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brownsugar-dreams · 2 months

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Not me wanting to go live during my date with a POT just to realize tumblr snatched that away 😭. I see all the asks & DMs, a lot are similar so I figured a live would be helpful. I remember when I was first starting my sugar/hypergamy/levelup journey it was so hard to find accounts that were honest about sharing the game. Lots of fake ass “pay for scripts/tips” accounts & I definitely got played in the past. They still exist & I’ve seen girlies getting scammed. I’m very transparent about my lifestyle & journey because knowledge should be free! We can all win. The truth is not every POT will amount to anything & that’s okay. SB accounts like to post screenshots about the times they hit a lick & trick ppl into paying. They’re prob even sending money to themselves because they’ll usually post small amounts of under $500. I’d rather show the ups/downs because it’s really not just a one size fits all, there are multiple formulas to success. Anyways we have date #2 this Friday.. is a live on TikTok or IG a good idea?

#sugar bowl #sugar lifestyle #sugar baby tips #dating #just ranting #sugar dating #heaux tips #sugar life #hypergamy #self help #black women in luxury #money mindset #levelup #relationship #rip tumblr live

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brownsugar-dreams · 2 months

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How are you investing 🍬 or extra money? I started trying to learn about stock investments during the panorama. I lost just under $5k playing around with crypto 😭 but I learned (and still learning) a lot about financial management. I recently moved $10k from my HY savings account to a CD. I was dating a finance guy and he told me to open up a CD because it’s a higher interest rate and he matched my initial deposit 🥰 There’s so much to learn but it’s much better than letting money sit & collect dust! I’ve been wanting to hop on live & share my experiences with sugar investments 🤔

#sugar lifestyle #sugar blog #levelup #money mindset #finance #extra money #sugar bowl #sugar baby tips #sugar dating #heaux tips #hypergamy #black women in luxury #dating #levelingup #sugar life #investing

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brownsugar-dreams · 2 months

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Ooop- 🫢 saw this on Twitter. What do you even reply? 😭

#sugar bowl #sugar lifestyle #sugar baby tips #sugar dating #heaux tips #hypergamy #black women in luxury #levelup #dating #funny shit

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brownsugar-dreams · 3 months

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I can’t tell you how many $$$ men I’ve dated that enjoy this type of shit 😭 One time I was dating a guy who wanted me to do this type of baby talk/role playing and I almost wrote him off because of it but decided to let my curiosity win. He ended up paying for me & my besties holiday travel & birthday trip. A lot of men love this shit. Call it a kink or whatever, but playing the role can pay off.. why do you think PSO’s will always be in high demand 🤭🤷🏾‍♀️💰

#sugar dating #sugar bowl #dating #levelup #sugar lifestyle #sugar baby tips #heaux tips #rap #hip hop #black women in luxury #hypergamy #relationship

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brownsugar-dreams · 3 months

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Most men have a limited attention span as is. No man is reading this.. the time & energy it took to write these paragraphs would’ve been better spent elsewhere. This isn’t standing on business. If it gets to this point, block & move on 💫

#levelup #dating #sugar bowl #relationship #sugar lifestyle #sugar baby tips #sugar dating #heaux tips #hypergamy #levelingup #twitter

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brownsugar-dreams · 11 months

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Links:

#manifest #sugar bowl #sugar lifestyle #sugar dating #hypergamy #black women in luxury #money mindset #dating #fashion #high value woman #high class heaux #luxury lifestyle

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brownsugar-dreams · 11 months

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Hi! I wanted to ask if I can use the pdf for the book “Why Men Love Bitches?”

Hi dear, thanks for the request. I’ve just added the pdf to the Tumblr Bundle folder. Just make sure you’re logged in to view. Enjoy!

#self help #hypergamy #levelup #2023 reads #spicy reads #books and libraries

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brownsugar-dreams · 1 year

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This Is Your Sign

A quick note to the ladies who are on their level up, metamorphic hypergamous journey: Please trust yourself. If things aren’t moving as quick as you thought, don’t regress. I promise going back to that broke low vibe little boy is not better than being alone. Please date multiple men and don’t limit yourself.

You cannot convince a man who isn’t capable of providing why you deserve to be provided for. It’s not you, it’s him. Let that frustration go. You’ll feel so much lighter. Walk away from that cycle, and you’ll be amazed at how prosperity gravitates towards you. Wealth, health, and happiness can’t reach you when you’re intertwined with energy that repels the things you want to attract. Friends with benefits is a joke, invest in a vibrator. Every time you go back, you shift the energy away from your break through. Cut off all contact & move forward gracefully. I didn’t find success in sugar dating/hypergamy until I was about 1.5 years free of my ex. And now I’ll be graduating med school almost (if not fully) debt free with contacts I met through networking while dating. I’ve traveled to places I never dreamed of visiting and learned things that people pay money and spend years trying to learn. Date lawyers, finance/tech guys, business moguls. You’ll learn so much about money & how to invest. Don’t block your blessings, you’re so so close ✨

#sugar bowl #sugar lifestyle #sugar baby tips #just ranting #advice #bad bitch #heaux tips #sugar dating #hypergamy #levelling up #dating #womenempowerment

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brownsugar-dreams · 1 year

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Get Him To Spend $$$

Okay so its been a while since I’ve posted but ya girl has been out here getting to the bag. Brand new city so I had to start a whole new roster. Tonight I went out with Mr. Rocket Scientist (he actually worked for NASA and now does contract work). This is our second date and I did things a lil different than what I’ve done in the past:

Let him do all the talking. Date #2 and I know more about him than he knows about my alter ego. This is where I really pried into his past. Asked about his ex wives, ex gfs, how he treated them etc. All while running up the bill to see how he’s really living. Men love to brag about what they have but unless I’m seeing him swipe that card its really meaningless. After dinner he took me to this Michelin star cocktail restaurant which was lovely. Date #2 is really about checking their pockets and how much they’re willing to spend.

Talk about future plans. Of course with date #2 you wanna make him feel like you’re really into him. Don’t do too much but light thigh touches and pecks after he pays the bill or gets you what you want. This is where you build up to the type of treatment you expect going forward. If he talks about cheaper/hole in the wall places/activities sound uninterested. He’ll get the picture if done properly.

Make sure to keep the spotlight on him. If he asks you about yourself just make sure to keep it light. He doesn’t need to know your life only your lifestyle. Talk about the places you’ve been (or make it up), the things you like to do (or would like to do). Just really build up the type of lifestyle you want him to know you expect.

Always remember that you can’t change a cheap bastard. If he’s not reciprocating what you’re putting out no need to force it. When the date ends just drop him & start again. This is a game for the long haul so don’t get discouraged. I met a lot of fakes in my sugar dating journey but also a lot of real spenders. It just takes time & patience.

Be patient. Don’t get too greedy too soon. That has always been my issue whenever I find a spender. He will spend so don’t be insecure and hasty. Give it a few dates, some men need to be sure you’re “for them” before dropping a bag for you to keep. Shopping dates are most successful after you’ve built that relationship with him.

Dress to impress. Men love red. This is what I wore to our date & he loved it. Invest in your wardrobe. Check out some of the clothing at my store. If you see something you like please reach out to get a discount code if I don’t have a sale going on when you’re ready to purchase.

It’s just being comfy with who you are and what you want. It’s so easy & fun to get men to spend!

#sugar bowl #sugar lifestyle #sugar baby tips #heaux tips #sugar dating #dating #hypergamy #black women in luxury #money mindset #manifest #female manipulator

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brownsugar-dreams · 2 years

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This is starting Monday! Think about your goals for the month & take action to change your reality. There are a few seats left for this challenge. Sign up for free before the start date

Also considering doing a similar sugar dating program/challenge. We’ll see!

21 Day Healthy Wealthy Body Cleanse

IF YOU'RE READING THIS IT’S YOUR SIGN TO KICKSTART A WHOLE NEW WAY OF LIVING BEFORE THIS YEAR IS OVER!

Leveling up is an ongoing journey. Lately I’ve been feeling the need to do a cleanse and welcome in new energy. I’m thinking a 21 day cleanse that incorporates mind, body, spirit exercises. One of the hardest parts about doing cleanses is not having someone to keep you accountable. If you’ve been wanting to do a cleanse, join the program where you can track your progress, connect with people who are also doing the cleanse, and get recipe ideas. You can join free anytime before the start date!

“Rules”

The first cleanse will be a liquid diet and will start on Monday October 10, 2022!

Always check with your doctor before starting any new changes to your diet, especially if you have medical issues.

For this cleanse you will need:

1. A juicer, blender, or citrus press

2. Fresh fruit and/or vegetables (preferably organic and in season)

Juice for breakfast

Juice for lunch

Juice for snack

Juice for dinner

Juicing Recipes: The Juicing Bible is an excellent resource. Amazon link: https://amzn.to/3qEsKBb

I’ll also post some recipes in the program group tab

3. Water, water, water! 💦 Water keeps you hydrated, clears skin blemishes, and normalizes your digestive system. Making sure that you are well hydrated during your cleanse is very important. You need to drink at least half of your body weight in water every day. For example if you weigh 150 lbs, you need to drink 75 ounces of water each day= 9 1/2 8 ounce glasses per day.

4. A lemon in at least 1 glass of water per day = 21 lemons for your water for the 21 days of this cleanse.

5. A gratitude journal to help you work on cleansing your spirit. Everyday when you wake up instead of grabbing your phone take a few deep breaths and cultivate a feeling of gratitude. Pull out your gratitude journal and write down one thing you are grateful for. You can do this while sipping on some lemon water.

6. Practice meditation for 5-10 minutes each day. This might be hard for some people but if you can attempt meditation after writing in your gratitude journal it’ll get easier each day.

7. $21 dollars. Give $1 away each day to a stranger. This can be in the form of a tip, charity, or just sending $1 to someone random each day. This will open up the reciprocation of universal energy of abundance and prosperity. If you’re unfamiliar with the flow of money, listen to this podcast episode.

Do your daily check-ins right on the program which you can access on my website or the app.

Sign up

Remember you are in control! If you want to do 2-3 days or 5-7 days or do 10-21 or more days the choice is yours! Take it one day at a time, listen to your body, and again check with doctor! I’m super excited! I can’t wait to hear about the amazing things that are going to manifest over the next few weeks. Let’s go!

#self healing #manifestnow #cleanenergy #21 day smoothie diet plan #healthy diet

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brownsugar-dreams · 2 years

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21 Day Healthy Wealthy Body Cleanse

IF YOU'RE READING THIS IT’S YOUR SIGN TO KICKSTART A WHOLE NEW WAY OF LIVING BEFORE THIS YEAR IS OVER!

Leveling up is an ongoing journey. Lately I’ve been feeling the need to do a cleanse and welcome in new energy. I’m thinking a 21 day cleanse that incorporates mind, body, spirit exercises. One of the hardest parts about doing cleanses is not having someone to keep you accountable. If you’ve been wanting to do a cleanse, join the program where you can track your progress, connect with people who are also doing the cleanse, and get recipe ideas. You can join free anytime before the start date!

“Rules”

The first cleanse will be a liquid diet and will start on Monday October 10, 2022!

Always check with your doctor before starting any new changes to your diet, especially if you have medical issues.

For this cleanse you will need:

1. A juicer, blender, or citrus press

2. Fresh fruit and/or vegetables (preferably organic and in season)

Juice for breakfast

Juice for lunch

Juice for snack

Juice for dinner

Juicing Recipes: The Juicing Bible is an excellent resource. Amazon link: https://amzn.to/3qEsKBb

I’ll also post some recipes in the program group tab

3. Water, water, water! 💦 Water keeps you hydrated, clears skin blemishes, and normalizes your digestive system. Making sure that you are well hydrated during your cleanse is very important. You need to drink at least half of your body weight in water every day. For example if you weigh 150 lbs, you need to drink 75 ounces of water each day= 9 1/2 8 ounce glasses per day.

4. A lemon in at least 1 glass of water per day = 21 lemons for your water for the 21 days of this cleanse.

5. A gratitude journal to help you work on cleansing your spirit. Everyday when you wake up instead of grabbing your phone take a few deep breaths and cultivate a feeling of gratitude. Pull out your gratitude journal and write down one thing you are grateful for. You can do this while sipping on some lemon water.

6. Practice meditation for 5-10 minutes each day. This might be hard for some people but if you can attempt meditation after writing in your gratitude journal it’ll get easier each day.

7. $21 dollars. Give $1 away each day to a stranger. This can be in the form of a tip, charity, or just sending $1 to someone random each day. This will open up the reciprocation of universal energy of abundance and prosperity. If you’re unfamiliar with the flow of money, listen to this podcast episode.

Do your daily check-ins right on the program which you can access on my website or the app.

Sign up

Remember you are in control! If you want to do 2-3 days or 5-7 days or do 10-21 or more days the choice is yours! Take it one day at a time, listen to your body, and again check with doctor! I’m super excited! I can’t wait to hear about the amazing things that are going to manifest over the next few weeks. Let’s go!

#wellness #diettips #healthy #health & fitness #levelup #21 day smoothie diet plan #sugar lifestyle #challenge #sugar bowl

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brownsugar-dreams · 2 years

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Oh in case I didn’t emphasize it enough, GET YOU A SUPPORT SYSTEM! This man anticipates the answer to my problems (which is money 99% of the time). Get into these men’s hearts and if he’s generous he’ll show it. Especially as a student, they have a soft spot for our struggle and admire our drive. Use it to your advantage.

Advice for black girls entering their first year of College? I am majoring in something that is dominated by men.

Hey love, congrats on starting your first year! I actually just recorded an episode about my experience in higher education this past year. These crazy people were trying to get me to REPEAT THE ENTIRE YEAR. Meaning start over from the beginning, pay again, do the whole first year of med school again! I was like not this black girl. It’s really important as black women that we familiarize ourselves with the school policy (this goes for professional/corporate environments and places of employment too). Know your rights. It’s the only thing that can protect you when an establishment tries to play in your face. Here’s a summary of what’s in the episode/advice for you:

We need to be vocal and knowledgeable about what we say, especially when dealing with administration/faculty because these people will not give af about you if you don’t speak up for yourself. Find your voice because you will absolutely need it at some point. You have to advocate for yourself because they have no problem letting you become a statistic if you don’t.

Align yourself with faculty/staff that seem reasonable and can advocate for you should you ever need it. This was one of the most essential things I did to get myself out of this shit.

Join advocacy/support groups/clubs. It really helps to create networks and contacts of support. I am co-chair of our student wellness and resiliency center. Getting involved is a good way to make yourself known and can come as a major asset when you need letters of recommendations or research/internship/etc. opportunities. Also helps to connect with other black women students in your city. You’ll be able to vent and talk about things that only you as black women will understand. It’s important to have a group of people you can confide in.

Fake it til you make it. Eliminate self doubt/doubt about your abilities and remember your power. Affirmations really help with building confidence. These people expect you to doubt yourself, don’t give them that satisfaction. Try to push yourself a little each day. If you’re shy/nervous about public speaking, start with speaking up in smaller group until you get comfy giving presentations. The more you do it, the easier it gets.

Give yourself time off! Try to incorporate a little bit of self care daily. This doesn’t have to be hours of pampering at a time. Stretching, candle work, aromatherapy while you study, dance study breaks, are a few things you can do. Make sure to take nights off from studying every once in a while too. My counselor said that 1 night a week off is doable.

Find a mentor. Seriously this is so important. Not just any mentor, someone who you can connect with. Reach out to people at your school that are where you want to be. Don’t be discouraged by not hearing back. The professional world is very busy and most times people aren’t ignoring you purposely. Don’t be afraid to send a follow up email. You really need to build that armor of confidence because you’ll meet people along the way who will try to tear you down or don’t believe. It doesn’t matter what anyone thinks, the only opinion that matters is yours and you know you worked damn hard to get to where you are so act like it! Don’t let anyone bully you out of your place.

You’ll do amazing, good luck on this next chapter ✨

#hypergamy #spoiled gf #sugar life #hypergamous #black heaux #black sugar baby #sugar baby blog #spoiled heaux #sugar lifestyle #sugar dating #black women in leisure

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