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I don't know who needs to hear this, but:
It is absolutely fine to use a label, only to realise it doesn't suit you anymore. Labels aren't there to bind you to them. They serve as a way to better describe how one feels and what ones lived experience can be like.
I had two pipelines of relabeling myself simultaneously.
From bi to lesbian, and back to bi.
From asexual to demisexual (because I thought, that one day, maybe I feel this kind of attraction, as sex-ambivalent and oscillating were terms I related with, and still do), and back to being asexual.
Does that make me less sapphic or a-spec? Absolutely not.
And to be honest: I still haven't figured out if I'm demiromantic or aromantic. And that is perfectly fine. We don't own anyone an explanation, but ourselves.
If the label felt good at that time, but doesn't anymore, let it go and take the one that feels more fitting. ♡ We are human beings. We are allowed to grow. You are valid, no matter which label you choose.
#lgbtqia+#lgbtq+#lgbtq community#lgbtqia positivity#queer#asexual#ace#aromantic#aro#aspectrum#aspec#lesbian#sapphic#gay#pansexual#bisexual#trans#non binary#some positivity#queer labels#personal ramblings
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Trans men who call themselves lesbian because they still feel connected to the community they have established their place in? I love you.
Trans women who call themselves gay because they still feel connected to the community they have established their place in? I love you.
Multigender people who call themselves transfem or female gays because that term just feels right? I love you.
Multigender people who call themselves transmasc or male lesbians because that term just feels right? I love you.
Nonbinary people with nebulous and/or convuluted genders who mix and match labels no matter how contradictory they are because that's what describes them best? I love you.
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I wanna share some positive things the about the QSMP I personally see.
Of course this is just how I see it, but I feel like there's too much negativity and I need some positive stuff so if I don't see it I'll just make it.
The thing I'll highlight here is my favorite aspects of the LGBT relationships in the server in general (Mainly ships).
Firstly of ace character with qCellbit, I'll just say the moment qRoier accepted qCellbit as ace so fucking quickly it made me so happy, and in general I love their relationship and how they supported eachtother during their hardest times (Bobby's loss and qCellbit's whole arc where he pretended to betray everyone). Related to this I love how this doesn't diminish qRoier's friendship with qJaiden and they have such a strong relationship even after he marries qCellbit, she even is seen as part of their family (AS SHE SHOULD!!!!).
I also love qBagi and qTina, where they have a relationship and we can see qTina's insecurities and qBagi's patience for her. I love how qBagi opened up to her and they bonded on feeling alone and now they have eachother :(( (AND A DAUGHTER!!!! THEY WANTED A DAUGHTER AND THEY GOT IT!! W) I don't follow their story as much but their recent developments with qTina's lore is so cool and I'm so excited to see where that's going.
Obviously I love qFit and qPac (I say obviously bc it's all I talk about in my page), but the slow burn story was so good, for both characters where they have a lot to work through but support eachother though everything. My favorite part I guess is seeing them be the ''I am not marrying'' couple. They do not need a marriage to show their relationship and don't care that much about labels. I will say I know they might eventually marry and that's ok, but I for now, I really love how they don't want or care about marriage and that's ok, they're going on their own pace and that's ok too (they haven't had their first kiss yet). Idk I just love them.
The other ships don't catch that much my attention but!! I wanna say I also love the irl representation, with Mike being such an icon and defending the community (and being part of it with his partner Mine <3), Felps always defending it too, and many other. Tubbo, Bagi, Cellbit, also being queer people to look up to, and I am sure I am missing people. But in general I love the server for being so LGBT-friendly always.
I'll also always remember how quickily Slime and Mariana supported Juanaflippa her being trans. All the support she got in-story and outside of it was so nice. (And her as a character in general but that's another topic lmao).
And lastly I'll just say, as an aro-person, I love seeing how not everything is romance, most of my favorite dynamics are not ships, and there are so many found-family aspects on the server, it makes my heart full. Not everything is perfect in it but yeah!! This is an aspect I really love of the server.
#qsmp#some positivity#i am starting to come to terms with myself being bi and aro and generally being confused on a lot of sexuality and romance stuff#so this server is a nice place to be in that regard#anyways that's all from me guys hopefully I make sense I am not corny af#woe's ranting
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i think i’m starting to realise how important self love actually is
like no one may ever be able to love me romantically and guess what- that’s okay!
i’ve got my family and friends and most importantly- i’ve got myself
#personal#daily life#spreading positivity#some positivity#positive post#positivity#self care#self love#an important reminder!#important reminders#self love is the best love#self worth#self work#work in progress#working on myself
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Do you just have a really good day and the sun is shining perfectly but it's also drizzling and you just had hot coffee and your favorite type of chips and you can now solve physics numericals and you got praised by soo many teachers within one day and you feel like you could burst like sunshine-
#just had a great day but tomorrow theres a test and i must retire to study#desiblr#desi#chaotic academia#love#some positivity#desi culture#academia#light academia
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For every sick person, there is someone nurturing them.
For every war, there is someone seeking peace.
For every injustice, there is someone trying to correct it.
Yes, life can be awful, and people can be awful, but please remember that there is always someone trying to do their best to make life good again, to tel people to be kind. Focusing on the negative is important to know what is wrong and how to fix, but it is not the whole truth. The worst case scenario rules out all the people who are trying their best and succeeding in making a difference. It rules out the possibility of a best case scenario. Don't rule out the idea of something good happening just because you've become too anxious over the possibility of the worst happening.
#original writing#on anxiety#some positivity#positivity blog#people are worth it#you are worth it#we are all trying#reminder#reassurance
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Hey! You!
Yeah you! The person reading this right now.
You’re awesome! You’re special! You’re important! And you’re loved!
Have an awesome day!
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So a while ago, I had mentioned that my mom likes to send me care packages, mostly full of things she already had in her cupboard but figured I could use.
The most recent care package features:
huge bag of guajillo and ancho chiles
dried tamarind, leftover from Christmas ponche
guava paste
three packets of fruit snacks, 2 Motts, 1 Welch's.
Rice vinegar that she probably bought a year ago because it was on sale even though she never knew what she was going to use it for.
deer skin purse from a friend in Chiapas.
Arare (my favorite snack as a kid)
two bags of ground spices.
Knorr suiza (but specifically the kind that has spanish on the label because if not, apparently it's not worth using XD)
a wooden box I bought from a thrift shop as a teen. Inside was Avon brand eye cream and a bracelet I will never wear but cherish all the same.
I've been living on my own for nearly a decade now, but these assortments always make me feel so loved that I could cry. Such simple gifts yet such a pure expression of love. I don't know how I'm ever going to repay her with this one life I've been given.
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Been a while, huh? Hope you all are doing well.
A lot of bad is going on right now all at once. The genocide in Palestine is still going on, a bunch of bad things are coming regarding the internet, and ccs are doing terrible things to people. It’s overwhelming for everyone.
So, just know Miki is here for you. She’s proud of you for just waking up today, and she loves you so very much.
Take care of yourselves, guys.
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another appreciation post for my best girl to bring positivity to your feed <3
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I hope someone gives Fit a Ramón plushie at Twitchcon so he can carry his beautiful baby boy around :^)
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Well, mom came up with a new nickname for my new name :,)
It's something along the lines of "Tuft" "Tassle" or "Fluffy"
And it's very silly, but she's always had these weird nicknames for us kids and having a new one means the world to me❤️
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PSA. Its okay to do what's best for you. Its okay to sometimes not be okay. Its okay to cry and scream, let it out. Its okay to drop people who are hurting you and set boundaries for yourself. Its okay to not follow everyone and not interact with everyone. Its okay to say NO. Remember that YOU need to take care of YOU and sometimes put YOURSELF ahead of others. Please remember that you are the one thing in life you can control. So, take your medicine (if you take meds), drink water, eat a meal or a snack, take breaks from Tumblr, know your self-worth, and most importantly breathe. You can do this, you always have been able to do this, and always will be able to do this. I believe in you.
I love you, even if no one tells you so.
(feel free to reblog someone might need to see this on the dash <3)
#035. ʟɪꜱᴛᴇɴ ᴜᴘ ɢᴜʏꜱ ║psa║#009. ᴛʜᴇ ʜᴀɴᴅʟᴇʀ ꜱᴘᴇᴀᴋꜱ ║mun post║#spreading some love#and spreading some good vibes#some positivity
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This is for everyone who feels lonely right now.
I hope you know how loved you are<3
Everyone say thank you to Piper for being such a good friend to Reyna🫶🏻
them>>>>
#percy jackson#pjo#hoo#pjo hoo#percy jackson books#rick riordan#riordanverse#heroes of olympus#heroes of Olympus books#piper mclean#reyna avila ramirez arellano#some positivity#positive post#you are loved#always remember#they mean the world to me#bffs <3#girlfriends#sapphic#important reminder#you will be okay#you are worthy#you matter
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Reasons to love life:
1. You haven't listened to your next favorite song yet
2. You haven't seen your next favorite show/movie yet
3. You haven't had your favorite food again yet
4. You haven't read your next favorite book(s)
5. You haven't worn your next favorite outift
6. You haven't pet the cat/dog on the sidewalk again
7. You haven't clicked a picture of the next beautiful flower you're going to see
#feel free to add#love life#some positivity#desiblr#desi#dark academia#desi culture#light academia#love#life#positivity
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