As someone who got back in the bowl after 3 years away, I am so genuinely intrigued by how naive, silly and funny men are
By now, I'm currently setting my environment with some POTs to see how they react
First one is M, we'll call him blondie. He's actually kind of a friend I think? He's always called himself a SD, trying to hint something but as I was done with the bowl I purposefully didn't come up as interested. He's so falling for me now, I started giving him a bit more screen time in my life and I swear I could ask him for a piece of moon rock, he'd go get it for me. Still not sure if he's worth it, but I'm just warming up now so I'll be patient
Mr Persian on the other hand is still around, I'm still considering meeting him as he's been telling me he has gifts for me for several weeks.. He mentioned flying me to Dubai this summer, I'm currently not hinting him I'm interested when he talks about money so that he'll believe the naive girl story
In general, while working as a Nurse in one of the most prestigious hospital of my city, I understood that no man is worth the time if he pays me less than my work does.
Its me again!! This year flew by so quick! Honestly at the beginning of this year was very rocky. While pursuing my career and potential sponsors. Having the worst dates along with the cuddle site being dry.
Ladies we struck a diamond in the rut. I got this vanilla boyfriend for the past 8months. It was the day before my birthday we met. Perfect timing.
We connected very well on many things, him being from another country made things more interesting. I really enjoyed my time going on adventures with him. We enjoyed trying new things around the city. My favorite was flying a plane!
I do appreciate all the small things he did for me. And not just materials, he improved on my career path in getting me in the right direction. Gaining knowledge from him was the best reward than money. Even though thats just the cherry on top.
Anyway, I been really happy and i am enjoying the ride however far this takes me. While riding, i am going to make an effort to freestyle. Its time to settled down with a provider and not that vanilla.
Side note: Any advice on how to stop being emotionally attached? Asking for a friend.
If he makes you feel guilty for wanting to be taken care of, you deserve better. Since the 1700’s women have only survived because they chose men who were capable of providing and protecting
Don’t let these new age dusties gaslight you into accepting the poverty love they offer
Its been a while! Don’t know where to start cause its been three years since I posted.
Honestly, life has been crazy. Personal and sugar bowl have been busy. Stilling going strong with one of my SD. I’m graduating this year, so I want a vacation from him.
I picked up on doing some cuddle sessions on CuddleComfort. I don’t care what anyone says, its a weird ass side hustle. But shit, i love making a quick bag.
This week I had a WYP date cancel. Saying he found another person that he was more compatible with. How do you even respond to it in a mature but petty way? Asking for a friend.
Anyway, I wanna try to come back on here and post more updates.
Should I go for an elite college even if it's expensive? I heard networking there can bring good opportunities
Forgive my asking... how old are you?
However for anyone of age asking...
If you have your plan right, An elite college could be one of the best head starts you have in moving around certain circles... just remember to smooze, socialize and keep your eye on the goal for social climbing... do not take your eyes off it for obvious reason.
For those who can't do elite university...
Make sure to go to college in a big city with an affluent population. (Granted you can meet wealth anywhere these days, but I like the higher probability of being located where the population is larger)