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sortagolddigger · 1 month

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Girl all these videos of dusties attacking black women are starting to make me want to go on a full campaign that black women should only associate with a certain kind of man

Y'all need to make dusties suffer with loneliness. They are way too comfortable attacking us in front of the world!

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sortagolddigger · 1 month

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I get whatever I want because I know how to be quiet

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sortagolddigger · 3 months

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Always remember it’s not about being head over heels in love, that’s how you get hurt and walked on.

It’s about how he treats you and does he make you feel safe asking for things.

Is he a provider that fits your life goals?

That’s your man.

I’m not saying date an ugly man, I am saying date a man you don’t mind growing old with because he makes you feel safe and pays the bills

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sortagolddigger · 3 months

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Dating a broke man is stupid, marrying a broke man is even dumber and having children with a broke man is child abuse.

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sortagolddigger · 3 months

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sortagolddigger · 5 months

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I'm starting to also dislike women who date gang banger / loser types. These types of men only think they have value in the world because they get attractive women to be with them

Y’all need to cut off access to dusties and ratchet men!

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sortagolddigger · 5 months

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Nothing bothers me personally unless I can gain from the emotion.

I don’t know what kind of personality type that is, but it’s made me very successful

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sortagolddigger · 5 months

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Lmao I whisper my demands and it works every time. Wealthy men don’t want to hear you screaming and aggressively describing your situation when you ask for help.

When I’m annoyed that he’s not taking the hint instead of yelling I kind of whisper it in a wimpy voice and then I get what I want. I needed $726 dollars today for a bill and now it’s paid

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sortagolddigger · 5 months

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Learn to recognize when you can do better.

If he makes you feel guilty for wanting to be taken care of, you deserve better. Since the 1700’s women have only survived because they chose men who were capable of providing and protecting

Don’t let these new age dusties gaslight you into accepting the poverty love they offer

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sortagolddigger · 6 months

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Don’t date anyone long-term who makes you feel like what they give isn’t enough.

It isn’t, or you’d be satisfied.

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sortagolddigger · 6 months

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It doesn’t matter if they pay my bills. Marriage is a straight up scam for women. I need a zero bill life.

If a man wants me to give wifely duties like cooking, cleaning, or having his kids, it can’t be in poverty.

I don’t want to ask for bill money if I’m about to pop out a kid. “no thank you.”

The world has enough dusties with baby mommas.

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sortagolddigger · 6 months

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Irks my soul that broke/middle-class men who failed at building wealth go on sites like seeking and harass girls into low-amount situations

Block them, girls!!!! Never give a man who can't measure up, a pedestal or access to you. It's sick and predatory what those men are doing and a real high-end SB needs to tell you girls the truth. Middle class men are not SDs he can’t provide. Especially if he has a wife and kids he's already paying for.

He can buy a purse and waste your time.

That's about it

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sortagolddigger · 6 months

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Girl… stop letting dusties manipulate you on their Amazon worker payday by accepting amounts that don’t pay rent to meet up.

Stop letting middle-class men trick you. That’s not an SD. That’s a nightmare, run. Real SD’s can buy you a car and pay your rent and it won’t hurt them if you only talk a few weeks. Stop thinking you need to go to a hotel for a few dollars and that’s what SD’s act like. That’s a dusty! Run!!!

He probably works as a manager of a restaurant. Just say no to low amounts that can’t cover rent

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sortagolddigger · 7 months

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I don’t let insecurity guide me anymore and that helped a lot with my hypergamy lifestyle. Wealthy men can sense when a woman knows she is a total package.

When I healed my need for constant validation and reassurance from other people I became the dark feminine, wallet crushing woman you see before you.

You don’t have to “heal” but you do have to stop giving a F about rejection or what anyone thinks.

What you think matters.

Thoughts turn into things so don’t be thinking you aren’t worth a billion dollars.

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sortagolddigger · 7 months

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I'm so good at ignoring men instead of reacting.

That's better revenge. Men get super hurt and insecure when a woman acts like they don't exist.

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sortagolddigger · 7 months

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sortagolddigger · 7 months

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Men on their way to ask a girl for a 50/50 relationship

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