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langefelsvigoren · 2 days
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gray-ace-space · 2 days
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happy lesbian visibility week to acespec lesbians!
💜 to gray asexual lesbians
❤ to demisexual lesbians
🧡 to aceflux lesbians (and all lesbians whose sexuality is fluid)
🩷 to trans, nonbinary, and multigender acespec lesbians (transfem, transmasc, and those who are neither!)
💜 to bi, pan, and all mspec acespec lesbians
❤ and specifically mspec lesbians who are acespec in different ways/to different degrees for different genders
🧡 to intersex acespec lesbians
🩷 to acespec lesbians of color
💖 to disabled and neurodivergent acespec lesbians, and especially those of you who are autistic - happy autism acceptance month! ❤🧡💖🩷💜
💜 to acespec femmes and butches and gnc lesbians
❤ to acespec lesbians whose sexuality is influenced by trauma
🧡 to sex repulsed acespec lesbians, sex favorable acespec lesbians, and everyone in between
🩷 to lesbians who feel alienated from lesbian communities due to their asexuality
💜 and to acespec lesbians still figuring themselves out!
i see you. you are appreciated.💖
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mx-julien · 10 hours
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t4t ace couple jaya; in their first post-transition-only communities. Nya's finally grown her hair out to her shoulders, Jay's been on T for a year
neither of them realizing they're in love because they're not interested in having sex with each other (or anyone, really). cue Rebooted and during an awkward, exhausted Jay conversation with Pixal, they get schooled on the difference between sexual and romantic attraction ("but you.. you don't have the... they can't design your body for- consciousness aside, how can you-" "my ability to have sexual relations doesn't impact my ability to fall in love")
jaya, upon realizing that Pixal's description of romance and love near perfectly fit where they want their relationship to go: haha cool okay what the shit do we do now
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scretladyspider · 11 months
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bizarreaizen · 8 months
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religious conservatives: no sex before marriage !!
asexuals: okay
religious conservatives: wait no, not like that.
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My sexual, romantic, and gender identities could all be honestly summarised as "absolutely not, but maybe, in this very extremely specific way that barely makes sense to anyone"
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hello-im-queer · 8 months
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I was today's years old when I realized that people actually think that other people are attractive.
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PEOPLE JUST LOOK AT A BODY AND BE LIKE : 'whoa I wanna date, hot, sexy, kiss kiss' ?!?!?
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queerspectral · 5 months
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Shoutout to aspecs who have dated/had sex but don't want to do so again.
Whether you thought you wanted it but later realised you didn't...
Whether you knew at the time you were just giving in to societal pressures but tried it anyway...
Whether you genuinely did want it at the time but don't any more...
Whether it was a great experience at the time or a terrible one...
Whatever the reason, it's okay to just. Stop.
You can always, always change your mind about whether dating or sex are things you want in your life. Maybe they once were. Doesn't mean they have to be now.
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maxinwell · 1 year
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Aspec Pride Cats
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[Image ID: A series of five images,each with three sloppy doodles of cats colored to look like pride flags. The flags for each photo include:
The Asexual flag, the Aromatic flag & the AroAce flag
The Demiromantic Flag, the Aroallo flag & the Fraysexual flag
The Demisexual Flag, the Aroflux flag & the Cupiosexual flag
The Aceflux flag, the Acespec flag & the Gray-Ace flag
The A-Spec flag, the Arospec flag & the Quoisexual flag]
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gray-ace-space · 2 months
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interested in sex the same way you can be a sports fan without ever playing a single sport
*reading absolute filth and humming thoughtfully* fascinating.
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the-anemoi · 2 years
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hi hi hi happy asexual awareness week! especially to those who don't feel they fit quite right
as in. the demisexuals, the greysexuals, those who are questioning asexuality or those who identify as it but still feel unsure anyways. those who are sex positive or sex neutral. those who are sex-repulsed, or those who worry that they think they're not really ace, maybe just allo and sex-repulsed. those who think they'll grow out of it, and those who worry if they'll still identify as asexual later. those who experience intrusive thoughts, those who have other factors play into their identity, those who end up worrying about it because of these factors.
it's okay not to feel confident. it's okay to worry. just think of right now, this week. you're valid. this week is for you, too.
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scretladyspider · 7 months
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wanna send some kindness to all aces in that nebulous gray area of the asexuality spectrum today. I know it can feel weird sometimes. remember, no one can take your place in ace spaces away. no one gets to decide if you’re “ace enough” except you. you are ace enough.🩶 really.
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saw an anti ace-spec people post on the asexual tag today so I wanted to make a post:
for anyone who fits anywhere on the ace spectrum, no matter how you define sexual attraction and how often you feel it, no matter your past, no matter your other orientations, and no matter how confident you are in it. Have a happy international asexuality day, this day is for you :)
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galactic-magick · 3 months
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Shoutout to gray aces and demisexuals and any others on the ace spectrum who feel sexual attraction sometimes and/or under certain circumstances cuz we need to start bonding over the fact that we have the capacity to be both extremely disinterested in sex and extremely horny with the carnal desires of a raging wild beast
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bizarreaizen · 9 months
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the asexual community isn't all about hating sex, what about aces who likes sex? what about aces who wants to have sex? what about aces who does sex? what about aces who have sex with someone to have children or any other reason? what about aces who likes watching other people have sex? what about aces who does sex to people they formed a bond with? what about aces who likes hook-ups? what about aces that don't mind talking about sex? What about aces who have lost their virginity before realizing they were asexual? what about aces who lost their virginity but already realized they were asexual? what about aces who likes sex in the media? what about aces who fantasize about sex? what about aces who likes reading about sex?
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