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dragons-and-cake123 · 3 days

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Happy Lesbian Visibility Week to ALL Lesbians!

❤️🧡🤍💗🩷

Lesbian Visibility Week includes:

Agender lesbians (me!) 🖤🩶🤍💚🤍🩶🖤

Asexual lesbians (also me!) 🖤🩶🤍💜

Trans lesbians 🩵💗🤍💗🩵

Aromantic lesbians 💚🤍🩶🖤

Nonbinary lesbians 💛🤍💜🖤

Genderfluid lesbians 🩷🤍💜🖤💙

Intersex lesbians 💛💛💜💛💛

Genderqueer lesbians 💜🤍💚

POC lesbians 🖤🤎❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

Aroace lesbians 🧡💛🤍🩵💙

Butch lesbians ❤️🧡🤍💛🤎

Femme lesbians 💜💜🤍💗🩷

and many, many more!

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genderqueerdykes · 9 months

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i have been trying for like. months to explain how the relationship between butch lesbians and trans men is not something akin to polar opposites and this is all i got. like it's not like this:

it's a venn diagram with a massive overlap in the middle. i'm not saying EVERY butch is a trans guy and EVERY trans guy is a butch dyke , i'm just saying it looks more like this:

these are not "mutually exclusive" terms- they do not mean the same thing, but we can be the same people, an very often are. there is a long history of butches who identify as FTM, trans men, drag kings, genderqueer, genderfluid, transmasculine, male, polygender, and two-spirit lesbians, and so much more. the relationship between lesbianism and queer masculinity is inseparable and the only people telling you that butches and trans men need to violently separate from one another and be at each other's throats are terfs. even if we do not share identities, we share our struggle together as heavily misunderstood and unseen masculine queers.

we stand up for each other when our identities get confused by strangers, and we get misgendered. we stand up for each other when terfs and terfpilled people tell us that transmasculine people and men can't be lesbians, when people say "butches just want to be men", when people say "butches aren't real women", when people call each of us bull dykes and trannies, when people mock the way FTMs walk and talk and look, and when people tell trans men they're "just butch dykes in denial". we stand up for each other and understand each others struggles.

whenever a butch lesbian asserts they're a woman no matter how masc they are, whenever a trans man asserts that they are a man and not a butch, whenever a butch struggles to be seen as both a man and a lesbian, and whenever a trans man returns to the lesbian community while embracing their manhood, we are part of the same community, we share the same struggles, and we owe it to each other to stay strong.

we are not enemies. we are bedfellows, lovers, family, spouses, partners, husbands, wives, brothers, sisters, siblings, friends, each others support networks, even if we don't share identities perfectly. whether you are butch and a woman, butch and a man, butch and something else entirely, a male, ftm, genderfluid, polygender, genderqueer, transmasculine, nonbinary, two-spirit or whatever else you may be lesbian, you are part of our family and your experience is worth being heard.

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elysianmadness · 8 months

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"Lesbian means exclusive attraction to women!"

"No, it means non-men exclusively attracted to non-men!"

"It actually means queer attraction to women!"

"Lesbian means women and nonbinary people being exclusively attracted to other women and nonbinary people!"

Lesbian is a multifaceted label that can describe many different experiences. There is no one perfect definition of lesbian that will encompass the entire diverse experiences that lesbians can have.

I'm personally a genderqueer woman who's exclusively attracted to other women, but the lesbian next to me might be a transmasc lesbian who loves all genders except for men. And the lesbian next to them might be a bigender lesbian who's both a girl and a boy, who's exclusively attracted to women. Our experiences can all be described by the term lesbian if that's how we wish to describe it, but we might define it differently based on our own experiences. And guess what?

None of our definitions are wrong, but none of our definitions will encompass every other lesbian's experiences. A word can have multiple definitions without any of the definitions being wrong. And those definitions can be very vague or very specific. Labels are made to fit us- we aren't made to fit labels.

People who may have a different experience with the lesbian label are not your enemies. People in lesbian spaces who aren't exactly like you are not your enemies. The problem comes when you try to force one singular definition on every single lesbian. THAT is harmful. Sending death threats to other lesbians because they don't have the same experience as you is harmful. Not another lesbian having a different experience from you.

#i'm tired of seeing this ridiculous argument online #if you're obsessed with giving every label one rigid definition then fuck you #lgbt+ identities do not always neatly fit into boxes #people seem to understand this with most other identities. i think i can guess why y'all are so rigid about lesbians (it's misogyny)#venus.txt #lesbian #trans lesbian #bi lesbian #mspec lesbian #multigender lesbian #bigender lesbian #transmasc lesbian #male lesbian #butch lesbian #he/him lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #genderfluid lesbian

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cyberr-v0id · 3 months

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‘We need weirder queers’ y’all can’t even handle genderfluid lesbians, be real with yourself

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intergalacticgoose · 4 months

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I wish there was a way someone could diagnose your gender.

Like I wish you could walk into an office and be like “ay doc, I’m AFAB but I have a phantom kibbles and bits, I cried watching ‘Stand By Me’ and relish the anonymity of the internet but when I pick up a romance novel I’m One Of The Girls, I think ‘I wanna be like that guy’ frequently, I want to smell like mesquite and oh, I’m also a raging lesbian. What’s going on” and the doctor goes “hmm, hmm, ah yes” and hands you like a flag or something

#gender #gender questioning #genderqueer #genderfluid #genderfluid lesbian #nonbinary #enby #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer #trans masc #trans femme #androgynous #femininity #masculinity #agender #gender nonconforming #gay #hella gay

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rouge-the-bat · 7 months

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people put out 2 boxes, one labeled "woman" and another labeled "man." they point to the "woman" box and tell me that if i am to be a lesbian, i have to sit in that one. but i do not fit, i spill over and onto the floor.

then people put out 3 boxes, one labeled "woman," one "nonbinary," and another "man." they point to the "woman" and "nonbinary" boxes and say that if im a lesbian, i can sit in either of those. i do not fit in just one, and i can not cut myself into two to be able to sit inside both.

then people toss out the "woman" and "nonbinary" boxes and replace it with one bigger box labeled "non-man." surely this will fix the issue, they say. i sit in it. i dont fit. i spill over onto the floor.

#that is to say i can not fit into any one separate label and i am not just one or the other #i am NOT either a non-man or a man. i am a woman AND man AND many forms of nonbinary #multigender #lesbian #multigender lesbian #genderfluid #genderfluid lesbian

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bunnygirl-titties · 1 year

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It’s my job as a LESBIAN

To worship

To caress

To love

To beg for

And to deep throat

✨ G I R L C O C K ✨

Reblogs appreciated

This is for lesbians(and other wlw)

This is about lesbian sex

✨men & minors DNI✨

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bi-lesbian · 1 year

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shoutout to all my fellow lesbians who are told theyre not ""really"" a lesbian, i see you and stand alongside you and love you. youre wholly and completely a lesbian, your lesbianess is not dictated by anyone but you 💖

#positivity #lesbian #lesbian week of visibility #lesbian visibility week #mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #ply lesbian #omni lesbian #trans lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #man lesbian #genderfluid lesbian #multigender lesbian #bigender lesbian #agender lesbian #aroace lesbian #and all other lesbians ♡♡

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sirenium · 10 months

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Greetings and salutations to trans men who are lesbians. You aren't straight if you don't identify as such, and you're certainly not invalidating other experiences! There's no one way to experience being a trans man, nor is there a wrong way to express being a lesbian.

Hello and welcome to people who otherwise identify as lesboys for whatever reason! Are you multigender? Cool! butch who also considers themself a man? Tubular! Genderfluid? Rad! Man adjacent regardless of gender? Wicked! Keep being you!

Guten Tag, Guten Abend (good day, good evening) to gaybians! Don't let nobody tell you your identity is invalid. You're allowed to use all the labels that feel comfortable to you!

Make some noise for the people who use/identify with xenogenders! It's your gender, so do whatever you want with it! This includes those of us who are xenic adults, as well.

Can we get a warm welcome for endo systems? How about tulpas? You're not racist or ableist for having a different system origin! Mixed origin? Quoigenic? Any other type of origin? Y'all are rad, too. Keep being you.

Keep vibing, everyone I mentioned here, as well as those with any other good faith identities I missed!

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pansy-byke · 10 months

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"Lesbians are non men.." Actually I'm a bigendered, crossdressing, boygirl, manwoman, genderfucker androgyne

#genderqueer lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #genderfluid lesbian #multigender lesbian #lesboy #boydyke #guydyke #dykefag #fagdyke

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genderqueerdykes · 2 years

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i feel like this should really go without saying but here we go: lesbians are allowed to have multiple genders. lesbians are allowed to have complicated genders. lesbians are allowed to not be women or woman aligned. lesbians are allowed to have no gender. lesbians are allowed to have 'contradictory' genders, or ones that don't make sense to you. lesbians are allowed to be men. lesbians are allowed to be complex people.

lesbians are allowed to be who they are. lesbians don't owe you shit.

#lesbian #lesbians #lesbianism #nonbinary lesbian #lesboy #nb lesbian #genderfluid lesbian #bigender lesbian #trans lesbian #butch lesbian

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pridewishes · 6 months

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requested by anon !!

#pomni #tadc pomni #the amazing digital circus #tadc #icons #pride edit #pride icons #pfp #edit #genderfluid lesbian #genderfluid #lesbian

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rouge-the-bat · 7 months

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i really do wonder what ppl who tout the "non-men loving non-men" definition of lesbian think about multigender people. do they EVER consider us? even a tiny bit? bc it certainly doesnt feel like it. it feels like any one of these situations:

they already dont think being multigender is a thing, and say shit like "you can only be a man, a woman, or nonbinary, not all of the above."

they quite literally dont think about how multigender people would work in relation to sexuality. they may claim to support us, but they dont pay attention to or care about the fact our gender identity ISNT just an isolated thing that has no affect or connection to anything else about us.

they look at my gender (genderfluid between woman, man, and many forms of nonbinary, more oftentimes a mix), and say oh well youre PARTIALLY a man in some way so that means you cant be a lesbian! so, basically my man-ness just "taints" me and negates the fact that im also a woman and nonbinary? what about the days where my genderfluidity contains no bit of man at all? can i only be a lesbian SOMETIMES?

they yell about non-men all they want, but see my gender and go, "oh not YOU though :) i mean people who are ONLY a man!" and not realize how that is 1. them not saying at all what they mean in their definition if still SOME men are okay and 2. extremely comes across as misgendering and that they dont see me as Actually a man if im not mono-gendered, regardless of their intention. if you are going to categorize people as "men or non-men" and try to fit me in only one or the other, you are misgendering me no matter what. non-men is not the same thing as non-mono-gendered-men.

and all of this also makes me wonder: what would these people think if they saw me in person, holding hands with my girlfriend?

for context: transmeds would 100% consider me a faker not only bc im genderfluid, use any pronouns (esp neos), and am without dysphoria (for gender anyways), but because theyd think im just cis. im afab with no hormone changes or surgery, nor do i want any (my ideal genitals being a dick or barbie-doll-smooth aside, since i dont care enough to do surgery about it, and any of my other gender ideals would require shapeshifting), i like my big boobs, AND im femme. my fat even adds to my curves. most people would probably read me as only a girl and not think twice about it, esp if im dressing up as femme as i like being at the time.

so, if these people shouting "non-men loving non-men" at those like me all the time ended up seeing me irl, what would they think? would they see im extremely femme and read as a girl while holding hands with my girlfriend (who isnt femme but still is easily read as a girl) and think oh yeah, thats a lesbian right there? because a huge part of me says that they absolutely would have no issue with it

who knows if anyone who swears up and down by the "non-men loving non-men" definition will actually read this, but i REALLY wish more people would actually hear out multigender folks and see how definitions like this are incompatible with us. think about how our identity doesnt exist in a vacuum. realize that plenty of us ARE lesbians no matter what anyone else says, and we do not abide to your """inclusive""" definition that actually doesnt consider our existence at all.

or at least realize identity labels dont have a one-size-fits-all definition in the vastness of queer experiences, that people are going to have definitions for things that are different from yours, and you dont hold the One True Right Definition. realize that definitions are not rules that are placed upon words, theyre explanations for how these words are being used across the world, through time, and vary from person, place, and time. definitions are fluid, not static, and many words have multiple definitions.

#lesbian #multigender #genderfluid #lesboy #genderfluid lesbian #multigender lesbian

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bunnygirl-titties · 11 months

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Ok!

So I have recently discovered I’m Polyamorous!

I had the thought before, but due to insecurities and my own personal problems I dropped it!

Now that I’m happy, healthy, and confident

I’m definitely polyam! I have SO MUCH LOVE and affection to give!!

And my dom wants us to get a girlfriend to share 🥰🥰🥰

Things are all looking up and bright for me and I’m excited to learn more about this new self discovery

(Not in colored text cuz this is important)