ok but wouldn’t it be so cool if season two actually explored Alastors asexuality? Outside of one little comment? Like don’t get me wrong I love the ace deer man but I feel like the way we’re eating up that one crumb goes to show how little rep we actually get. And I get that everything we get about him in s1 is basically crumbs. He’s SUPPOSED to be mysterious. But I can’t help but worry that his identity is going to be ignored altogether within the story. And there are SUCH cool stories that can be told about this specific part of him. How did his relationship with Vox fall apart? Vox basically stalks him. Does that freak him out at all? Will it scare him in the future? When did Valentino come into the picture? Did that affect their friendship? How did Alastor survive hells hyper sexual environment when he first arrived?

And there ARE issues with the other queer rep in the show, but we have seen both Charlie and angel face homophobia in hell, and we have seen all sorts of sexual and romantic relationships. Ace and aro rep is a bit different, because it’s difficult to tell those kinds of stories without acknowledging the struggles that aspec people face. Very much how early gay rep focused a lot on prejudice. I understand why people just want a goofy silly aspec character who is accepted and just being themselves. I get that. But within the context of Hazbin, having good aspec rep just means acknowledging the struggles that come with it. And there’s so much you can do with that story wise, but I worry that the team will shy away from it as to not piss off the shippers.

Sex-repulsed asexuals and romance-repulsed aromantics deserve £100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 for everything

Porn bots love to find my blog and just… it’s giving aphobia.

Sometimes I wish that people would learn the difference between sex-repulsion and sex-negativity

Sometimes I'm enjoying myself and then something happens to remind me how hypersexualized the world is again. Sometimes it's funny and I feel superior for not being tempted by lust and urges, while other times I just feel really alone and scared and confused that everyone else is feeling and thinking these things that I don't feel or think, and am deemed "broken" for not doing so.

It's so normalized, and so I feel like for most of my life I was used to it all, just assuming it was normal to feel uncomfortable at such a young age. However, when my peers and classmates started expressing themselves in sexual ways, like talking about what they wanted from a man or what their size was, did it really click that something wasn't right with me. It was only when I discovered asexuality back around the beginning of 2022 did I realize that all those times I'd pick some random boy as my crush despite feeling indifferent, or literally break down in the shower trying to convince myself that one day I'd have to have sex with a boy because that's what I was supposed to do, weren't normal.

Now that I've figured out why I wasn't feeling the same emotions and passions that everyone else around me was, I'm so much happier. I can enjoy my life without believing that it is mandatory for me to fall in love and have sex because that's the norm. I love exploring asexual media and finding other people like me, it's a constant reminder that there are other people like me that can relate and share experiences.

Finding out my sexuality doesn't mean that everything is happy-go-lucky, though. There's still a sex expectation(sexpectation?) on me, and I've gotten lots of doubt over my sexuality. "My daughter was like that, you'll want to do it eventually", "You're just not ready to date yet", and one of the fantastic ones from my mysoginistic, incel, womanizer of a step-brother, "if you die a virgin you've failed as a human". I still face the struggle of the contant invalidating sexpectations of the world around me, but with support from those who truly care about me, I understand now that I am valid and normal, and I shouldn't listen to those sexpectations around me.

Just a reminder, not every asexual character is sex positive. Not every aro character wants/can still date.

I feel like every single time a character is asexual or ace/aro coded every single person in fandom has to RUSH to say “bUt SoMe AsExUaLs HaVe SeX” “sOmE aRoS sTiLl DaTe”

No fucking shit. I’m a sex positive ace on the aro spectrum.

But I am fucking TIRED of y’all screaming about “spectrum” but y’all only want to acknowledge the half that does fuck.

You don’t have to hc every asexual character as sex positive just so you can personally sexualize them for you to get off to 💜 and not every aro character needs to still date someone to satisfy your ship

Let some ace/aro characters exist without y’all being weirdly sexual about them thanks

hi if you post your explicit or suggestive selfies to asexuality tags, specifically repulsed tags, you are the epitome of dirt. do NOT go to spaces specifically for people who probably do NOT want to see or consume that content, or who may be upset by said content, if you're only going to post that content. screw you. thanks.

Hello, quick public service announcement:

Telling me, an aroaceflux person, that I'm "not asexual just aceflux" or "not aromantic just aroflux" or "not aroace just aroaceflux" is the equivalent of telling a genderfluid person they're not (insert gender) they're "just genderfluid"

Yeah maybe I'm not those things all the time but I'm sure as hell those things some days and that doesn't make it lesser than being them 24/7

y’know, despite being a very sex-repulsed asexual, making unnecessary sex jokes is my absolute favourite pastime.

Sex repulsed ace culture is gagging when your mom talks to you and your sisters about what to do if you get pregnant

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sex repulsed ace people when they learned how babies were made: the family name dies with me.

Ok I need to say this because I’ve been thinking about it all month, maybe longer. Did any other asexuals have a “hypersexual at a disturbingly young age” to “sex-repulsed ace” pipeline or is it just me

As an asexual person nothing pisses me off more than people saying asexual when they mean aromantic. Like I can't have one without the other? Stfu and watch me.

Yeah I never wanna have sex, but I'm literally in a comitted relationship and it makes me feel so invalidated when people call aro people ace because that implies if you don't like sex you must not be capable of romantic love, which I very much am.

You ever read a relationship post and just think to yourself “I’m too asexual for this.”