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gooddaylovv · 10 months

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Love that it's Summer, business is picking up and I'm seeing more of my regulars. I'm gonna try to make a goal of $1K/day, it's a huge stretch but I'm hopeful haha. That or delusional. I hope you heauxs are safe, happy, and busy!

#fssw #heaux diary #heaux life #sugaring #fsswer #fssw only #spoiled heaux #fsswonly #swer #heaux

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scorpioluvvr · 9 months

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#black girl aesthetic #soft life #luxury lifestyle #that girl #femininity #level up #spoiled heaux #high maintenance #hypergamous #self love

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bbltheque · 2 years

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ORIGINALLY COMES FROM @dreamgrlarchive 💗(requested by @ neges)

#bbltheque #femininity #hypergamyblr #spoiled girlfriend #level up #that girl #hypergamy #the feminine urge #spoiled heaux #black women in luxury #black woman femininity #high maintenance #soft life

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swabian-princess · 1 year

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I refuse to complain.

I have no right to complain, not about my appearance nor about my health.

I have all the tools and knowledge to transform myself into the best possible version and until I tried everything, I simply refuse to complain about anything.

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sortagolddigger · 7 months

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Take lots of breaks. The world barely deserves the presence of women.

#life quotes #black women in luxury #dating #black woman in luxury #rich black girl #rich black girls #spoiled black women #spoiled heaux #online only #hypergamy #hypergamous #black girls in luxury #black sugar baby #brown sugar baby #manifesting

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haruharuz · 2 years

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How did you get into dancing? Do you recommend it to others? Are there certain types of people that should avoid dancing?

Long story short, 17 year old me stumbled upon the world of SW and outright decided I wanted to try stripping one day. At 20 I decided to say fuck it and go for it, moved halfway across the U.S. and went to an audition.

I don’t recommend it to anyone, but I also don’t say that they shouldn’t. I love dancing but the industry is fucking BRUTAL. I’ve watched good girls become felons from drug charges and a plethora of other things. It really depends on if you WANT to dance and if you have the skill set. There’s a massive skill set needed to dance, if you don’t have it or learn how to build it you won’t make anything.

Absolutely, In no particular order, if you have these you might want to reconsider:

(People with/who:)

Jealousy issues

Little to no self esteem

Money management problems

Past drug addiction issues

Past alcoholism

Addictive tendencies

Fear of rejection

Little to no stamina

Low pain tolerance

No rhythm

No variety in music taste

No social skills

Little concept of being seductive

No makeup skills

No hair skills

Can’t handle being touched

Don’t like being judged

Have bad hygiene skills

This is a small list of things you may want to consider going in. You have 100% certainty to be judged for your body, skin, teeth, hair, voice etc. You WILL need money management skills (send an ask if you want a list of mistakes and advice). And you absolutely cannot avoid being rejected, laughed at, touched in some cases, bruises, scraped, and in pain.

Thank you for the ask babydoll, ask box is still open always <3

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brownsugar-dreams · 3 months

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How are you investing 🍬 or extra money? I started trying to learn about stock investments during the panorama. I lost just under $5k playing around with crypto 😭 but I learned (and still learning) a lot about financial management. I recently moved $10k from my HY savings account to a CD. I was dating a finance guy and he told me to open up a CD because it’s a higher interest rate and he matched my initial deposit 🥰 There’s so much to learn but it’s much better than letting money sit & collect dust! I’ve been wanting to hop on live & share my experiences with sugar investments 🤔

#sugar lifestyle #sugar blog #levelup #money mindset #finance #extra money #sugar bowl #sugar baby tips #sugar dating #heaux tips #hypergamy #black women in luxury #dating #levelingup #sugar life #investing

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gooddaylovv · 1 year

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Good Bye 2022

December has been pretty good to me, almost hit $25k. 2 of my clients saw me 3 times this month and I received a couple of gift cards from my dear clients so I am very grateful. I love useful gifts honestly. Paid all my bills and expenses this month, and going to save my money :)

Goals for 2023: - save $100k + - $30k+/monthly goal - lose 15lbs - work out more - better skin care & self care - more good clients

I hope for more prosperity and good vibes for 2023!

#fssw #fsswonly #sex worker #sugaring #swer #spoiled #spoiled heaux #heaux life

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naudinala · 1 year

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FreakMobMedia booth, New Jersey Exxxotica 2022💜

#onlyf?ns #support swers #swers #swer tumblr #swers only #slim thicc #mixed race #mixedgirlmagic #mixed breed #longlegs #legs #pretty smile #onlyf@nz #heaux life #art heaux #heaux #pro heaux

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chichiscloset · 1 year

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What "Levelling Up" Means To Me

Levelling up means knowing what you want and being bold enough to ask for it

One of my favorite sayings is:

"You don't get what you deserve, you get what you are willing to accept."

Relationships, business negotiations, and friendships are all affected by this. There's no point in settling in life, ladies. If you’re constantly putting your best foot forward and not reaping the rewards, that you need, it’s time to switch things up. The people that make the most significant changes in their lives are the people that decide to.

You can reach your goals by getting a mentor or coach, as this will assist you. As long as you have access to the internet, you can do this for free. The internet provides multiple opportunities for mentorship through social media platforms such as YouTube or Instagram. If you're a post+ member my inline worksheets and 1-1 coaching will be up and available by November 27th!

Levelling up means creating healthy boundaries

In multiple interviews, Ciara has detailed what her life was like before her relationship with Russell Wilson. She talked about the challenges of becoming a single mother after a toxic relationship and how that helped her develop better boundaries. Read our blog post on boundaries we must set in realationships here!

Healthy boundaries allow you to be accepting of others without selling yourself short.Creating boundaries is as easy as setting out what you will and won’t accept from the people in your life.

Do you have a girlfriend that only wants to talk about herself for hours on the phone? If so, it might be a good idea to establish a specific amount of time that you will talk with her during the week and keep fat it at that.

Are people constantly taking your kindness for granted? If so, healthy boundaries might look like distancing yourself from people that always take but never give. Boundaries are the secret to peace of mind and the cornerstone of emotional well-being.

Take action!

Using your three closest friends and family members as examples, I encourage you to evaluate your boundaries this week. Does anything need to change? If so, you know what to do. Let's level up!

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bbltheque · 1 year

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matter of fact

#bbltheque #soft life #feminine energy #black girl luxury #black girl moodboard #soft black women #black girl aesthetic #luxury aesthetic #high maintenance #black femininity #spoiled girlfriend #hypergamyblr #femininity #spoiled heaux #the feminine urge #that girl #level up #hypergamy

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swabian-princess · 2 years

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The Cheatcode

Hello Ladies,

I’ve found the cheat code when it comes to hypergamy! You’ll only need a little start capital…not that much, only around 1-2k.

You need to rebuild your entire wardrobe. Yes. Throw out your crop tops and your leggings. No high value man wants a woman that is dressed like a yoga teacher all day. I don’t care if you’re only 21. Buy all those long skirts and button up tops and don’t even think about purchasing a bag cheaper than 500 dollars.

Think about what you can do in terms of your appearance. Maybe a nose job or a skinny BBL? If you’re lucky you can get away with only lip fillers.

Only speak about feminine stuff. Home decor. How you’re planning to homeschool your children. Let the man talk about masculine things like politics or finances.

Are you still reading? Well…I have a surprise for you…

…there is no such thing as a cheatcode.

Sorry, but I need to rant a little bit.

I’m so fucking annoyed at posts like this. There is currently and likely never will be a cheatcode for hypergamy.

Don’t believe those feminity influencers – most of them aren’t even married or have bagged a billionaire. Don’t buy books from these people and don’t give them money for strange online classes, that claim you’ll meet a billionaire within a five step program.

The truth is, wether you like it or not, that only very few woman will marry into high society and even fewer will stay in those circles.

I don’t know if you get it but those men are only human and want a honest connection with their partner. (Well, I’m sure there are men that really only care about looks but is this really a man you would like to marry? Even if he’s the richest man on the planet?)

Hypergamy is work. Hard fucking work.

Many of you seem to think that those men only fuck you and look at you. What do you do if you can’t fuck because you’re on a gala or his mothers birthday dinner? You’ll have to open your mouth and start talking.

I’m like 98% sure that you could be a grenade in bed and the most beautiful woman that ever walked on earth, if you can’t hold a conversation for longer than a minute, you won’t be succesful.

I am not that beautiful myself, I’m average with a few nice features but I can entertain my boyfriend for hours just talking about my day. I can discuss current politics with him and talk about his business without googling every second phrase.

He loves to spend time with me because he likes how I make him feel. I make him feel welcomed in his home, I make sure to listen to his problems and about what brings him joy. I am the first person he wants to call when he has a hard or a very succesful day because he know that my reactions are always honest and genuine. I won’t just tell him what he wants to hear – I tell him my opinion.

Another thing that bugs me, is that those feminity influencers make relationships seem like the only things to do are shopping, taking vacations and going out to eat.

Honestly it’s fucking hard to be with a high value man.

High value man = very full schedule.

My boyfriend works from 5:30am to 7pm and sometimes even longer. When he comes home he wants to shower, eat something and talk to me.

I prepare his meals and clean the house while he’s at work. I do grocerie shopping and laundry, I iron his clothes and order his skin and haircare products.

He doesn’t expect me in a full face of makeup and a bodycon dress with heels when he gets home but he wants me to be clean and freshly showered. He want’s no drama and he expects that I know my place – beside him.

A relationship is work, especially if you’re in one with a man that works 80+ hours a week. Don’t expect endless shopping trips with him or a nice dinner every day. There is a reason why he has money – he works for it and his working hours are usually very long.

Okay, thats all I have for now.

Bye Bye

Selene

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