Sex-repulsed asexuals and romance-repulsed aromantics deserve £100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 for everything

sex-repulsed aroace culture is Please can parents stop asking their kids when they'll get pregnant? it's just weird and i already told you i don't want any of that nonsense

Me, a sex repulsed Ace: FUCK YOU!!

Me: But like, metaphorically speaking because otherwise gross

speak about sex or *gags* love in my house, you will be immediately vacuum sealed inside one of my pendants and i will carry you around and make you witness horrors beyond your allo comprehension and when i release you, you will also become aroace

the cursed delusions shall not be mentioned in my home

you are welcome <2

Sometimes I'm enjoying myself and then something happens to remind me how hypersexualized the world is again. Sometimes it's funny and I feel superior for not being tempted by lust and urges, while other times I just feel really alone and scared and confused that everyone else is feeling and thinking these things that I don't feel or think, and am deemed "broken" for not doing so.

It's so normalized, and so I feel like for most of my life I was used to it all, just assuming it was normal to feel uncomfortable at such a young age. However, when my peers and classmates started expressing themselves in sexual ways, like talking about what they wanted from a man or what their size was, did it really click that something wasn't right with me. It was only when I discovered asexuality back around the beginning of 2022 did I realize that all those times I'd pick some random boy as my crush despite feeling indifferent, or literally break down in the shower trying to convince myself that one day I'd have to have sex with a boy because that's what I was supposed to do, weren't normal.

Now that I've figured out why I wasn't feeling the same emotions and passions that everyone else around me was, I'm so much happier. I can enjoy my life without believing that it is mandatory for me to fall in love and have sex because that's the norm. I love exploring asexual media and finding other people like me, it's a constant reminder that there are other people like me that can relate and share experiences.

Finding out my sexuality doesn't mean that everything is happy-go-lucky, though. There's still a sex expectation(sexpectation?) on me, and I've gotten lots of doubt over my sexuality. "My daughter was like that, you'll want to do it eventually", "You're just not ready to date yet", and one of the fantastic ones from my mysoginistic, incel, womanizer of a step-brother, "if you die a virgin you've failed as a human". I still face the struggle of the contant invalidating sexpectations of the world around me, but with support from those who truly care about me, I understand now that I am valid and normal, and I shouldn't listen to those sexpectations around me.

hi if you post your explicit or suggestive selfies to asexuality tags, specifically repulsed tags, you are the epitome of dirt. do NOT go to spaces specifically for people who probably do NOT want to see or consume that content, or who may be upset by said content, if you're only going to post that content. screw you. thanks.

"omg you are virgen, what a loser" virgen by choice my friend, if i wanted bitches, i would be getting more than you

Being pansexual aroaceflux is great. One day I'm banging and making out with everything that breathes then the next day I feel nauseous at the very notion of such activities

another post for the sex-repulsed aces!! if you are uncomfortable talking about anything sexual, whether it be jokes or sexual advances from others/your partner(s) or even consuming sexual media, it’s okay that you’re uncomfortable with it! it doesn’t mean that you need to be fixed or force yourself into uncomfortable situations! it doesn’t mean that you’re not worth any interaction or love that you may have been given had you put yourself in those uncomfortable situations. you can be uncomfortable, you can tell others it makes you uncomfortable. you can set boundaries.

being uncomfortable talking about sex in any capacity does not make you childish. it does not make you a prude or a tease, it doesn’t make you immature. it doesn’t mean you’re not competent or that you’re unaware. you don’t need to provide a carefully crafted excuse to not talk about these things. if you are too tired or don’t have the energy to engage with sexual things (conversations, media, etc) then that’s okay! and if you only say things like that so you don’t have to say that you just truly do not want to talk about those things, then please know that you *can* say that. you can say “I’m uncomfortable talking about this, can we please change the subject” or “hey, I’d appreciate a heads up if you want to talk to me about this.” people who really care about you will listen.

you can set boundaries. you deserve to communicate, to be more comfortable and to be heard. you are not worth less because you are sex-repulsed. you are an aware, competent person. you are intelligent and your hobbies and interests matter. what makes you comfortable matters. you deserve as much love and support and comfort as anyone else.

aceflux culture is going from being hypersexual for months to sex repulsed for no reason

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Shout out to the 10 second skip button that keeps all the sex repulsed aces & aroaces from having to awkwardly watch another sex scene

There's something really refreshing opening an art reference book, and the nudity is just there, existing as something normal and natural, without sexualising it, they're just bodies and forms, which aren't necessarily sexual.

It's like opening the art book, on my own terms (not like being flashed by a pornbot or erotic posts that make me uncomfortable and I didn't choose to see) and it doesn't have the surrounding societal expectation that the bodies must be sexy; it can exist in its own little space free from everything. Nothing is censored, and nothing feels like it should be. It's just a thing.

Ok I need to say this because I’ve been thinking about it all month, maybe longer. Did any other asexuals have a “hypersexual at a disturbingly young age” to “sex-repulsed ace” pipeline or is it just me

Sometimes I think „no my view of intimacy and romantic relationships isn’t that different!“

And then I remember some people want to have sex. Like yeah no, never mind that