What do you call placing yourself in a position that aligns with your goals? Well AI calls it “Strategic”. You’re being strategic when you place yourself in an environment where the kind of men you want to date frequent.
I’ve seen videos on TikTok saying how it is “desperate” to go to upscale restaurants, bars, lounges and coffee shops in upscale neighborhoods with the intention of meeting a man. When in reality it is the smartest thing you can do to take control of your love life. When people say things like “love will find you when you least expect it”. Can the same be said for a job that you want? Is it desperate to apply for jobs better yet should the employer just hire a random person they found on the street? It doesn’t work that way sweetie. This often will be said by people who are already in long term relationships or who want you to stay single or settle or want you to buy their course.
Place yourself in an environment to be found by the kind of man that you want. That is the best way to get what you want. Do your research. Use google to find out the information that you want to know.
1. Only go to places that you would want to be taken on a date to. Don’t go anywhere that you don’t like.
2. Order a single non alcoholic drink and if you get hungry order an appetizer, side or dessert. It will be very cheap. Or just wait until a man comes over and offers to buy you a drink and then order whatever food that you want since he is paying.
3. Be open, friendly and smile. Don’t forget to make eye contact.
How else do you expect to get the life that you want if you don’t place yourself in a position to receive it?
If he makes you feel guilty for wanting to be taken care of, you deserve better. Since the 1700’s women have only survived because they chose men who were capable of providing and protecting
Don’t let these new age dusties gaslight you into accepting the poverty love they offer
the holiday season isn’t over just yet 🎉 your only purpose is to make my life easier 🤭👸🏽🎄 whether that’s funding my every desire, fulfilling any task I request of you, or simply humiliating yourself for my entertainment 😇😏
one way or another, you can find a way to be of use to me 😌 as long as you approach correctly 🫰🏾