Things that are normal for bisexual women:
-Being unsure if you’re gay, straight, or bisexual
-Experiencing homophobia
-Wishing you could be a man to date women
-Breathing fire
-Not wanting to date or have sex until you’re ready
-Not wanting to ever date men and choose exclusively women
-Experiencing attraction to men and women differently
-Having a fat juicy pussy
-Feeling alienated from both straight and gay culture
-Being upset over stigma against bisexuals
-Fitting some stereotypes and not others
-Being able to fly
-Worrying over whether or not you’re objectifying other women
-Wanting to dress and be seen as more masculine
-Ability to raise the dead
-Being the smartest person around
-Occasionally freezing time by accident
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illustration from come out!, the first lgbt periodical published post-stonewall. vol. 1, issue 1, 1969.
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wlw are not less fatphobic than mlm. sure, you don't have "no fats" in your tinder/grindr bio, but you still make your dislike of fat women apparent. the sapphic art you create, the representation you hail as perfect, the wlw singers you listen to, the fashion you label as having "gay vibes", etc. It's all painfully, stupidly apparent. I'm tired of staying quiet about this.
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[Image description: A tumblr text-post, edited blackout-poetry style to read, "the word bisexual means sexy people. So yea / Bisexual women are welcome, aces as well. A bisexual man too. They get it."]
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the word bisexual means sexy people. So yea
Bisexual women are welcome, aces as well. A bisexual man too. They get it.
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this could be us if you let me
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Hey Jen, I think I ruined my life. This woman broke my heart and I basically gave up on ever finding love again, so I married a man for his money. It's been several years and I'm just now realizing what a colossally stupid choice that was. I feel like by the time I get divorced and get to a place emotionally where I could even try to date again, it's going to be too late. Do older lesbians think divorced women who have mostly been with men are ridiculous and unattractive? I feel so hopeless about it. I feel like there's no point.
I can't speak for all because there will be lesbians who will take a hard pass or hesitate to date someone with an man as as ex. It can be fear of his presence or reactions or just a feeling of being uncomfortable with your experiences. Lesbian are not all one mind so we all will set different boundaries.
Many lesbians i know my age dated and married men and had kids out of everything from obligation to security to family demands to fear and yet, once they came out, they are never questioned or judged for their past within our friendship group. (This does not mean all would be okay dating them but as far as friendship, no once seems to care). A larger proportion of my older lesbians friends have kids with men or were married to men than weren't so it is never too late to come out.
It takes an immense amount of courage to leave a "stable" situation to find passion and actual happiness. There are no guarantees we all find love in this life. But if you stay in a loveless, unfulfilling marriage to a man it is guaranteed you will remain miserable and unhappy.
In my opinion and experience it is better to be happy and honest with oneself while alone than be alone with someone you don't have love or passion for. Being alone with another person is the worst kind of hell on Earth and many lesbians will understand this.
I know plenty of women who never dated a man who end up head over heals and committed to a woman who was married to a man. Chemistry and connection don't often put too much weight on history.
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I know I usually post stuff for slutty lesbians, so here's a shoutout to slutty bisexuals
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