ace community #ace space #lgbtqia community #queer community #queer #aroace #aromantic #asexual struggles #aspec #arospec

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maxxsio18 · 5 months

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Asexual TikTok

I was scrolling away on TikTok just escaping my mind, and then an asexual video popped up, so I had a watch of it.

It first spoke about a report saying how 75% of asexuals aren't open with family or friends because of the lack of understanding and medical history around being asexual.

The lack of understanding about asexual is huge, I mean, just from this video, I managed to merge all the hate comments into one.

Just a warning ⚠️ Ace phobia ⚠️

There's a lot of "you need therapy" comments, showing that most people think asexauls aren't stable human beings. I don't see why sexual attraction has to be such a huge part of being a human? Like some of these people, they probably only see asexual as not having sex, when that's incorrect as every asexual is different.

It just annoys me how much hate there is to asexuals on TikTok and the lack of education about asexuals.

Anyways I hope you all have a good week. It's almost Christmas!

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#asexuality #asexual #asexual struggles #pride #ace pride #ace problems #blogging #pride stuff #mental health struggles

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tiny-elf-of-doom · 5 months

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Can we normalize horny asexuals?

Like, I don’t want to have physical sex with anyone, but I will write some of the most gnarly smut ever read when I get a little itch.

#lgbt memes #lgbtq community #lgbtqia #lgbt pride #lgbtq #lgbtq positivity #asexual #ace pride #asexual spectrum #asexual struggles #asexuals are valid #asexual stuff #suggestion box

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sippingonhottea · 16 days

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"You call yourself queer because you want access to our community"why do I need your fake ass community again??

Name one good thing any side of the queer community have gave us asexuals? All you bitches do is be assholes to us and you think we want you? LMAO may I add lol even

Access to what exactly?? What am I gonna get from being part of a fake community that has sides within tearing each other down???

The biggest lie y'all have told yourselves is that we're a community, we're not.

#asexual struggles #aromatic struggles #aroace struggles #aroace #acearo #asexual #queer #aromantic

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justsomeautistcthings · 2 months

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As an ace I do still experience crushes but not like “I want to screw you.” It’s more like “OMG YOU ARE SO PRETTY!!!!!!! I wanna be your bff or maybe date you?!!?!?!!! I JUST WANNA HUG YOU AND CUDDLE YOU!!!!! AHHHhhHhHHhhHHhHhHHh!!”

#ace memes #asexual spectrum #asexuality #ace stuff #ace rambles #romantic attraction #athstetic attraction #ace #asexuel #asexual #asexual struggles #acespec #ace pride

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pawfulofwaffles · 4 months

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Ok I need to say this because I’ve been thinking about it all month, maybe longer. Did any other asexuals have a “hypersexual at a disturbingly young age” to “sex-repulsed ace” pipeline or is it just me

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ashesbreadandbutter · 1 month

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Asexual issues #1

Having to explain that asexuality is a spectrum and not just "yeah I like sex" or "no I f*cking hate it" all the time.

It's a spectrum for a reason, let's try not to accidentally invalidate others.

#asexual #aspec #acespec #ace pride #ace problems #asexual spectrum #asexual struggles #asexual stuff #sex positive #sex negativity #sex neutral #asexuel #aromantic #cupiosexual #cupioromantic #demiromantic #demisexual

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acexualien · 2 months

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alloandace · 2 days

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"Love's language has many dialects. Cuddling close, holding hands, and sharing quiet moments - these are the whispers that speak volumes about the strength of our bond."

It's important that your Asexual partner knows that you can do these things without the fear that it will lead to more. When your partner can relax those fears, then they can fully enjoy these types of intimacy without the anxiety typically involved. 💜

#asexual #asexual pride #asexuality #ace #asexual relationship #alloandace #asexual struggles #ace allo relationship #podcast

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yagikidd57 · 10 days

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#tw aphobia #tw acephobia #lgbtqia+#asexuality #asexual #asexuality is valid #ace community #ace space #lgbtqia community #queer community #queer #asexual struggles #aspec #acespec #lgbtqia #ace spec

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maxxsio18 · 5 months

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Ace Ring

When a black ring is worn on someone's right middle finger it is often showing they are identifying as someone on the asexual spectrum.

Ace rings don't always have to be fully black they can have spots of other colours and it doesn't have to be a plain ring it can have any design that you want.

Many people in the world/outside of the asexual community wouldn't know what an ace ring would me unless asked, so it is a way for other aces to identify each other in the world.

The idea of having an ace ring in the asexual community started on AVEN in 2005 and was a common symbol for asexuals.

I have four different aces rings, all are black but they all have different designs. My first ace ring I ever got was last year in 2022, this was my first ring that I ever got so I was a bit confused on ring sizes, but lucky it was a ring in the shape of a set of wings which I could easily adjust to my ring size.

The next ring I got was a pirate skull with bones as the ring, this one is cool because it has purple jewels in the eyes which purple is in the asexual flag and just fits in well.

Then the next two I got was more plain black but was design as a snake and a feather which they both look great!

Do you have a ace ring? What does yours look like if you do have one, I'm interested to know all the unique designs there are!

Have a good day all!

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ender-goo · 8 months

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Yknow i went to therapy yesterday and it was good i released stuff i had bottled up but something that kinda bugs me is that when i told my therapist i'm asexual but enjoy reading/writing smut she asked "are you really asexual?"

I wanted to explain to her what aegosexuality is but i figured she wouldnt understand so eh

#asexual #ace #asexual struggles #aegosexual

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justsomeautistcthings · 3 months

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#ace #acespec #ace week #ace pride #asexuality #asexuel #asexual #asexual spectrum #asexual struggles #ace stuff #ace struggles #ace memes

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i-am-minty-fresh · 5 months

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My best friend at college just said that they didn’t think someone they know was actually asexual because they still have sex….

What? Are you seriously still in the mindset that asexual people are all sex-repulsed? You don’t know it’s a spectrum? How far behind are you?!?

I’m a sex-repulsed asexual but I’m not like…the standard? There is no standard? How have you been my friend for this long and not known that?!?

Alloromantic people are fucking insane man.

#asexual #asexual spectrum #asexual struggles #asexual stuff #asexual things

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