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bi-lesbian · 15 days

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can an alternate symbol for mspec-lesbian(/mspec-gays/etc. if that’s what the symbol applies too) be 🌙🌺/🌺🌙? I don’t want people thinking I’m a gross comshipper….

-Comic🪐

its specifically 🌙🌙🌸 for the bi double moons, and theres no violet flower emoji for lesbian so the sakura is in place to at least fit the upright, 5-petaled look from my bi lesbian symbol (so its not a bi gay symbol as well, ive been meaning to make one but havent gotten around to it yet). but you can do whatever you want, i guess

whatever this is people are coming to me about seems extremely new and niche though, never heard of it before and any results are only in the past couple years 🤷‍♀️ my 🌙🌙🌸 symbolism for bi lesbian has been around longer

id rather not make a mental association of my identity to something that triggers me, so id appreciate people not bringing this topic up to me again

#bi lesbiask #shipcourse tw

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bi-lesbian · 7 months

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can i use the mspec lesbian flag as an emote in my server?

yeah! they can be used anywhere for anything! same for my symbols!

#the only thing i dont want is ppl claiming to have made them or w/e but i dont really expect that to happen #bi lesbiask

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bi-lesbian · 7 months

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[submission by @crescentcuffs ]

Bi lesbian sprigatito

Hi! This is my love letter to all bi lesbians 💕 combining the awesome flag and the symbol with sprigatito! I’m new to tumblr so I’m not sure if this is how I’m supposed to present this and if it isn’t I apologize :( anyone can use this for anything as long as it’s in good faith and I everyone likes it!

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omg this is SO FUCKING CUTE ??? its so so good !!! tysm for sharing this with me!!!

#submission #bi lesbian #sprigatito #pokemon #flag art #HOLDS THEM UP!!!!!!!#A BABY FOR ALL BI LESBIANS

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bi-lesbian · 7 months

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love how many gay men and lesbians fucked around sexually with each other and wrote about it in history. what curiosity. what generosity. what magnificent exploratory spirit.

#VERY GOOD POST #mspec lesbian #bi lesbian

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bi-lesbian · 7 months

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I'm a female exclusively and only attracted sexually and romantically to other females. What does that make me?

well its not like i can Assign you a label, bc identities dont work like that. you can use just lesbian, if you want, since it being an umbrella label doesnt mean it cant also apply to your identity. thats the great things about identities though, that you can choose your labeling or even go unlabeled and just live youre life, theyre not prescriptive.

though, if you mean "female" specifically to mean people assigned that at birth, then id just label you an asshole.

otherwise, enjoy the wonders of the vast lesbian experiences of your fellow lesbians if you so choose. bc isnt it great we can all share our joy in being attracted to/loving women no matter how different we may be?

#ik this ask is extremely likely isnt in good faith but i just woke up n have salt in me ig #bi lesbiask #lesbian #im gonna try to get more sleep snnzz i dont like waking up at 6 am

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bi-lesbian · 8 months

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hi there! is it okay if i make an mspec gay/veldian symbol to go with your mspec lesbian symbol? i was thinking of keeping the mspec crescents but changing the flower to a carnation. if you don't want me to that's okay! i love your flags and symbols btw they're all so pretty, the bi, pan, and omni lesbian flags are some of my fav flags :D

actually i have been planning to make an mspec gay symbol, and with a carnation! i havent gotten around to it yet, but i already have a design in mind! so hopefully i can get that made out sometime soon (just need to get past my energy issues)

and thank you so much!! that makes me happy to hear ^w^

#bi lesbiask #part of why i hadnt gotten around to it yet was bc my tablet died. but i got a new one now!#n ive had so many projects on the backburner its hard to keep track of em all fisufhd #so this was a good reminder that this was one of the things i wanted to get done

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bi-lesbian · 9 months

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Hiii, I have a terminology question?

I've always assumed Masc lesbian was in reference to them being masc individuals, but the she/her mlm equivalent is also called Masc gay? (I've been referring to them as femme mlms, and such because I couldn't find a community name)

Is u h there a reason for this? Does masc in this content mean something else?

-thankkkk youuuu

i have a feeling you may be misreading something! if youre asking for what this blog is about, thats mspec lesbians and mspec gays. mspec means multi-spectrum attraction, nothing about being masc! (though anyone whos mspec can be masc or not, but theyre not related labels) mspec is for anyone who likes more than one gender, so its an umbrella label for bi, pan, poly, omni, etc!

btw if someone is a she/her gay, it doesnt necessarily mean theyre femme/fem, same for he/him lesbians arent necessarily butch/masc! theres a wide overlap of course, but pronouns dont always equal presentation or otherwise!

#bi lesbiask #i hope this has cleared anything up!

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bi-lesbian · 10 months

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[saw something dumb on twitter] [is annoyed by LGBT+ identity discourse again] [is tempted by the devilish darkness to make a post about it]

#EXTREMELY good post #so many of these ppl dont even consider multigender ppl like me #im a woman AND a man AND many various nonbinary genders #my man-ness doesnt cancel out my woman-ness and vice versa #trying to label lesbian as exclusively for ''non-men'' is completely ignoring the existence of ppl like me #who are both men AND have ''non-man'' genders #im a woman/nonbinary bi lesbian but im NOT a ''non-man'' bc im a man as well!!!!!#lesbian #bigender lesbian #genderfluid lesbian #multigender lesbian #transmasc lesbian #man lesbian #explanation #<- adding that tag bc its relevant for bi lesbianism too to not define lesbianism as strictly nonmen

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bi-lesbian · 10 months

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and here is all of them in their original size! (each sprite is 25x25 pixels)

mpsec lesbian symbols: sprite edition!

two alternate versions for the pixelated gradient! in order its mspec lesbian, bi lesbian, pan lesbian, poly lesbian, and omni lesbian! these are all 10 times the size of the normal sprites, so they show up more clear in post format.

feel free to use! 🌙🌙🌸 just dont claim u made them or anything of course lol

#mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #ply lesbian #omni lesbian #flags #my flags #symbol #flag art #🌙🌙🌸

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bi-lesbian · 10 months

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mpsec lesbian symbols: sprite edition!

two alternate versions for the pixelated gradient! in order its mspec lesbian, bi lesbian, pan lesbian, poly lesbian, and omni lesbian! these are all 10 times the size of the normal sprites, so they show up more clear in post format.

feel free to use! 🌙🌙🌸 just dont claim u made them or anything of course lol

#mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #ply lesbian #omni lesbian #flags #my flags #symbol #flag art #🌙🌙🌸

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bi-lesbian · 10 months

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i love you weird queers. i love you neopronouns. i love you microlabels. i love you labels people deem confusing/contradictory. i love you label hoarders. i love you kinky asexuals. i care you loveless folks. i love you queerplatonic relationships. i love you attractions outside of just romantic and sexual. i love you vastness of the queer experience.

i love you queers who are unabashedly yourself no matter how strange people may find your identity, and embrace deconstructing the norm and supposed rules of identities.

#queer #pride #pride month #positivity #too much for me to tag but just know i love queerness in all shapes and forms so much. were so cool

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bi-lesbian · 11 months

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#bi lesbian #unsafe dyke keep clear #banner #pride banner #blinkies #flag art #i spent a while making this one so pls credit me if u use it !!!#u can credit me from my main or this blogs url it doesnt matter which #ALSO if ur not sure what this is referencing. google the words ull see the pic it originates from. its a plain white sign that says this #ill be making versions of this with my other mspec lesbians flags too btw!! im just too tired to do it rn

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bi-lesbian · 11 months

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happy pride ! to the faggots and freaks, the trannies, the boygirls and girlboys and the he/him butches and she/her twinks ! to the gendervague and the genderfucked !! to every trans and nonbinary person at whatever stage they're at !! and to the eggs and the questioning ! to my bisexuals and pansexuals and omnisexuals and polysexuals and the lesbians w/ boyfriends and gays w/ girlfriends !! happy pride to the queers who wear battle jackets and the queers who stealth and every single one of you in between !! happy pride to my aces and aros !! happy pride all you funky sexual deviants and kinksters !! to my elders who faced decades of bigotry and lost many a loved one, and the youngsters learning our history and experiencing it themselves !

I love you all so so much I love us and who we are and I ask you: be kind to each other

#hell yeah!!!#dont feel like tagging everything im seepy #positivity #pride month

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bi-lesbian · 11 months

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happy pride reminder mspec lesbians and gays are the coolest (proof: i am one)

#mspec lesbian #mspec gay #bi lesbian #bi gay #pan lesbian #pan gay #ply lesbian #ply gay #omni lesbian #omni gay #pride month #positivity

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bi-lesbian · 1 year

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shoutout to all my fellow lesbians who are told theyre not ""really"" a lesbian, i see you and stand alongside you and love you. youre wholly and completely a lesbian, your lesbianess is not dictated by anyone but you 💖

#positivity #lesbian #lesbian week of visibility #lesbian visibility week #mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #ply lesbian #omni lesbian #trans lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #man lesbian #genderfluid lesbian #multigender lesbian #bigender lesbian #agender lesbian #aroace lesbian #and all other lesbians ♡♡

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bi-lesbian · 1 year

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Happy Lesbian Visibility Week to "Controversial" Lesbians!

He/Him Lesbians Nonbinary Lesbians Male Lesbians and Lesboys Straightbians and Gaybians Mspec Lesbians AroAce Lesbians

"Controversial" lesbians are amazing and powerful and deserve space in the lesbian community

#BLESS #lesbian visibility week #positivity #lesbian #he/him lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #man lesbian #male lesbian #lesboy #straight lesbian #straightbian #gay lesbian #gaybian #mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #ply lesbian #omni lesbian #aroace lesbian

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bi-lesbian · 1 year

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lesbian related discourse tires me out sm. first it was aro/ace lesbians then it was nonbinary lesbians then it was he/him lesbians and it/its lesbians and now its bi/pan/mspec lesbians like when are all of you going to realize that the lesbian experience is extremely diverse and has never been as strict as "women who only identify as women who love exclusively women who only identify as women". like this goes for many identities but lesbians end up at the forefront a lot and it makes me wonder if any of you actually give a shit about queer history because istg lesbian separatism has been reinvented like 50 times in the past decade.

stop convincing each other that the queer experience is nothing but strictly defined boxes and labels that can always be condensed into one sentence. lesbians can experience a lack of sexual attraction and a lack of romantic attraction and lesbians can be nonbinary and lesbians can be gnc and when you actually go into what those last two mean you should realize that yes this means sometimes lesbians are men because genderfluid and bigender and trigender and transmasc and whatever gender lesbians exist and when you actually goes into what THAT means you should realize yes actually people combining labels like mspec and lesbian makes perfect sense because of fucking course orientation and gender and whatever else you consider to be apart of your queer experience is all fluid its all up to personal interpretation

its not shit like bi lesbians or mogai or aroace people or gnc people or "trenders" or it/its users or whatever fucking bonafide weirdos that are ruining the community its the people who want to sort everyone into neat little boxes because they cant handle that sometimes you arent going to understand other peoples experiences. its fine if mspec lesbians dont make sense to you. its fine if it doesnt make sense to you how someone could use it/its, if it doesnt make sense how a lesbian could consider himself transmasc, if it doesnt make sense how someone could seriously mean "my gender feels like a star", if whatever queer experience you run into doesnt make sense.

someone's identity does not have to make sense for you to respect them as a person and realize that exclusionary behavior is nothing but a crabs in a bucket type mentality. not only have "weird" queer people existed since fucking forever, but even if they didnt the human experience is diverse and we still dont know everything about the world and why the fuck would you decide that no actually if it cant be understood it must be bad and you need to find out reasons for it to be bad. focus on the people who are actively hurting others, taking advantage of vulnerable people, dont become one of them. dont become one of the people who scorns anything they dont understand and hurts innocent people in the quest of getting rid of anyone who they deem is abnormal. its fucked up and being any type of exclusionist is fucked up.

bi lesbians, as an overall community, is just a bunch of people who decided that a complicated label fits their complicated attraction and thats Fine. it is literally fine. being a lesbian was never about being strictly a woman who strictly loves other women who are strictly women. its about loving women in a gay/queer way, whatever that means for the individual. if an individual person is using it in a transphobic way, then thats a fault of the person, not the label. but at its core, all the identity is about is about recognizing that attraction is complicated and identity is complicated and not everyone is comfortable putting themself in neat boxes for other people to scrutinize until they Get It.

to any mspec lesbians (and hell, any mspec gays) who are reading this: im proud of you and theres nothing wrong with recognizing that your identity is complicated and maybe even contradictory. its Your experiences and no one has the right to say that youre inherently a bad person simply because they heard some strawman arguments and decided to believe in fallacy over reality. and because its probably obvious why im making this yeah maia arson crimew is literally fine its an absolute legend actually and i hope that its okay. fuck anyone who was a piece of shit to it because they cant handle someone being openly complicated and contradictory and unabashedly "Weird"

#YES !!! EXTREMELY GOOD POST!!!!#mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #ply lesbian #omni lesbian

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