Diversity win! The horniest person you know is on the asexual spectrum
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asexuality is not an inconvenience. it isn't a burden to change your conversation topics to avoid making a sex repulsed asexual feel uncomfortable or unsafe. it isn't about you if an asexual romantic or life partner does not want to have sex. it's none of your business if an asexual person has frequent sex, or makes money off of their body or sexuality. it's not an attempt to manipulate you when an asexual/aceflux person has fluctuating levels of sex favorability, neutrality and/or repulsion.
someone else's asexuality isn't about you, it is not inherently overstepping your boundaries. forcing the asexual person to cope or deal with things that make them uncomfortable or go against the way they want to live their lives is overstepping their boundaries, and people need to accept this.
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Shoutout to all the milfs and milf lovers on the asexual spectrum!
~Your favorite aegosexual milf connoisseur
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wanna send some kindness to all aces in that nebulous gray area of the asexuality spectrum today. I know it can feel weird sometimes. remember, no one can take your place in ace spaces away. no one gets to decide if you’re “ace enough” except you. you are ace enough.🩶 really.
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Aspec Pride Cats
[Image ID: A series of five images,each with three sloppy doodles of cats colored to look like pride flags. The flags for each photo include:
The Asexual flag, the Aromatic flag & the AroAce flag
The Demiromantic Flag, the Aroallo flag & the Fraysexual flag
The Demisexual Flag, the Aroflux flag & the Cupiosexual flag
The Aceflux flag, the Acespec flag & the Gray-Ace flag
The A-Spec flag, the Arospec flag & the Quoisexual flag]
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Feel free to tag your gender identity if you would like or if I forgot to list it!
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aromantic and asexual people are not inherently "miserable" or "unhappier" than other people. we are not "missing out" on something- if we do not experience these feelings to begin with, we have nothing to "miss out" on. the only time that aromantic and asexual people are miserable is when we are forced into relationships or forced to believe we "need" to be in one to be complete. destroy this argument in your mind- aromantic and asexual people define our happiness. we are not inherently miserable, we are doing just fine
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I’m just curious, no need to vote if you don’t feel comfortable doing so
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I just want to talk for a moment how little people understand about Asexuality and for that matter Aromanticism out side of the aspec community.
I was looking at the books in Kmart today and saw one to do with LGBTQ+ and wanted to see if they included Asexuality and what they said about only to see this.
Now I don’t know if I’m having a Karen moment but the way they define Asexuality was basically someone who “do not feel like having sex with others” instead of someone who experiences little to no sexual attraction. Asexuality is about the attraction aspect, not the action.
Asexuality is such a broad and expansive orientation not only for the micro labels including demi, flux/fluid, grey, litho, abro, ficto etc, but also the spectrum within that from being sex positive/favourable to neutral /indifferent to negative/repulsed. Adding on to this is the romantic orientation whether it be hetero, homo, Aro, Aro spec, bi, pan etc and the different types of attraction including alterous and queer platonic.
The idea that ace people are simply people who don’t desire sex is completely misunderstanding and misinterpreting what it means to be asexual and can lead discourse within the ace community especially to those who are sex favourable. You see this a lot in media with few of the asexual characters not being interested in sex and that is what makes them asexual instead of the lack of sexual attraction.
Sorry for my rant and Karen moment, just kinda got annoyed.
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