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elven-oracle-needs-her-adderall · 3 days

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Love getting flashbanged by explicit content on tumblr

#aroace #aromantic #acesexual #AAAAMYEYES

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colby-jac-cheese · 2 days

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Me (sleep deprived and slightly tipsy) talking to my sister: I'm worried I'm not actually queer. Like I look at women, and yeah their pretty. But I don't wanna date them or have sex with them. What if-

My sister cutting me off: you also don't wanna date or have sex with men. Because you're aroace. Remember? We've had this talk already.

Me: oh yeah . . . I forgot that means I wouldn't wanna date or have sex with any people. . . Huh.

#siblings #drunk rambles #sibling relationship #aroace #aromantic #acesexual #queer #lgbtqia #i have to keep reminding myself #thats kinda the whole point of aroace

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obsidian-hollow-archives · 6 months

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"homosexuality is unnatural! there's only two genders! it's a sin-"

I'm sorry, have you seen NATURE???

ALSO THE ARTIST IS HUMON, FIND THEM AT HUMONCOMICS.COM!! was so sure I had included that but apparently I forgot, so sorry!

and there's so many more species than this that exhibit homosexuality, varying genders, etc. SO! MANY!

it's very much a natural thing. it always has been. unfortunately, while homosexuality is found in many species, homophobia is only found in one

EDIT: added a keep reading cause this is a long post lol

EDIT: everyone in the comments needs to shut up or I will turn comments off, stop arguing, jeez

#lgbtqia #gay #lesbian #bisexual #pansexual #transgender #acesexual #nonbinary #genderfluid #genderqueer #queer #lgbtqia community #homosexuality

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sky-chau · 6 months

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Are LGBTQ labels confusing? Do you ever see a collection of words and think "aren't some of those antithetical or mutually exclusive?" Congratulations! You've run into a very interesting phenomenon that I'm about to break down to the best of my ability.

There's two major philosophies when it comes to labels, they don't have names to my knowledge so I'm gonna call them Reflective and Telegraph.

The Telegraph Label philosophy states that labels primarily function as a means of conveying useful information about one's self to others. It's telling others what pronouns, what parts and what genders that person has or is attracted to. This is usually pretty straightforward, the stuff someone interested in dating you would check before asking you out to avoid embarrassment.

The Reflective Label philosophy states that labels are primarily a tool for describing an internal experience. Putting words to feelings for the benefit of the self. This is how we get lables like stargender or autismgender. These aren't meaningfully useful labels that tell others what to expect physically or what pronouns to use. But that doesn’t mean they're useless. In the case of someone using autismgender, that label probably describes the internal experience of the ways a person's autism impacts their views on and performance of gender. Stargender likely explains not that they literally see themselves as a star but rather that their internal experience of their prefered gender performance makes them feel a way that reminds them of stars or stargazing.

And this applies to sexuality too. Boy lesbian might seem antithetical but ultimately that label isn't there to tell others anything. It's merely a comfort to have words to describe a mess of feelings and social dynamics.

And for clarification, anyone calling themselves a boy-lesbian probably isn't the cis male boogieman forcing lesbians who aren't interested in cis men to date them or else be labeled a bigot. That boogieman doesn't exist. A more likely explanation is that a nonbinary or trans person has a complex relationship with their changing gender that doesn't trigger a change in the way they see themselves in relationships and attraction thus causing them to keep or adopt the lesbian label despite the gender weirdness going on.

I see a lot of infighting about what people call themselves and whether or not certain combinations can even physically exist. And Y'know what? I don't think that's terribly productive. Neither philosophy is wrong. People are just using labels to address different root problems.

As aggravating as it might be for Telegraphers, you don't have to understand everything. Not everyone feels that they owe you the list of information you find useful, and their labels reflect that. And that's okay.

#lgbtq #psa #queer #gender #sexuality #linguistics #philosophy #gay #bisexual #trans #aromantic #acesexual #lesbian

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bizarreaizen · 8 months

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religious conservatives: no sex before marriage !!

asexuals: okay

religious conservatives: wait no, not like that.

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donelywell · 17 days

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It is apparently Asexual Day!

These goobers can fit so much self projection-

(cut is just a doodle of my little character being a me stand in)

#aroace #asexual #acesexual #sonic the hedgehog #miles tails prower #tails the fox #sonic fanart

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lottafandoms · 2 months

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#pride #ace #asexual #acesexual #ace pride #kawaii4eva

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disbestyx · 1 year

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Memes based on my own awkward Arospec life, who doesn't love that?

And I promise more of my fantastic wit will be coming to your screens very soon!

#aromantic #aro positivity #aromantism #arospec #aro culture is #aro memes #platonic #friends #advice #actually aro #aroace positivity #aroace #humor #genius #acesexual #ace pride #asexual #acespec

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cephalopolls · 1 month

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poll idea: did you realize you were queer before or after playing splatoon?

- before

- after

- not queer

Please Reblog For a Bigger Sample Size!

The term "Queer" is being used in this case to refer to someone falling outside of heterosexuality and possibly even being Cisgender.

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annajustdraws · 4 days

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Yes!

Inspierd by : @artsymeeshee

#gravity falls #gravity falls fanart #gravity falls headcanons #gravity falls ford #gravity falls fandom #gravity falls stanford #grunkle ford #ford pines #stanford pines #gravity falls art #aroace Ford #aroace #aromantic #acesexual #headcanon #!!#disney gravity falls #disney channel #just gonna leave this here

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redislonely · 3 months

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With hazbin hotel getting popular again I cannot say this enough that alastor is CANNONICLY AROACE, plz I’m begging stop romantically shipping him with the other characters or your inserts or ocs I’m begging, LEAVE HIM ALONE

#hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel alastor #alastor #alastor aroace #aroace #aromantic #acesexual

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ghost-likes-drawing · 2 months

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Okay so I finally went and watched the early Q!Guapoduo stuff because I couldn't find ones with English translations and q!Celbit told q!Roier as soon as they were married he didn't want to have sex and I'm literally going to cry. Q!Roier was just so sweet about it, I'm not normal...

Ace people get to be in love and get married and be happy and Guapoduo is my prof

#ace #acesexual #acesexual representation #guapoduo #q!cellbit #q!roier #qsmp #lgbtqsmp

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purplesterously-purple · 3 months

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It’s really fascinating when people ship two characters they get comments like

“They’re canonically straight!”

Or in the other case

“They’re canonically gay, this is an insult to the little representation we get!!”

But when a aroace character gets affected no one cares….

Just because they’re your favorite character doesn’t make it ok to erase representation

#hazbin hotel #hazbin alastor #aroace #aromantic #ship art #shipping #double standards #pls we get like nothing #acesexual

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bizarreaizen · 9 months

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the asexual community isn't all about hating sex, what about aces who likes sex? what about aces who wants to have sex? what about aces who does sex? what about aces who have sex with someone to have children or any other reason? what about aces who likes watching other people have sex? what about aces who does sex to people they formed a bond with? what about aces who likes hook-ups? what about aces that don't mind talking about sex? What about aces who have lost their virginity before realizing they were asexual? what about aces who lost their virginity but already realized they were asexual? what about aces who likes sex in the media? what about aces who fantasize about sex? what about aces who likes reading about sex?

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moogleroom · 5 months

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As an aspec person who did eventually "find the right person" it didn't suddenly erase my aro-aceness like so many aphobes believe. Being in a happy, loving relationship & feeling genuine sexual attraction for the first time in my life has done nothing to change how I feel alienated from the majority of the world, the panic spirals about not being "allo enough", the constant confusion at how love & sex focused allos can be. If anything, having a proper basis for romantic & sexual attraction has made me MORE aspec, not less. I finally feel confident in actually using these labels for myself. Aromantism & Asexuality aren't something that can be """fixed""". It'll always part of a person even if they don't seem it from the outside.

#aromantic #acesexual #demiromantic #grey ace #arospec #acespec #aspec #aroace #Ive never posted about my aroace experience before so hopefully those tags suffice #Just thinking about how annoying the youll find someone phrase is even from the perspective of someone who does experience a teeny bit #of attraction like once every few years

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irenekohstudio · 10 months

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Abra-CAT-dabra!

#asexuality #asexual #ace post #ace pride #ace #lgbt pride #kawaii art #lgbt art #lgbtpride #aroace #aspec #acespec #acesexual #catlover #cute animals #lgbt #lgbtqia #queer

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