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fixing-bad-posts · 2 months

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My favourite is bi trans lesbians !!!!! We support!!!!

#fixingbadposts #fixing-bad-posts #erasure poetry #pro mspec #bi lesbian positivity #bi lesbians #bi lesbian #trans lesbian #trans lesbians #queer

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viridi-is-sapphic · 1 year

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Reblog if your blog is a safe space for any mspec mono peoples!!

@genderstarbucks thanks for letting me use the image!! Credit goes to him!!

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zootzbootz · 6 months

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"you can't be bi and lesbian!"

"you can't be straight and gay!"

"you can't be allo and aspec!"

"you can't be a lesbian man!"

"you can't be a vincian woman!"

"you can't be cis and trans!"

multigender, abrosexual, and varioriented people have left the chat

In all reality, "contradictory" labels and the people who use them are wonderful/gen

#discourse #queer #pro mspec #varioriented #abrosexual #multigender #straight gay #bi lesbian #cistrans #lesboy #turigirl #positivity #mogai safe #lgbtq #mspec safe

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doomgendr · 3 months

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lesbigay / bigayles flag

for people who use the labels bi, gay, and lesbian to pin down their complex attraction/identity!!

higher quality + more versions on my twitter

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sweaty-confetti · 1 month

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Queer identity politics are so weird “what if someone told you that they were a trans guy and also a woman ?? What if they said they were a gay man but also bisexual ??” id probably kiss them sloppy style what do u want from me

#emo moss talks #I’m still on this like it just doesn’t matter at all #queer discourse #rad inclus #pro mspec #mspec safe

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sirenium · 10 months

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Greetings and salutations to trans men who are lesbians. You aren't straight if you don't identify as such, and you're certainly not invalidating other experiences! There's no one way to experience being a trans man, nor is there a wrong way to express being a lesbian.

Hello and welcome to people who otherwise identify as lesboys for whatever reason! Are you multigender? Cool! butch who also considers themself a man? Tubular! Genderfluid? Rad! Man adjacent regardless of gender? Wicked! Keep being you!

Guten Tag, Guten Abend (good day, good evening) to gaybians! Don't let nobody tell you your identity is invalid. You're allowed to use all the labels that feel comfortable to you!

Make some noise for the people who use/identify with xenogenders! It's your gender, so do whatever you want with it! This includes those of us who are xenic adults, as well.

Can we get a warm welcome for endo systems? How about tulpas? You're not racist or ableist for having a different system origin! Mixed origin? Quoigenic? Any other type of origin? Y'all are rad, too. Keep being you.

Keep vibing, everyone I mentioned here, as well as those with any other good faith identities I missed!

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savorthesin · 1 month

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cozecomfic (req by @meowmeowmoew )

when your gender feels comfy and cozy, like a teddy bear, a nice blanket, a nap, a warm hug, etc. !

#flag coining #lgbtq+#pride flag #gender #lgbtqia #mogai coining #mspec safe #pro mspec #xeno coining #xenogender

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yourfaveismspecqueer · 5 months

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Jonathan Sims from The Magnus Archives is Bisexual (canon), Asexual (canon), and Genderqueer (headcanon)

#mspec #mspec friendly #mspec gay #mspec safe #pro mspec #tma podcast #tma #the magnus archives #jonathan sims #jon tma #jonathan sims tma

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fixing-bad-posts · 7 months

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Okay not to be that person but I'm getting really sick and tired of hearing/seeing people be mean, so stop.

And yes, labels can be fluid and contradict each other sometimes <3

Bi lesbian is a valid sexuality

No hate on my dash.

Edit: Adding on real quick, nb people can be lesbians If you identify as a lesbian.

#fixing-bad-posts #fixingbadposts #blackout poetry #internet etiquette #bi lesbians #bi lesbian positivity #bi lesbian #pro mspec #mspec lesbians #nonbinary lesbian #queer inclusivity #queer

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truthfully-system · 1 month

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This has to be a troll post right? This HAS to be a troll post

You made a flag for demiBOY lesbians, and have "men/male lesbians" in your dni... bro, bro.... BRO??? Am I real rn, its nearly 4 am and I havent slept this MUST be me hallucinating or dreaming!

This post is basically "^w^ masc-gender lesbian flags!!! But if you actually dare to identidy as masc-gender and call yourself a lesbian then these flags and this post isnt for youuuu"

I feel like im loosing my mind, wtf is this, I'm just- wtf is this 💀

#pro mspec #mspec safe #anti mspec #anti mspec lesbian #anti mspec gay #lesboy #fagdyke #gaybian #idk what else to tag this im just loosing my mind imma sleep now

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kiruliom · 2 months

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"erm, why do you NEED to use the label mspec gay? just use homoflexible or achillean" because I dont like the name or the flags of either or those and both the label gay and mspec meant a lot to me and therefore are a permanent part of my identity now, suck it.

#not flagpost #mspec gay #mspec safe #mspec friendly #pro mspec

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angelivampic · 15 days

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୨୧ Lesboy Gaybian Turigirl

a flag for people who are lezboyz, gaybianz, and turigirlz! probably already existzzzz buuut herez my version :3 [PT: a flag for people who are lesboys, gaybians and turigirls! probably already exists but heres my version]

[PT: coined before? consider it an alt flag!]

#— new video⠀♡ ( coining )#— the idols identity⠀♡⠀ ( hoard )#mspec lesbian #mspec friendly #lesboy #mspec safe #turigirl #gaybian #mspec gay #pro mspec #radqueers please interact

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caeliangel · 9 months

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IMAGE IDS WILL BE UNDER CUT. (very long)

✦︰︵︵ MSPEC LESBIAN (own take)

1. Bi lesbian 2. Pan lesbian 3. Omni lesbian

4. Poly lesbian 5. Abro lesbian 6. Mspec lesbian

EXPLANATIONS ✦ ╲╲ ︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶

Mspec lesbian flags to match my bigay ones or simply to be coherent and have both mspecles and mspecgay because why not!!

MEANINGS ✦ ╲╲ ︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶

There are no individual meanings, but collective stripes meanings.

Two first: Lesbianism, saphicism, being queer for women. Third: being mspec lesbian. Fourth: attraction to genders different to your own. Two lasts: attraction to genders similar to your own.

ID. 6 rectangular flags with six stripes. The first flag is a bi lesbian flag with stripes that are, in order: Red-Orange, orange, beige, pink, warm purple, indigo. The second flag is a pan lesbian flag with stripes that are, in order: beige, orange, red-orange, pink, yellow, lily white / almost white blue. The third flag is an omni lesbian flag, with stripes that are, in order: peach orange, orange, dark pink, indigo, lavender, pale lavender. The fourth flag is a poly lesbian flag, with stripes that are, in order: rusty red, pinkish orange, beige pink, pink, pine green, indigo. The fifth one is an abro lesbian flag, with stripes that are, in order: dark orange, orange, light yellow, green, pink, darker pink. The last flag is a general mspec lesbian flag with stripes that are, in order: redish orange, orange, pastel yellow, purple, blue, violet. END OF ID.

PT. Ids and pts under cut. Mspec lesbian. Own take. In order. Bi, pan, omni, poly, abro, mspec lesbian. Explanations. Mspec lesbian flags to match my bigay ones or simply to be coherent and have both mspecles and mspecgay because why not. Meanings. There are no individual meanings, but collective stripes meanings. Two first: Lesbianism, saphicism, being queer for women. Third: being mspec lesbian. Fourth: attraction to genders different to your own. Two lasts: attraction to genders similar to your own. END OF PT

#mspec mono #mspec vincian #mspec lesbian #pro mspec #liom #mogai #radinclu #⚰️︰︵︵ rise the flag #🩸︰︵︵ gift for the beloveds #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #ply lesbian #omni lesbian #abro lesbian #radinclu flags

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savorthesin · 30 days

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mean npd gay + mean bpd gay!! ,, creds if reposting:)

meannpdgay: when your a mean gay with npd! (exclusive to pwnpd, inclusive to mspec ids)

meanbpdgay: when your a mean gay with bpd!(exclusive to pwbpd, inclusive to mspec ids)

#flag coining #lgbtq+#pride flag #lgbtqia #mogai coining #mspec safe #pro mspec #npd safe #bpd safe

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redtail-lol · 4 months

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Presenting, Enderqueer

[Image ID: 2 6-striped flags. They are the same flag, but the one on the left has an end portal overlay, which makes it darker with lighter rectangular speckles. Colors on the right's, in descending order, are: pink; light purple; dark purple; black; dark teal-blue; slightly dark sea green. The right has darkened versions of these same colors. End ID.]

My own blankqueer label. I've been wanting to make one for a while. Name and flag based on the End dimension from Minecraft.

Core principles of Enderqueer:

The core principles of Enderqueer are as follows

The right to self identification with little restrictions and rules.

Inclusion of non-harmful identities in the communities they say they belong to.

Respecting the identities of people even if you do not understand.

Giving everyone a chance to explain their identity before deeming it harmful; as well as respecting someone's choice to not explain and assuming good faith rather than passing judgement.

Putting experiences over definitions; allowing all labels to have outliers if they're comfortable with the label even when it doesn't fit them perfectly.

Queer liberation and the advancements of our rights.

Destroying heteronormativity, cisnormativity, exorsexism, intersexism, allonormativity, amatonormativity, and mononormativity (all 3 meanings of mono: monosexuality, monogenderism, and monogamy).

Enderqueer beliefs:

On identity, enderqueer believes the following

Most forms of self identification are valid, however anything that is identified with for harmful reasons (such as transphobia, biphobia/multiphobia, homophobia, ableism, racism, etc.) or things that are harmful regardless of reason (such as transabled, transrace for non-adoptees, transnazi, shit like that), are not valid.

It is okay to ask questions about identities you don't understand or think are harmful before fully accepting them without question. However, if a person doesn't want to answer, that is their right, and it doesn't give you the right to argue against or hate their identity. Assume good faith and maybe ask others who have similar identities.

Identity is complicated and every label, regardless of definition, can and will have outliers, and this is not a problem

Experiences and personal comforts are more important than definitions

All mspec identities are valid and are not biphobic

All aspecs are queer unless the aspec person in particular says they aren't.

All Polyamory, ambiamory, and other nonmonogamy is queer unless the polyam/non-monogam person in particular says they are not queer.

Redundant terms are okay

Multigendered and genderfluid people are "really" their genders. The existence of their other genders or the temporary nature of their genders don't make them less real

On paraphilias, enderqueer believes the following

Paraphilias are morally neutral. Paraphiles who's paraphilias are nonconsensual or harmful to themselves or others deserve support and recovery, and paraphiles who's paraphilias are not harmful should be allowed to act on it. Paraphilias that can either be harmful or not harmful should only be practiced in a safe and ethical way.

On flag discourse, enderqueer believes the following

Flags should not be gatekept from certain groups unless they are specific to one identity or one group of identities. people can decide to use your flags based on your beliefs.

Controversial original flags can be used regardless of if you agree with the creators, but replacement flags should not be used by people who don't agree with the sentiments behind the cancellation. Racist transphobes should not use the orange and pink lesbian flag. Mspec lesbians and supporters should not use the new pan or aroace flags. This is because the new flags have a goal: punish the original creator for a belief by replacing their work. Using replacement flags is accomplishing that goal, and if you agree with the original creator, you shouldn't punish them.

Multioriented and abrosexual people are "really" their orientations. The existence of their other orientations or the temporary nature of their orientations don't make them less real

Other things enderqueer believes the following

Queer labels should not concern themselves with non-queer issues, as that is a different part of one's identity. Making queer labels that concern themselves with non-queer issues excludes the people who are either uneducated on the topic or have no business voicing the opinion because they are not a part of the community or even adjacent.

Gender is real. Social constructs are powerful things that can cause real and observable phenomenon in the brain, and gender being real doesn't invalidate any funky gender identity

Gender Abolition is transphobic. Gender is the identity, and taking away gender leaves nothing but biological sex which may still allow binary trans people to exist if they experience dysphoria but will definitely erase all nondysphoric and nonbinary people.

Transmisogyny and transmisandry are real

POC queers are an unremovable and important part of the queer community

What does enderqueer explicitly support?

Enderqueer supports the following identities, actions, or forms of identification:

Unlabeled identities

People who use few labels for themselves

Termcollectors and labelhoarders

All aspecs, including loveless aros, any sex stance for aces, romance stance for aros, friendship stance for apls, etc, and atertiaries

Anti-contact, pro-recovery paraphiles who's paraphilias are harmful to themselves or others

Paraphiles who's paraphilias are not harmful to themselves or others

Paraphiles who's paraphilias can be harmful or can be safe who only act on them in a way that is safe and ethical

Mspec monos

Mspec gays, veldians, lesbians, cenelians, enbians, straights, etc who do not consider themselves monos

Straightbians, straight gays, straight veldians, gaybians/velaurians, and other labels often used by multigender people

Lesboys, turigirls, ceneliboys and ceneligirls, enbiboys and enbigirls, trixiboys and trixigirls, and toriboys and torigirls

Any other form of "contradictory" labels

Aspec and non-aspec SAM

Xenogenders

Xenidens, or xenoids used in reclamation

Allion orientations

Gender nonconformity, including pronoun nonconformity

Neurolabels, when used by people who have those conditions

Reclamation of slurs and derogatory terms, even when used as an identity

Transracial adoptees

Transspecies therians

Transage chronosian or transage age regressors

What does enderqueer explicitly denounce?

Enderqueer denounces the following identities, actions, or forms of identification:

Radqueers

Winterqueers or Winterpunks

Transidentities that are not transgender, transrace adoptees, therian transspecies, or chronosian/agere transage

Pro-contact harmful paraphilias or neu-contact harmful paraphilias. This also applies to unethical or unsafe ways of acting on a paraphilia that can be done in a safe, ethical way

Comp-contact for paraphilias that can never be safe or ethical in practice

Anti-recovery for ANY paraphilias. Nonharmful paraphiles may choose to recover anyway

Anti-contact for paraphilias that are never dangerous or unethical

Radical feminists

Not recognizing attraction to elsegender people as being just as real and valid as attraction to aptobinary people. This includes calling all exclusive lesbians monosexual, saying all sexualities inherently include elsegender people, thinking enbians are choosing to date nonbinary people or cenelians are choosing not to date aptobinary people, rather than recognizing that they are attracted to other elsegender people, potentially exclusively, or calling WLN and MLN labels transphobic or enbyphobic

Bad faith labels such as superstraight, quasihomosexual, animesexual (though animesexual can be reclaimed by fictosexuals), and others made to mock queerness or justify bigotry

What is enderqueer neutral on, or what does enderqueer not believe needs to be part of a blankqueer label?

Enderqueer is stanceless on the following:

Syscourse

Shipcourse

Self diagnosis

Furries

Alterhumanity (OP supports and it's close to queer discourse but ultimately I decided it was far enough removed that it didn't need to be included)

Engaging with problematic media and/or creators

Kink at pride (I know this one is super relevant but I don't have any strong opinions and the ones I do have are very mixed)

Enderqueers may have no opinion on the above issues, or a stance that they do not believe is important to a blankqueer label. Or they may just agree with everything else included under enderqueer and choose to use it.

#blankqueer #queer label #label coining #queer stance #pro mogai #pro mspec gay #pro mspec lesbian #pro mspec #anti radqueer #anti winterpunk #anti winterqueer #pro para #anti contact #enderqueer

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sirenium · 11 months

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I don't know who needs to hear this, or if it will even reach an audience at all, but you're valid. I'm talkin about the people who are constantly told they aren't valid by their own community: the lesboys, mspecs and everyone of the like. Those of us with 'contradictory' identities. The people who use neopronouns, nounself pronouns, emoji pronouns, and/or xenogenders. You're just as valid as the people who fit neatly into simpler, more 'acceptable' and 'normal' identities. And don't let anyone tell you different.

I know it's hard. I've witnessed a pan lesbian get doxxed on Twitter all because they identified as such. You see, people like us aren't what's harming the community, but some people will try to make you feel that way. Try not to let it get to you.

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