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genderqueerdykes · 24 days

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is bullying, abusing and chasing aromantic and asexual people out of the community actually helping anyone? is it helping trans people get binders or breastforms, or find surgeons, or connect with other trans people? is it helping mspec people figure out that being attracted to multiple genders is normal and okay? is it helping lesbians and gays find each other? is it helping intersex people learn more about their conditions?

it's not. it's not helping anyone else get the resources, support and help they need. all it's doing is denying a huge chunk of the community their right to have the same things we have and want. it's not helping a single soul. it's not making it easier for anyone else to get what they need by removing these groups of people, because as queers, we all have different needs. we are here to help each other. the point of community is to help.

if you refuse to help one or two specific types of members of your own community, you are prejudiced and you are the one being disruptive to the unity and functionality of the queer community. you are the one causing problems- not the aromantics, asexuals and other aspectrum people.

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the-delta-quadrant · 9 months

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ace, aro, aroace, quoi & apl lockscreens

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maxinwell · 1 year

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Aspec Pride Cats

[Image ID: A series of five images,each with three sloppy doodles of cats colored to look like pride flags. The flags for each photo include:

The Asexual flag, the Aromatic flag & the AroAce flag

The Demiromantic Flag, the Aroallo flag & the Fraysexual flag

The Demisexual Flag, the Aroflux flag & the Cupiosexual flag

The Aceflux flag, the Acespec flag & the Gray-Ace flag

The A-Spec flag, the Arospec flag & the Quoisexual flag]

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usakkhae · 11 months

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Of course I understand sexual attraction, I read all about that in fanfics!

#I'm practically an expert #asexual #aspec #aegosexual #quoisexual

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theaceofarrows · 2 years

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#asexual #demisexual #ageosexual #aceflux #acespike #greysexual #aroace #fraysexual #quoisexual #lithosexual #asexual spectrum #aspec #aspec pride #asexual humor #asexual memes #asexual awareness week #sorry for all the flags that wouldn't fit!!

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vlada-slavik · 2 months

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LGBTQIA+ CAT PROFILE PICTURES [ pt 1O ]

Free to use, just credit if you can!

Don't see yours? Check the #lgbtcatpfp !

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#artwork #art #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtcatpfp #fraysexual #frayromantic #lithosexual #apothisexual #quoisexual #demisensual #asensual #platoniromantic #queerplatonic #aplatonic

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frogsforthefrogwar · 2 years

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#aspec #aspec memes #nebularomantic #nebulasexual #quoisexual #quoiromantic #userboxes

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lonelyy-clown · 6 months

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So I found out about non-rose attraction and specifically the shorten version of romo and sexual attraction (rose) and I really love it!

I’ve been thinking about using “rose” to shorten other labels that include both sets of attraction

Like how about rose repulsed?

Being both romance repulsed and sex repulsed

I’m also gonna use it for my other aroace labels too, like aegoaroace is aegorose (which already exists pog), quoiromantic & quoisexual is now quoirose and etc!

#may rambles #aspec #romance repulsed #sex repulsed #rose repulsed #aegosexual #aegoromantic #aegorose #quoisexual #quoiromantic #quoirose

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quoipolls · 8 days

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#quoi #quoispec #quoi polls #quoiromantic #quoisexual #aro #aspec #arospec #aromantic #ace #acespec #asexual

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rottinqbonezz · 8 days

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trying to use analogies/metaphors using food and other stuff (sorry I’m not good at ELA lmao) to explain how I see sexualities:

bisexual: hi we like all types of foods, but sometimes we prefer certain foods

pansexual: we like all foods wdc what kind

omnisexual: we’re like bisexual, we like all foods but sometimes prefer certain foods!

lesbian: we typically like the same foods, but sometimes we like those and other foods because our label can fit anyone who uses it

gay: we’re like lesbians in a way!

trans: I originally was water, but then changed to.. fire (??? idk how to do thus)

aromantic: I’m on a diet until I’m not or maybe I’m never. who cares

asexual: I’m also on a diet but for um.. shitting the food? (idk how to make sex and romance fit this food thing)

quoisexual/romantic: what do I like???

idemromantic/sexual: do I like this food or do I love it?

aplatonic: I love this food, but I don’t like it.

maybe I’ll do more later. btw to explain:

like = platonic attraction

love = romantic/sexual

diet = no romance

shitting = sex so aces don’t.. shit

water to fire = gtg (genda to gendaaaa)

quoi = what in like French I think so like you don’t know if u feel

idemromantic/sexual = u don’t know if it’s romantic/sexual feeling or platonic

#lgbtq #bisexual #omnisexual #quoiromantic #quoisexual #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #transblr #aspec #trans #idemromantic #idemsexual #aplatonic #gay #lesbian #pansexual

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quoicultureis · 7 months

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quoi culture is being tired of "quoi is french for what" comments. we know. that's the whole point.

#lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #mogai #queer #quoi culture is #quoi #quoiromantic #quoimodal #quoisexual #quoigender #quoisex #quoispec #quoibinary

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genderqueerdykes · 20 days

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happy international asexuality day!

April 6th marks International Asexuality Day, a day meant for recognizing, validating, educating and embracing the asexual umbrella of identities, including, but definitely not limited to asexual, aroace, demisexual, greyasexual, aceflux, pomosexual, quoisexual, and other aspectrum identifying people.

i began identifying as asexual as well as aromantic in the early 2010s before silently dropping the label as tensions around whether or not asexual people were "truly" queer/lgbt rose. i felt ashamed of that part of me and stopped talking about it, but as time has passed, the asexual community has started to rebuild, and the entire queer community owes it to the asexual community to help us rebuild and establish ourselves.

we have been the butt of many jokes for years and its time to get rid of the stigma this identity has once and for all and accept that in a society that demands sexuality from each and every person, asexuality is undoubtedly queer. to stand in the face of a society that barrages you with sexuality and sexual imagery, innuendo and conversation almost 24/7 and say that it is not for you, or that you do not approach sexuality in the same way as it has been forced upon you is extremely queer.

cishet or not, every asexual spectrum person falls neatly into the queer community. throwing us under the bus isn't acceptable. we struggle in cisheteronormative society just as much as other queers and it's time to acknowledge and embrace that. it was safer and easier for me to talk about being a gay man than it was for me to talk about being asexual. it was easier for me to talk about being transgender than it was for me to talk about how i don't like having sex with people and don't experience sexual attraction very often and when i do, i have no plans to follow through with it unless it is to meet the other person's needs in a logical fashion.

i have been guilted and forced into sexual relationships that i did not enjoy multiple times over the years. i do not enjoy having sex with people. it's not for me. i've done it many, many times and the conclusion i come to every time is that i don't enjoy it and i come out the other side feeling worse than if i just hadn't done it at all.

i don't really experience the drive to do it in the first place, so why should i force myself to? even if i occasionally find people attractive, if i don't want to follow through on it, i shouldn't have to. nobody should have to engage with sex at all if they don't want to. sex is morally neutral, but it can be very bad for some people to interact with, and this is okay.

whether you're sex repulsed, neutral, favorable, or something else, happy international asexuality day to you! be proud to be yourself, there's no shame in being asexual or asexual spectrum. let's get rid of the stigma around aspec identities once and for all

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the-delta-quadrant · 5 months

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festive ace, aro, aroace, apl & quoi lockscreens

#lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #mogai #queer #ace #aro #aroace #asexual #aromantic #aspec #acespec #arospec #apl #aplatonic #aplspec #quoispec #quoi #quoiromantic #quoisexual #undescribed

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maxinwell · 1 year

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Aspec Pride Dinos

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stars-n-spice · 20 days

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HAPPY INTERNATIONAL ASEXUAL DAY FROM THE SILLY SQUAD!! (+ REX!)

Totally not biased so I totally didn't make them all aspec one way or another in this AU :)

Shoutout to all and every ace and anyone who identifies as being aspec! You deserve to be seen and heard 🖤🩶🤍💜

Close ups under the cut!!

Hunter and Jung! Hunter's oriented aroace while Jung is Ace! Both are MLM 🩵💙

Omega with the Ace flag!! To support all her brothers and her aunties and uncles too! 💜🖤

Viram and Echo! Both are bi and demisexual!

🖤🩷💜🩵

Bonus Rex!! I'm such a sucker for a demi/greysexual MLM Rex 💜🩵

I love aroace Tech and I also love quoisexual Tech. Totally not projecting or anything

And Phee loves him too!

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Then of course, demiromantic and bisexual Crosshair! Ft. His supportive boyfriend, brother, and Khea :D

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HAPPY INTERNATIONAL ASEXUAL DAY!!!

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aaa-battery-not-rechargeable · 3 months

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Aspec character headcanon I keep clinging onto despite all evidence to the contrary:

The Penguin, specifically in Batman '66. There's the pair of episodes (the first one is called "The Penguin Goes Straight) where he seduces a woman and gets a "wedding" just so he can steal all the presents/. When he gets caught, the woman loves him and offers to still do the romance or something. He practically begs to go to prison.

I headcanon him as aroace (aro due to his behaviour in the aforementioned episode, ace because he wears black, white and purple) (plus as a dapper bird-lover I project onto him a lot)

Also, I think there's strong evidence for Riddler in the Arkham games being aroallo. In Arkham Knight, one of his voice recordings has him talking about how he doesn't understand Batman and Catwoman's love (aro vibes) and in Arkham Origins when you get into his hideout he's got a calendar where the images are hot women. Also, most Riddler designs wear green and purple, but in Arkham Knight he just has green which I'm choosing to interpret as aroallo vibes. In general DC media I headcanon him as quoiromantic (a: because he was my quoiromantic awakening and b: his outfits are covered in question marks. He's definitely quoi to me)

I headcanon quite a lot of DC characters as aspec but these are the ones that have a bit of canon basis (even though some of them are just small things that don't apply in other DC media)

omg this is so detailed thank u!

its awesome to see aspec characters in the wild, and the fact that the color of the character's vibe or clothes is fitting or adding to the headcanon is very slay

cool aspec headcanons!

(fyi for anyone else sending hcs in, i'll be tagging them with #lilith's aspec character army)

#aspec character #asks #aspec headcanon #aspec headcanons #aro #aroace #ace #aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #quoiromantic #quoisexual #lilith's aspec character army

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