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haruharuz · 2 years

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Subtle ways to change how people view you:

Lean in slightly to appear more interested in the conversation

Speak slower and softer if you wish to seem like a dream / at peace

Keep your bag organized, when you reach to grab things out of it you’ll seem more put together if there’s little to no struggle to find things

Using a fragrance oil on your wrist and under your ears will seem more Sophisticated than spraying yourself with perfume

Read poetry, keep a select few favorites in your mind. When people ask what you enjoy, say poetry and provide an example. You’ll appear more emotionally intelligent

If you’re going to fake smile, move the muscles under your eyes so that your cheeks raises enough to halfway squint. It seems more genuine that way.

Walk with your head up everywhere. And I mean everywhere.

Stop messing with your little imperfections only you notice. There’s no need to straighten your shirt, rub your hand down your pants etc. Leave it be and you will appear more confident.

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kingess · 2 years

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How to love bomb a male

Tangible steps to manipulate men by love bombing them

Love bombing a male is nowhere near as simple as it is a girl, as women often desire an established partnership and oftentimes a family from way earlier ages than men. Men don't come with social expiration dates nor have societal pressure for love, so love bombing them requires deep drilling into their unhealed desires and actual passions. Do understand that mens first and primary goal with you will always be sex. That's the first thing in their mind even if they do want something more as well. Don't let this discourage you to manipulate them past it & override it.

Listen to his life goals and derive knowledge about what need he's trying to fill with that goal or what wound he's trying to patch.

Your job is to be a dopamine rush, learn those things that make him light up with positive emotions and talk about them in different forms.

Make him visualize those things that light him up by telling stories of what you two could do. Does he want to build a house? Talk about tasks you both could do. Does he want to travel Europe? Make up specific imageries of places you two could go to or even talk about yourself as an individual in this fantasy he's just sneakily placed into. Once you plant these images they're like short films he watched and affect him accordingly. Those imageries will activate in his brain when he faces triggers of his dreams & you're right on his mind.

Make him feel special by remembering his favorites and giving him compliments based on his insecurities. If he's been made feel stupid, compliment his intellect, if he feels less accomplished than others make sure to make him feel extraordinarily talented and adept. This will make him feel like you see and know him like no one else does, "the real him", even though it's just his delusional ego stroked through his coping mechanisms.

Try to be genuine with compliments. Identify qualities that are important to him & use them. And never forget to discard him and take it all away from him just when he's started to trust your love.

And hey, Happy hunting babes

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red-pill-to-swallow · 7 months

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How to be attractive to men and my goals

Hey babes,

like I said – I want to incorporate RPT (Red Pill Theories) into my daily life immediately.

A few things that every women within the community seemed to be content with were:

1. You are never finished with glowing or leveling up. Never stop learning. Never stop trying to better yourself.

2. Pretty privilege is real.

I agree that pretty privilege is very real. I mean, I get affected by pretty people like everybody else, even if I don’t do it on purpose. It’s just something that is ingrained in our brains and I need to learn how to take this to my advantage.

I think I have a decent starting base, because I’m a skinny white woman in her twenties with long blonde hair. I am not really tall – even short men are at least 5-7cms taller than me – but I’m also not extremely short.

I have a petite frame but my body-shape is something between an hourglass and a peach. My face is average – I don’t really have striking features or am a natural beauty model – but my features also aren’t hideous. It’s really just something you can look at without thinking too much.

On a scale, I would rate myself a 5,5-6/10 on an average day and I guess that’s great!

But how can I make myself look better on a daily basis? I really took hours to research how I could make myself more attractive to wealthy and high value men.

Obviously, no man is like the other and every man prefers something different. One man might like tattoos and piercings while another man with the same social status thinks they are hideous. I don’t want to completely change who I am and I don’t want to spend thousands of dollars for it.

However, I really like this whole clean girl and old money aesthetic that is going viral on Tiktok right now – and I think those two aesthetics could fit me and my personality really well.

Most wealthy men seem to like this traits in women:

1. great skin without obvious pimples or enlarged pores

2. long and healthy hair in a natural color

3. straight white teeth

4. clean nails on both hands and feet

5. hairless legs, armpits and at least trimmed pubic hair

6. wearing clean and wrinkle free clothes without any holes

7. wearing a nice smell that is fitting to your overall appearance

I think those are the basics and they can be achieved by almost anyone. If you can’t afford braces make sure that your teeth are always perfectly brushed and that you’re keeping up with your dental hygiene in general.

In fact – if you have problems affording certain beauty procedures, research how to get as close as possible to them with DIYs.

For years, I always wanted to be the mysterious woman in the room. The woman with a dark aura, the woman that doesn’t speak much and remains most of her life a secret.

Well, I am not this woman even if I’m trying very hard. It would be an act that I would put on and I am sure that everyone in the room would notice.

I am naturally very bubbly and I love having conversations with people in general. I would also say that I have a broad knowledge on different topics and that I’m able to talk to almost everyone.

I am also very welcoming and I enjoy making people laugh and have fun in my presence. I tend to have strong opinions and I’m not afraid to take on a discussion.

With everything that I know about myself now, I made some points that I need to tackle in order to level up:

1. stop oversharing. Being bubbly is great but not everyone needs to know everything about my business. Sometimes it’s just better to be silent and to listen.

2. start with exercise again. I am happy with my weight but I am extremely weak and I have almost zero muscle mass. My breath is getting heavy if I have to take the stairs and my legs start to hurt after roughly 15 minutes of walking. I plan on going for a walk every day and doing pilates 3x a week.

3. start doing my hair and makeup again. My hair is long and blonde – so it is an eyecatcher. It’s also very healthy but I usually just throw it up in a bun or in a clawclip, so no one is really seeing it. I have multiple styling tools at home and I need to start using them. The same applies to makeup. I have so much great stuff that looks really beautiful and natural but I am just too lazy to use it. I plan on taking 20 minutes every day to do my makeup and to suck it up – because I usually always do a double cleanse at night, so it’s not really a struggle to take it off in the evening. It’s just inconvenient in the morning.

4. taking better care of my skin and of my dental health. I have high quality skincare and I love doing my skincare but sometimes I’m just too lazy. Let me just say that it doesn’t happen often – but still too much for my liking. Also my dental health – I need to make a dentist appointment asap. I think the last time I went was around 3 years ago!

5. buying better fitting clothes. I don’t like shopping for clothes but it is what it is. Right now I only have cute lounge sets for being at home but when I go out I usually only wear jeans with a basic top and sneakers. I want to look more polished and feminine. I want to stop wearing jeans and focus more on pants, skirts and dresses. Also literally any other shoes than sneakers.

6. go out more. I’m your typical homebody. Movie night? Reading a book? Ordering food? Count me in! I always have fun when I go out but I’m still mostly at home and I want to change that. I want to have a group of like minded friends that want to hang out with me. Maybe even at home. Lol.

I really thought hard about those six points but I think those are the first things that I need to tackle down.

In the end – I was asking myself: what could I do to feel the most comfortable with spontaneous outgoings and meeting new people?

It came down to wanting to look my best. Obviously. I want to make a good first impression and maybe even profit off of pretty privilege.

I’m sure we all know those times when we’re dressed like slobs and suddenly an opportunity to go out arises and we decline because it would take hours to get ready.

That’s the reason why I want to get ready in the morning – so I would only need to touch up if anything came up.

see you soon!

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akeptseductress · 10 months

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You have to be willing to cut these men lose if they’re not giving you what you want/need.

Because they’re getting what they want/need from you.

And I don’t mean intimacy.

I’m talking about your time. Energy. Attention. Your presence. Your personality. Your looks. Your companionship. All of that and so much more. We as women may not realize it but all of that has so much inherent value to men.

Some men are aware of it.

Some of them aren’t.

But they all want it.

So if you’re not getting what you want, why should you give them what they want - for free?

#hypergamy #hypergamous heaux #hypergamous mindset

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dosesofglamour · 2 years

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Doses of Glamour ⚜️

Women of colour in high society:

Brooke Devard Ozaydinli

African American marketing manager and podcast host

Dominant feminine seduction archetypes: The sophisticate and the gamine

Profile: Career

This stunning Stanford alumni is a product marketing manager at Instagram as well as the founder and host of the award winning podcast Naked Beauty Podcast. The Naked Beauty Podcast isn’t simply about physical appearance, Brooke believes that any discussion on beauty taps into complicated personal histories, what we’ve inherited from our mothers and grandmothers, how our ideology shapes our sense of self, how sickness or health (or even being in love!) effects our self-esteem. Beauty is all of these things and she wanted to create a safe space and platform for women to share their stories.

Marriage to Umut Ozaydinli

Brooke is married to Umut Ozaydinli, the founder of Deviant Ventures an entertainment marketing company in New York. He is the son of Bulend Ozaydinli of Istanbul, who was the chief executive of Koc Holding, an industrial company in Istanbul with assets worth $84.8 billion and later the chief executive of Migros, a supermarket chain in Istanbul.

The couple met in London during the 2012 Summer Olympics. Umut, who lived in New York, was in London organizing a live music performance and art exhibition for Coca-Cola. While Brooke, who grew up in New York, was living in London at the time, where she was an executive producer of six short documentary films on underground music culture for Nokia.

When a mutual friend introduced them at the Dorchester Hotel, “I literally couldn’t take my eyes off of her,” Umut said. By February 2013, a romance was starting to blossom. “Every time we saw each other, we grew a little bit more attached,” Brooke said. “Despite living with an ocean between us, we didn't fight the impracticality and quickly recognized that a strong bond was forming. I had never met anyone who thought so big and lived the way he did, he was so full of passion and curiosity.”

In the ensuing months, they had what Brooke described as “these intense weekend rendezvous in Amsterdam, Milan, Los Angeles, Istanbul and Atlanta, stealing time between work and other commitments to be together.”

In August 2013,Umut invited Brooke to join him and his parents, on their boat, to sail the Greek Islands and coast of Turkey. “Little did she know it was my final acid test,” Umut said. The couple got engaged not long after, eventually tying the knot in a beautiful Tuscan ceremony at Villa Cetinale.

#doses of glamour #high society #high class heaux #high society heaux #high maintenance #level up #hypergamy #hypergamous heaux #hypergamous lifestyle #level up mindset #level up journey #black women in luxury #luxurious black women

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karinakan · 2 years

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How I will level up and also marry a Wealthy man✨

Hi, Nice to meet you! Call me Karina. Basically this blog is for me to keep myself accountable for my goals on becoming a high value version of myself.

Goals:

Have a morning and night for week days and weekends

Make time for other hobbies (ukulele, language learning, reading, spiritual stuff)

Perfect looks

Health:

Make a diet plan/ cut out unhealthy foods little at a time

Go back to intermittent fasting

Start a workout routine and stick to it

Listen to subliminal

Take medicine every single day

Create a morning and night routine

Mental health:

Start therapy

Journal every other night

Make time for meditation, spell work, and deity worship

Physical:

Start building wodrobe

Achieve dream body

Master everyday Makeup look

Find a hair style that fits your face

Make sure nails and toes are ALWAYS DONE

NEVER leave the house not looking your best

Rich bitch shit:

Master seductiveness and flirting

Learn rich people hobbies like (golf, horse riding, real estate etc.)

Read up on current events

Know where the old money wealthy people usually hangout/ network to get into these circles

Find eligible bachelors

#spoiled heaux #black femininity #sugar bowl #spoiled trophy wife #trophy wives #spoiled gf #high value heaux #hypergamous heaux #hypergamy #sugar dating #heauxlife

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ms-chameleon · 9 months

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Selfcare is a privilege. Never forget that.

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cochellacoco · 1 year

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#soft feminine #hypergamy #hypergamous #hyper feminine #level up #high maintenance #sugar heaux #high value woman #spoiled heaux #luxury heaux #heaux tips #high society heaux #hypergamous heaux

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tierrahenri · 2 months

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#hypergamous heaux #hypergamy #shera seven #sprinkle sprinkle #ebony god #ebony goddess #bnwo #beta man #cash sub

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haruharuz · 2 years

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How did you get into dancing? Do you recommend it to others? Are there certain types of people that should avoid dancing?

Long story short, 17 year old me stumbled upon the world of SW and outright decided I wanted to try stripping one day. At 20 I decided to say fuck it and go for it, moved halfway across the U.S. and went to an audition.

I don’t recommend it to anyone, but I also don’t say that they shouldn’t. I love dancing but the industry is fucking BRUTAL. I’ve watched good girls become felons from drug charges and a plethora of other things. It really depends on if you WANT to dance and if you have the skill set. There’s a massive skill set needed to dance, if you don’t have it or learn how to build it you won’t make anything.

Absolutely, In no particular order, if you have these you might want to reconsider:

(People with/who:)

Jealousy issues

Little to no self esteem

Money management problems

Past drug addiction issues

Past alcoholism

Addictive tendencies

Fear of rejection

Little to no stamina

Low pain tolerance

No rhythm

No variety in music taste

No social skills

Little concept of being seductive

No makeup skills

No hair skills

Can’t handle being touched

Don’t like being judged

Have bad hygiene skills

This is a small list of things you may want to consider going in. You have 100% certainty to be judged for your body, skin, teeth, hair, voice etc. You WILL need money management skills (send an ask if you want a list of mistakes and advice). And you absolutely cannot avoid being rejected, laughed at, touched in some cases, bruises, scraped, and in pain.

Thank you for the ask babydoll, ask box is still open always <3

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red-pill-to-swallow · 7 months

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Doing your part in a relationship

Hey babes,

it’s Monday – a new, fresh week and the ultimate opportunity to make some changes.

I don’t know why it feels so much better to start a new routine on a Monday than it does on a random Wednesday.

I took some time after I posted my last two posts and really thought about the relationship dynamic between my man and me.

I thought about changes that I would like to make and what could help us to become a better couple.

Honestly, I was pretty shocked after all my thinking because it turns out that my man is the rock in this relationship and I am not sure why he is still sticking around when he could probably do so much better.

But let me explain:

I gave up working in my full-time job around January 2023 and have been home ever since then.

My man was aware that I was totally burned out from my job and offered me that I could stay at home and take care of the household chores.

Previously we used to split the chores around the house roughly 50/50. It was very fair and in some weeks he did more than me and some weeks I did more than him, like it’s in every relationship.

I would say that I am fairly good at housekeeping. I know how to cook, how to clean and how to do laundry.

However – I never before was responsible for everything. From going grocery shopping and planning meals to cleaning the bathrooms every week – suddenly all of this was on me.

I struggle really bad with organizing myself, this was one of the reasons why I was so burned out from my previous job, and I started slacking.

I would do the laundry one day and take three days before I started folding it. My man literally had no underwear one time and flipped out because that’s obviously disgusting and instead of improving – I started to get mad at him.

It wasn’t only the laundry, it also began affecting my cooking – which I loved doing before – and I would start making only frozen meals or just serving cold meat cuts with bread.

We started fighting a lot more because my man was sad, that instead of relaxing at home he would need to help me with my chores – after a full workday.

I had my epiphany a few weeks ago (when I made this blog) and realized that my man has every right to be mad at me. He does his job. I am not.

So, let’s see – my man works really though hours. He leaves the house early in the morning and comes home in the early evening. He’s usually stressed because his job is very demanding and he is responsible for a lot of people.

Imagine coming home to your girlfriend, who’s staying at home, and almost nothing is done. The fridge isn’t restocked, the floor is dirty and there is no food. After your shower you realize that you have no fresh underwear because your girlfriend didn’t wash any.

I would flip out too.

My behavior was/is borderline disrespectful and I am honestly ashamed because of it. I would have broken up with me if I was him.

But here we are – still together and I don’t plan on dodging this second chance.

I think many girls that want the lifestyle of a spoiled girlfriend or a stay at home girlfriend don’t realize how hard it is to organize a whole household on your own.

Yes, there might be some men out there that are so rich that they don’t mind employing staff to help around the house, but I don’t think that this is achievable for a woman in her twenties without having various high value connections in the right circles. At least I don’t have those connections.

I am responsible for keeping the house clean, making food and going grocery shopping. That takes maybe 5 hours of my day and the rest of the time I can do whatever I want.

My man only wants to come home to a clean, organized house with a stocked fridge and possibly a hot meal on the stove.

Honestly – he is the one that is working his ass off every day, not me.

The worst is, that I even started to neglect my appearance. I used to shave every second day and that slowly progressed to only once a week. I used to color my hair religiously and worked out at least three times a week.

Now I haven’t touched up my hair in over three months, my roots are disgusting and I am very ashamed because of it. I mean, even though my man pays for my beauty appointments – I couldn’t get my ass up.

However, I cleaned our whole house today. From the bottom to the top. It’s spotless. I did laundry and went grocery shopping and I made a plan on how to maintain all of those things.

I won’t share the plan just yet because I want to make sure that I can actually follow it before I share it with you.

What should you take with you after reading this rant?

Be careful that you’re always a responsible partner. Don’t be like me. If you’re telling your partner that you plan on doing something – actually follow through and do it. Don’t disappoint them all the time.

Make sure that you acknowledge what they do for you and thank them for it every once in a while.

It is unattractive to be lazy and not being able to keep up with your standards. It’s unfair to your partner to let yourself go and they have every right to be upset about it.

Think before you speak and start an argument. Are you really right? Is it worth to start an argument about something that is your responsibility?

I mean, my man made it clear in the beginning: If I want to stay at home and live a cozy life – I have to take care of the house while he works and provides for us both.

He does his part of the agreement. Every single day.

I’ve only done my part of the agreement when I felt like it and that is not okay. But I am changing and I know that he has already forgiven me for all the hassle.

See you soon

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akeptseductress · 10 months

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I don't know who needs to hear this message...

I also want to add that it doesn't matter how handsome he is, or how sweet he is, if he's 6.5ft tall, if he's funny, if he has a six pack, or dresses nice or has good d!ck.

personally, I feel that if you're wanting to be a hypergamous woman - that has to come first.

there are men that will have all of the other attributes that you want in a man AND will be willing (and able) to provide for you too.

you just have to hold out for them.

because if you decide to keep the other guy around until the right one shows up...

you run a higher risk of the right one never showing up; and staying with someone that's not giving you what you really want is how you get caught up. it's how you get in situations that you really don't want to be in. it's how time passes you by. it's how you end up settling because when you settle for less you get less than what you settled for.

it's how you end up wasting your time, your energy, and who's to say that this guy won't end up doing your dirty in the end anyway?

if you're truly about hypergamy, if you really want that lady of leisure, living in luxury lifestyle, you have to define what that is and what that means for you and you have to hold out for it. the girls that you see that have the lifestyle that you dream of? they held firm in what they were looking for, what they wanted and they didn't settle.

hold the line. don't waver. don't settle.

#hypergamy #high maintenance #hypergamous mindset #hypergamous heaux

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bbltheque · 9 months

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originally made this plan for myself but all the Q&A sessions on instagram made me want to share it with you.

everyone, let's do our best and have fun. no pressure and don't take it too seriously. Come on ig if you want more action, details and examples.

#bbltheque #spoiled gf #spoiled girlfriend #self love #hypergamy #hypergamous #high maintenance #girlblog #it girl #girl blogger #hypergamyblr #that girl #spoiled heaux #femininity #level up #the feminine urge #girls'8 program #mariyah's G8

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scorpioluvvr · 6 months

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#femininity #high maintenance #level up #self love #hypergamous #luxury lifestyle #spoiled heaux #that girl #black girl aesthetic #spoiled girlfriend

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hypergamiss · 4 months

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I get it, women take a lot more accountability than men (imo) because society is currently set up this way. Women fill up churches, support groups, therapy, they’re purchasing more self-help books and literature than men, and there are a million pages on social media dedicated to women bettering themselves while there are barely any for men. Overall, anything related to self improvement and reflection is dominated by women. Socially and culturally speaking most parents hold their daughter more accountable than their sons. That’s why a 15 year old boy can be out galavanting late with his friends but a 20 year old woman has a strict curfew.

At some point you have to realize (as a woman) that you automatically deserve more from life and the partner that you choose because it is your birth right (imo).

Just because the majority of men are not decent humans, doesn’t mean you have to settle.

And just because you’re constantly being groomed by society to improve as a woman doesn’t mean that something is wrong with you or that you’re not good enough every time a man doesn’t know how to act right.

Lift your head high and accept the power that you hold. Stop questioning yourself every two seconds and accept that men can often do wrong. Be confident.

#hypergamous lifestyle #heaux advice #heaux tips #heauxheauxheaux #heauxlife #hypergamy #level up #spoiled heaux #spoiled gf #high maintenance

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