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demi-romantics · 3 months

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Feel free to add your favorite race below if I did not have space to add it! Ooo and if you have a favorite homebrew race you can add that too!

#asexual #aromantic #demiromantic #grayromantic #demisexual #graysexual #lithromantic #lithsexual #cupioromantic #apothiromantic #apothisexual #ace #aro #aspec #demiromantic talking

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reggieslocket · 10 months

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reblog to scare the aphobes

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acexualien · 3 months

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Are you also a proud citizen like me? 😎

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make-space-for-as · 3 months

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What No One Talks About

You know what no one ever talks about? How meeting "the one" doesn't make you any less aspec.

Like, you know when aphobes are all like, "You just haven't met the *right person* yet"? It doesn't follow logically.

A few days ago, my queerplatonic partner and I decided that there is a romantic element to our relationship, and that "demiromantic" describes our romantic orientations better. So yes, I "met the right person" and developed romantic feelings. But does that make me any less aro? Absolutely not. I wasn't alloromantic all along and just needed to realize it. You don't NOT develop romantic feelings your whole life and nullify your entire aromantic experience just because you find out you're arospec more than vanilla aro.

So yes, aspecs *might* meet "the one" and develop romantic and/or sexual feelings (not me, though, I'm ace as heck 😂). They might find out they're gray or demi. But that doesn't make them ANY less aspec.

Fight me on this.

#aromantic #aro #demiromantic #aspec stuff #aspec #asexuality #asexual #ace #demisexual #grayromantic #graysexual #aromantic spectrum #asexual spectrum

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scretladyspider · 10 months

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#lgbtqia #queer #asexual #asexuality #demisexuality #graysexual #gray ace #graysexuality #aromantic #aromanticism #demiromantic #grayromantic #greyromantic #aroace #Twitter #text

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ssejdoesthings · 7 months

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Happy coming out day to my fellow queers who have to get out a PowerPoint presentation to explain their identity

Terfs back the fuck off.

#lgbtq #demigender #Aromantic #asexual #aroace #genderflux #Grayromantic #graysexual

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someoneq · 2 months

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it's aro week!

happy aro-spec awareness week to all aro-specs including but not limited to:

aromantics

greyromantics

demiromantics

quoiromantics

frayromantics

cupioromantics

lithromantics/akoiromantics

recipromantics

apothiromantics

caedromantics

amicusromantics

vallisromantics

apexromantics

arospikes

arofluxes

alicoromantics/agnoromantics

platoniromantics

nebularomantics

aegoromantics

bellusromantics

idemromantics

requisromantics

non-sam aros and arospecs

non-partnering aros

aros in romantic relationship

aros in queerplatonic or alterous relationships

aplatonic aros

loveless aros

lovequeer aros

lovepunk aros

aroaces/acearos

aroallos/alloaros

aromids

romance repulsed aros

romance ambivalent aros

romance favourable aros

triple/quadruple a batteries (arospec acespec aplspec agenderspec)

anyone questioning if they are arospec or where they fit on it

anyone else whose arospec identity I missed

happy aro week to all <2

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your-stranger-halfblood-things · 7 months

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High five to all the aros, aces, aroace, and anyone on those spectrums

#us aroace spectrum people deserve everything #give us garlic bread and dragons #let us love only dinosaurs #aromantic #asexual #aroace #aro #ace #graysexual #grayromantic #demisexual #demiromantic #cupioromantic #cupiosexual #reblog to share love to the whole community and the people out of it #aphobes fuck off

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aro-bird · 1 year

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okay, making this poll a week long now so more people can vote but

reblog so this so it could reach more people! thank you!!

#mayaposts #polls #aromantic #aro #aroace #acearo #alloaro #aroallo #demiromantic #greyromantic #grayromantic #genuinely don't remember where i learned tbh lol

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naberriesamidala · 2 years

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aspec people are queer. aspec people deserve to be in queer spaces. aspec people are welcome to pride. aspec people are queer even if they're cis. aspec people are queer even if they're heterosexual. aspec people are amazing and deserve the world.

#aspec #asexual #aromantic #aroace #demisexual #graysexual #demiromantic #grayromantic #aspec friends you're incredible and anyone who says otherwise can take a long walk off a short pier

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demi-romantics · 4 months

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Can I just say that I truly appreciate alloaro cis men? I love how extremely valid they are and how incredibly uniquely queer their existence is!

#aro men #they are wonderful #very handsome #stunning even #love them in a very unromantic way #aromantic #aro #demiromantic #grayromantic #alloaro

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crying-in-converse · 5 months

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How can you be aro/ace and bi?

Not trying to be rude btw just curious

ohh yess good question. and there are actually multiple answers.

so the definition of aroace is little to no romantic or sexual attraction. so you can be bi with that little attraction.

there are also a label oriented aroace which is where someone doesnt experience ANY romantic or sexual attraction but experiences other attraction that is significant enough to label. so you can label yourself as bi oriented, lesbian oriented, gay oriented, pan oriented, etc.

aroace is an umbrella term for anyone under the spectrum of aroace. so demiromantic/demisexual, grayromantic/graysexual, etc. if you fall under the spectrum of aroace you can use the label aroace. (only if u are on both spectrums though!) so you can be bi and demiromantic/demisexual, etc

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lavellyne · 10 months

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just wanted to say, this is a safe space for any asexual and aromantic folks and anyone under these umbrella terms.

if you don't support aces/aros, demis or graysexuals please unfollow and leave me alone

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beawritingbooks · 10 months

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Here is how I explained asexuality to my mother:

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My Mom: What exactly is asexual?

Me: It means that I experience little to no sexual attraction.

My Mom: I just don’t understand that. You thought [name redacted] was cute.

Me: I still think [name redacted] is cute. I just don’t experience any sexual attraction towards them.

My Mom: That doesn’t make any sense to me.

Me: Well, I can recognize when someone is ugly, cute, uniquely hot, and when they are considered sexy, but I still don’t experience sexual attraction to any of them.

My Mom: I’m not saying that you don’t feel this way, or that I don’t believe you, but how could that be possible?

Me: Okay, so, let’s say that I have 4 pairs of shoes in front of me. The first pair are crocs, the second pair are ballet flats, the third pair are those chunky spice girls platform sandals, and the fourth pair are red stilettos.

My Mom: Okay…

Me: Now, I would classify the crocs as an ugly shoe. Do you agree?

My Mom: Yes.

Me: I would classify the ballet flats as cute.

My Mom: So would I.

Me: I would classify the platform sandals as ugly-hot. I know you hate them, but they call to me, and I still love them to this day. Does that make sense?

My Mom: *laughing* Yes.

Me: Lastly, I would classify the red stilettos as hot and/or sexy. Like, that’s a sexy shoe.

My Mom: Absolutely!

Me: Okay, now, even though I can recognize that these shoes have varying degrees of attractiveness, I do NOT want to fuck the shoes…and that is also how I feel about people.

My Mom: Ooohhhh, that makes way more sense to me. I get it now. Well, I don’t “get it,” because I’m straight, but I understand what you mean.

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Basically, this is how I felt trying to explain things:

#aspec #asexual #asexuality #demisexual #graysexual #aspec stuff #demiromantic #grayromantic #aromanitc #aspec pride #aspec community #aspec friendly #biromantic #homoromantic #panromantic

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psychicmisfortune · 4 months

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aphobes are coming back from twitter so this is a reminder:

this blog welcomes ALL ASPECS. aromantics, demiromantics, grayromantics, lithoromantics, aegoromantics, aroflux folks, asexuals, demisexuals, graysexuals, lithosexuals, aegosexuals, aceflux folks, aroaces, aroallos, alloaces, allohets, hetallos, ace pans/bis/lesbians/gays/polys/anything else, aro pans/bis/lesbians/gays/polys/anything else, and anything else i didn't list.

y'all already know you're valid as fuck. keep going, y'all are awesome.

#aspec #aromantic #demiromantic #grayromantic #lithoromantic #asexual #demisexual #lithosexual #graysexual #aroace #lgbtqia #lgbtq #queer #pride #ace pride #aro pride #trophy talks #🏆

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cepheusgalaxy · 8 months

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(You don't know for how long I've been thinking on doing this)

LGBTQIA+ representation on media be like:

(Edit: id by @aromanticsky)

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