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mogaimagic · 3 months

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♡ ♡ VAMPIRE SAPPHIC FLAG + BLINKIES ♡ ♡

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genderqueerdykes · 3 months

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honestly as a butch, i just gotta say it: that "chivalrous knight in shining armor" crap is objectifying as hell and it's not fun, cute, or validating to apply to us, it provides a burden for us to bear, it makes us paranoid, tired, weary and feel like we're being reduced to a stereotype, or like we're being forced into a mold.

i'm not a knight just because i'm a transmasculine person who looks tough and can theoretically protect femme queers. i'm literally just standing here, being transsexual. i'm not inherently "chilvarous," i don't have any obligation to protect people just because i adopted the label "butch". what if i'm weak? what if the butch needs to be protected? what if the butch is disabled, traumatized, or just scared? i'm a wheelchair user.

why can't femmes protect their butches? why does it always have to be the butch being the chivalrous knight in our yearning posts and poems? why do we have to weave a performative ass narrative of the masculine partner swooping in to protect their defenseless feminine partner? how the HELL is this progressive or subversive at all? this is literally reinventing the binary.

the way the (white) cis lesbian community treats its butches is alienating as all hell. we are not here just to protect other people. we are not inherently protectors. we are not all strong. we are allowed to be weak. we are allowed to be scared. we are allowed to be hurt. we don't HAVE to protect our femmes, if we like femmes at all. not every butch is attracted to femme people in the first place.

butch isn't a lifestyle, it's not a set personality type. it's not a specific set of actions; it's just queer masculinity, that can be expressed by a multitude of queers for a multitude of reasons. it's not one specific set of traits. masculinity is not just found in protecting others and acting tough, it's also in being soft, vulnerable, weak and tender.

just let butches be people, don't turn us into objects before we even get out of the gates. all of this removes the human element of being butch. if the queer community can't afford that, we can't get it from anywhere, because we sure as hell aren't seen as humans by cisheteronormative society.

don't force me to see myself as a knight when i'm the one who needs help just because i'm masculine, or just because i'm a man.

butches need help, too.

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isabellascarlett1 · 7 months

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Sapphic history belongs to Bi Sapphics.

Sapphic history belongs to Pan Sapphics.

Sapphic history belongs to Trans Sapphics.

Sapphic history belongs to Non-binary Sapphics.

Sapphic history belongs to Ace Sapphics.

Sapphic history belongs to Aro Sapphics.

Sapphic history belongs to Omni Sapphics.

Sapphic history belongs to Ply Sapphics.

Sapphic history belongs to Abro Sapphics.

Sapphic history belongs to all Sapphics.

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asunnycoffee · 4 months

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I’m actually so tired of the way twitter gays will be like “you’re bi and date nonbinary people? You’re gay and go both ways?? Youre aromantic but date people? That doesn’t make ANY sense.”

Like seriously do you not know what this community is about. The literal definition of queer means peculiar. Sometimes queer people are fucking weird and messy and don’t make sense and sometimes and it’s both confusing and beautiful. Some of you will literally be like “um there’s no such thing as bi lesbians” yet you still have the sheer and utter fucking audacity to be like “I love weird gays!”.

Yeah, you sure love your sanitized version of what it means to be queer. You don’t actually know what it means, you just think “lesbian means girls who like girls, gay means boys who like boys, bi means people who like girls and boys, and-“ when the entire fucking point of it is that not everyone fits into the boxes you assign them. Exclusionists can go eat a dick.

#queer #lgbt+#gay #bi #lesbian #wlw #mlm #trans #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #mspec lesbian #mspec safe #mspec friendly #mspec gay #gaybian #nonbinary #enby #gnc #bigender #genderfluid #genderqueer

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mommyclaws · 4 months

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Is everyone willingly ignoring it or when are we going to realize this petty label discourse has always been rooted in misogyny. This started long before Bi Lesbians. Some of you are just too new or simply never paid enough attention to realize the history of this hatred of lesbians. Do any of you remember?

First it was "Butches aren't valid" because they were invading wlw spaces with their "masculinity"

Then it was moved onto: "Trans women aren't valid" because actually they were the ones invading wlw spaces with their "masculinity" The exact same arguement being used against cis women as well.

Then "Pan/Bi women aren't valid" because your attraction to men or anyone other than a woman doesn't belong in wlw spaces.

Then it was "Nonbinary lesbians aren't valid" because if you're "not a woman" by my definition you're invading wlw spaces.

"Asexual/Aro women aren't valid" because your lack of "real" attraction to women doesn't belong in wlw spaces.

"Lesboys aren't valid" because you are invading wlw spaces with your "masculinity"

"Bi/Pan lesbians aren't valid" because your attraction to men or anyone other than a woman doesn't belong in wlw spaces.

Oh wait? Where have we heard those last two before? Wasn't everyone arguing about those SAME issues with Butches/Trans wlw and Pan/Bi wlw?

Yes, exactly. Would any of you take ONE look back and realize this is only repetition of problems we have already decided don't dictate our identities?

They say, "You're not a real lesbian unless you do this and that and even if you do that you'll never be good enough." No matter what lesbains do, there will always be a problem. Why? Because this isnt about being a lesbian, this isnt about women, this is rhetoric started by terfs and it will never be anything more.

Sure, you can follow their rules to feel valid, but you'll never be good enough. You're an invader too because they'll sprinkle in little things to feed the insecurities and rules that THEY fucking created.

You're not a real lesbian unless you're a "gold star lesbain" meaning you've never dated or been attracted to a man. You're not a real lesbian unless you're feminine. You're not a real lesbian unless you hate masculinity.

Which is just translation for: You're not a real wlw unless you hate men and don't deviate from gender norms. And, WHO would've thought! Is exactly what terfs want.

They sink their claws into the newer generations because they don't remember what our community has had to go through, all they see is the fake issues created and they think it's a threat because they're being fed "This is what's valid and this is what's not" and it seems like it's never going to end because women being anything other than passive and simple with their identities are immediately taken as a threat to the community by those who are insecure and need to demand the exclusion of anyone who doesn't follow their rules to feel like theyre part of a group.

Anti-Bi/Pan Lesbians have become sheep because they only surround themselves with online discourse instead of the real issues LGBTQ people face and in their attempt to keep a "clean community" They're more unwelcomed than the people they tell to kill themselves. So caught up in fake problems others or themslves have made up that they fail to grasp the simplest of concepts: Labels DO NOT exist in real life. Labels are created to help people describe how they feel or identify. They are not and have NEVER been a final definition.

Labels are worn HOWever and WHENever the owner feels like it. They're not collars. They're not cages. You can't use them as such. You can't use them against us.

When? WHEN? When did we decide that a label- A WORD- matters MORE than the real life feelings that real life people are experiencing?

Why did we dehumanize the ability to feel attraction and expression?

#Been wanting to say this for a long ass time. when is this going to end. why does everyone hate lesboans freedom to express andlove #lesbian #wlw #misogyny #transphobia #biphopia #panphobia #aphobia #not warriors #mspec lesbian

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rolaplayor101 · 1 year

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I’m so happy I’m not crying I’m so happy I’m not crying

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gray-ace-space · 6 months

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what was y'all's identity progression? mine was something like

lesbian -> bi -> bi & ply -> ply -> ply & gray ace -> bi & gray ace -> bi lesbian & gray ace -> bi lesbian & gray ace & genderqueer

(there were a bunch of acespec and gender microlabels in there too that sorta come and go and come again but i simplified)

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museumofferedophelia · 6 months

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Bisexual women outnumber lesbians 10-1. This isn't a problem, but Lesbians are a minority in a minority.

That's why it's so incredibly frustrating when homophobic entitled members of the bisexual community use their majority strength to try and bully us into changing the definition of lesbian so that it includes men. We don't have the numbers to defend ourselves and protect the one word that describes our identity.

Leave lesbians alone!

#lesbian #queer #pansexual #sapphic #wlw #bisexual #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbt #mspec lesbian #pan lesbian #bi lesbian

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icarusxxrising · 9 months

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My identity is for myself and no one else. Stop mistaking your discomfort for harm. If you're uncomfortable, that's something YOU have to work out, preferably far away from me.

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annnathegayblogger · 3 months

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Part 2

1. bisexual 2. aroace 3. genderfluid 4. lesbian 5. trans 6. woman 7. non-binary 8. gay man 9. agender 10. demiboy

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mogaimagic · 1 year

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♡ ❁ ♀ Multisexual Sapphic Emojis/Stickers ♀❁ ♡

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intersexfairy · 2 years

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feminine men and masculine women have my whole heart... especially if they're nonbinary or trans <3 keep being you and know you are so very wonderful.

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1000lesbians · 1 year

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you do not need anyone's permission to identify as a lesbian. there is no one more qualified on your identity than you!! nobody!!! no matter what!!!! the only person you need to consult with before you call yourself a lesbian is you

#op #bi lesbian #lesboy #male lesbian #transbian #lesbian #wlw #qlw #dyke #mspec lesbian #sapphic

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anticapitalistmongoose · 3 months

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putting together a comprehensive list of all the our-blank-experience blogs

@our-queer-experience

@our-transmasculine-experience

@our-transfeminine-experience

@our-bisexual-experience

@our-transgender-experiences

@our-demiboy-experience

@our-demigirl-experience

@our-mspec-experience

@our-pansexual-experience

@our-agender-experience

@our-transhet-experience

@our-bigender-experience

@our-mlm-experience

@our-nonbinary-experience

@our-abinary-experience

@our-queerplatonic-experience

@our-aroace-experience

@our-asexual-experience

@our-aromantic-experience

@our-questioning-experience

@our-unlabelled-experience

@our-genderfluid-experience

@our-genderqueer-experience

@our-genderflux-experience

@our-polyamorous-experience

@our-xenogender-experience

@our-multigender-experience

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blogs yet to be made as of now:

our-intersex-experience

our-lesbian-experience

our-wlw-experience

our-gay-experience

our-aspec-experience

our-gendernonconforming-experience

our-polysexual-experience

our-otherkin-experience

our-demisexual-experience

our-demigender-experience

(these are just the ones i could think of feel free to add more blogs that could be made)

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i will update this post as new blogs are made and feel free to add new blogs or ones i missed!

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mutigcupid · 29 days

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Lesbear

Lesbear: Lesbian Bear. A Trans/Masc Lesbian who is large, hairy or both!

Flag by me! Inspired by the Solar Lesbian flag and The Gay Bear flag!

#Lesbian #Masc Lesbian #Trans lesbian #transmasc lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #wlw #nmlnm #Lesbear #lesboy #mspec lesbian #mspec gay #butch lesbian #boydyke #trans butch #dyke

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yourfavismspechomohet · 4 months

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Garfield from the Garfield franchise is a Bi Lesbian!

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