there really are no consequences for being wrong about your gender, orientation, etc. for a while, btw. if you try something and it just doesn't fit, it's better to have tried and found out than to be left wondering.
the mspec to aspec pipeline is real and it happened to me
[ID: a collection of m-spec flags (including bi, pan, poly, omni, and multisexual) at one end of a pipeline with a collection of a-spec flags (including aro, ace, greyace, greyaro, demi, demiro, and aroace) at the other end. end ID]
when i learned what "cheating" in a relationship was when I was a kid i was very concerned and confused. i said smth like "but why don't they just ask permission and then they're allowed?"
Order of flags from left to right top down
Yellow duck - rainbow pride flag - bisexual flag - Pansexual flag
Transgender flag - non binary flag - Asexual flag - Gay man Flag
Lesbian Flag - AroAce flag - genderfluid flag - Aromantic
Order of flags from left to right top down
yellow duck - xenogender flag - gender queer - polysexual
sapphillean flag - omnisexual - agender - intersex
demi sexual - demi romantic - demi girl - demi boy
sex isn't a moral or immoral act- it's just an act. the second we stop placing morality on sex the second we move past repressing ourselves over something that is in fact a morally neutral behavior