bisexual attraction is inherently queer! yes, even if one of those modes of attraction "seems" inherently heterosexual. it's not! unless the individual chooses to label it as het, bisexual men being attracted to women is queer. bisexual women being attracted to men is queer. get used to it!
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the mspec to aspec pipeline is real and it happened to me
[ID: a collection of m-spec flags (including bi, pan, poly, omni, and multisexual) at one end of a pipeline with a collection of a-spec flags (including aro, ace, greyace, greyaro, demi, demiro, and aroace) at the other end. end ID]
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In this poll, the first number is the gender you're primarily attracted to, and the second number is all other genders you're attracted to combined.
We ask your questions so you don’t have to! Submit your questions to have them posted anonymously as polls.
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(You don't know for how long I've been thinking on doing this)
LGBTQIA+ representation on media be like:
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alright im gonna give it a shot, but not steal the other person's question.
Intersex people only. Dyads please boost <3
[plain text: Intersex people only. Dyads please boost <3 ]
if you respond to this and aren't intersex, you're being intersexist.
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Didn’t really like how every ally flag just had the straight flag as the background, since queer ppl can very much be allies to other queer ppl, so:
I made some new ally flags! Instead of the straight flag bg, it’s the flag of the opposite (ex: trans ally has the cisgender flag, neopronouns ally has the tradpronouns flag, asexual ally has the allosexual flag, etc) :3
Asexual Ally | Aromantic Ally | Nonbinary Ally
Multigender Ally | Trans Ally
Multisexual Ally | Xenogender Ally | Genderfluid Ally
Varioriented Ally | Neopronouns Ally
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Bi girls with a preference for boys are still bi and belong in wlw spaces.
Bi boys with a preference for girls are still bi and belong in mlm spaces.
multi-spec, trans, and aspec people in m/w relationships are still lgbtq+ and belong in lgbtq+ spaces. I know that a lot of times it’s easy to feel like you don’t belong but the reality is that your current relationship status doesn’t determine your identity.
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I’ve seen a lot of discussion about how bisexuality and pansexuality are the same things, so here is a very general diagram with some basic differences.
It’s important to remember that no one has the right to police anyone else’s sexuality or how they identify. However, saying that the two sexualities are the same can be extremely invalidating for people of either identity.
Also, it’s important to remember that labels aren’t everything, and you don’t need to label your sexuality for it to be valid. But for many people, labels help them better express and understand themselves. Also, for some people, labels can be comforting and validating because they allow the people who use them to feel understood and seen by others.
So this is just a friendly reminder to respect people’s sexualities and how they identify and not to invalidate or erase other people’s sexualities.
Let’s all take some time this pride month (and every other month) to respect and understand each other better.
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Bi/Mspec folks in “straight-passing” relationships deserve to feel welcome in Queer spaces.
Bi/Mspec folks in “straight-passing” relationships are deserving of love.
Bi/Mspec folks in “straight-passing” relationships are no “less Queer” than any other member of the LGBTQIA+ community.
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I am begging people to understand how this sentiment of "WELL MONOSEXUALS AREN'T FLUID" (gay/lesbian/straight/whatever) is SO GOD DAMN harmful to sexual wellness (how we feel about all aspects of our sexuality - kink, fetish, BDSM, sexual orientation, poly vs mono for partners, etc.).
EVERYONE ON THIS GOD DAMN EARTH has the POTENTIAL to have some "wiggle room" or fluidity when it comes to what we find attractive in other human beings. We are social by nature. Even Aros and/or aces have the potential to experience brief instances of attraction towards someone, this doesn't magically cancel out their own identity. If a lesbian finds a man "hey, you got a nice looking body" or a gay man "hey that girl looks physically attractive" or a straight person "hey, I can see the aesthetic beauty in this person" DOES NOT MAGICALLY CANCEL OUT THEIR IDENTITY. Holy mother of God and burritos.
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