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There was a girl recently who swore she was going to make so much money as a dancer again. She started, I got her into a shitty club and said get to work.
This woman did nothing but fucking complain. Oh but my knee hurts, oh but I kind of fell when trying that trick etc etc. I knew then that she didn’t have what it takes to make money in a club.
She told me she’d go travel an hour away to a club to get into more money and I said “don’t do that you’ll hurt your own feelings.”
She asked what I meant and I stated plainly “they’re going to look you up and down and say you’re too fat sorry. You don’t have the makeup skills, hair skills, pole or floorwork nor the high class experience they need, im sorry.”
This cocky girl tried anyways and sobbed for an hour on her way home because they did exactly what I said they would do.
Do not go into dancing thinking you can walk around with undone brows, no makeup, stinky breath, horrific posture, and frizzy hair and make money. You will fail.
Wealthy men will always want put together women.
#sunny rambles#dancer advice#dancer things#hypergamy#luxury#spoiled heaux#spoiled girlfriend#hypergamous#manifestation#luxury aesthetic#aesthetic#haru talks#high class heaux#high maintenance heaux#high value heaux
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J-HOPE & BOOGALOO KIN
Hope on the Street (2024)
#hoseok#jhope#hobi#bts#btsgif#btsedit#dailybts#userines#usersky#annietrack#*#hope on the street#took me forever to make this i think that last set broke my brain and stress has got me functioning at 5% lately#but anyway look at them and their little coordinating outfits <3#i loved that he asked him to be involved in this series like not only was it brave to bring him along to revisit his identity as a dancer#but i think it also made for more insightful moments throughout the doc#he clearly feels very comfortable around him and im glad he was there to give him the advice he needed in those moments#also just <33 all the moments of him watching him dance with so much admiration just like with stars in his eyes i loved it so much#i think he was such an integral part of this series and i wanted to highlight their relationship a lil bit 🫶#and their couple outfits hehehe
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240106 Multi Chase
— Advice (Taemin) + Good&Great (KEY) Dance Covers
#240106#shinee#choi minho#minho#best choi's fan con multi chase#multi chase day i#fancam#only hope#cmh dance covers#2min#minkey#advice minho dance cover#g&g minho dance cover#the dancer is biggle he'll work with key in his next con!
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Anyone here deal with snapping hip syndrome/dancers hip?
Yesterday my hip popped which isnt uncommon because i snap crackle pop like rice crispies cereal in general but when my hip popped yesterday i froze because it HURT like really bad but i just literally walked it off. I get sciatic nerve pain that can make my hip and legs hurt but this felt different (also i cant just walk off sciatic nerve pain lmao).
Today i was taking care of Cream and her brood and heard it pop again but this time i couldnt walk i had to stumble back to my room to get my cane. From what im reading if it continues to hurt i can go get a steroid injection but like my sciatic i rather manage it with stretches and exercise so if you also get this issue what helps it go away?
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difference between here & AR. 🌅 🌇
I LOVE IT HERE.
Nice sunrises walking in my neighborhood & good wake n bake sessions 😀 in the meantime.
Energy & coffee drinks | ice on my face | showers ♡ all that helps me wake up in the process.
💡: I wish I was better at time management.
Start alarms | timers it helps
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The following are statements about fandom competitions that all can, and should, coexist:
Cosplay competitions, dance competitions, etc. are not "rigged"
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Competitions naturally benefit the participant with the greatest advantage and hence, by definition, will never be completely "fair"
The degree to which some participants structure their lives around their artistic pursuits surpasses the typical definition of a "hobby"
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Competitions are not a complete or accurate representation of any hobby or artistic pursuit; considering them such tends to lead to perpetual dissatisfaction
Judges' opinions are often informed by significant relevant experience
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Judgments are ultimately opinions with which you are allowed to agree or disagree at your leisure
It can be immensely frustrating when judges make judgments that you disagree with
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Allowing yourself to experience that frustration, and then moving on from it, rather than trying to "correct" the judges or make a "callout," is generally the most productive reaction
It's healthy and natural to want to win/place/receive positive feedback
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If any form of judgment is going to "make or break" your competition experience, it's wise to seriously reconsider whether competing in your current state is healthy and sustainable
Placements/wins/positive feedback are achievements worthy of celebration
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Competition statistics are not an objective reflection of the quality or value of an artistic presentation
My 10+ years of experience (depending on the discipline) informs my opinion that the competition format hinges on subjectivity and serves primarily to draw an audience (utilizing the anticipation of "who will win???"), not to make objective judgments about any participants or their entries.
Please be cautious not to fall into the mindset that winning is the paramount aspect of competing. The amount of grief I've seen people experience over judges' opinions, and the number of people I've spoken to who say they've quit a competition scene entirely because of how elitist and cutthroat the environment was, is just heartbreaking.
I think a lot of work can be done to make fandom competitions more welcoming, inclusive, and accessible environments -- I've been in precious few communities like this both outside and within fandom, and I know we can do better.
I don't believe that centering that work on how judging is done is entirely wasted effort, due to the subjectivity of judging as a practice, I don't think that there's a single rubric, formula, or procedure that will make everyone happy. Instead, I think it's more worthwhile to highlight the community aspect of fandom competitions and focus on supporting one another and valuing each participant for their unique individual contributions to the artistic scene, not for their statistics.
Finally, I can ramble all day about what I think about the competition scene, but I really do believe that everything here, while informed by my experience, is still just opinion, and you're free to disagree.
#remember: if you wouldn't take advice from someone you don't need to take their criticism either#and 'i've never met this person before and they're not familiar with my body of work or with me personally'#is a valid reason to elect to ignore someone's criticism#soliloqyu#i've previously caught myself with the mindset of#'i want to go to x big convention but i shouldn't because i'm not a good enough cosplayer/dancer'#and the fact that an environment that advertises itself as a 'tight-knit community' can produce that mindset so easily is just sad
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my biggest beef with this fandom is how hard it is for them to praise jimin without always giving someone else credits for his hard work
#it is crazy how after we have seen all that in his production diary some fans are still acting like others did more for his album than jimin#he is not just a dancer he is also a lead vocalist he writes his own songs he comes up with melodies he is the best perfomer imo and has on#of the most artistic minds in the group#give him his flowers it wont k/ll you yes members help each other a lot but this is jimins thing and he took advice from others but at the#end it is HIS thing#rant#delete later
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nobody liked beard in that office lmaooooooooooooo
#brendan always saying the most important things about beard is that he's a rock he's loyal he's loving he's there for people#the people he's there for:#*crickets*#it just bothers me that like the most help we get from ted to beard is....................off screen#giving beard advice about the first day of coaching or after he got dumped by the cruise ship dancer#and then after prison#the most in the show we get is like. ted asking beard to talk abt what went wrong at the gala#and when he sees he's tired in 1x03 . and yes he tells him to be safe before bah + asks if he's okay in bah#but that's really it
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notice how no one has ever danced the choreography to ‘move’ as good as taemin???
that’s why he is the best dancer in the kpop industry.
#like watch the studio choom stage of advice#his back up dancers who’s whole job is to be good at dance exclusively can’t keep up#he’s too good and no one talks about it#kpop#taemin#shinee#lee taemin#move#advice#kpop dance#kpop unpopular opinions
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do u think they have cute little dance nights at angel's share bc if they do bet adri has ppl lining up to dance with them and ur considered one of the lucky ones if they grab ur hand to join them 🤭
#they're a really good dancer and they always try to make it a fun experience for their partner too#like no matter which verse becoming a performer of some kind is always that dream they can never persue#doing nilou's story quest kinda helped me realize that#how cute would it be if they met-#and if barbara came to them for idol advice-#hmm hmm hmmm the gears are turning#hc: gi.
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How did you get into dancing? Do you recommend it to others? Are there certain types of people that should avoid dancing?
Long story short, 17 year old me stumbled upon the world of SW and outright decided I wanted to try stripping one day. At 20 I decided to say fuck it and go for it, moved halfway across the U.S. and went to an audition.
I don’t recommend it to anyone, but I also don’t say that they shouldn’t. I love dancing but the industry is fucking BRUTAL. I’ve watched good girls become felons from drug charges and a plethora of other things. It really depends on if you WANT to dance and if you have the skill set. There’s a massive skill set needed to dance, if you don’t have it or learn how to build it you won’t make anything.
Absolutely, In no particular order, if you have these you might want to reconsider:
(People with/who:)
Jealousy issues
Little to no self esteem
Money management problems
Past drug addiction issues
Past alcoholism
Addictive tendencies
Fear of rejection
Little to no stamina
Low pain tolerance
No rhythm
No variety in music taste
No social skills
Little concept of being seductive
No makeup skills
No hair skills
Can’t handle being touched
Don’t like being judged
Have bad hygiene skills
This is a small list of things you may want to consider going in. You have 100% certainty to be judged for your body, skin, teeth, hair, voice etc. You WILL need money management skills (send an ask if you want a list of mistakes and advice). And you absolutely cannot avoid being rejected, laughed at, touched in some cases, bruises, scraped, and in pain.
Thank you for the ask babydoll, ask box is still open always <3
#ask#anon ask#anonymous#nonny ask#hypergamy#swers only#SW#sugar heaux#heaux life#heaux advice#hypergamous heaux#high value heaux#heaux tips#advice#dancer advice#dancer asks#spoiled girlfriend#hypergamous#rich girl#spoiled trophy wife#spoiled sugar baby
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(From: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, by Lindsay C. Gibson)
#relationship#relationships#relationship advice#marriage#marriage tips#metaphor#emotional maturity#free therapy#quotes#quotes from books#create a user friendly relationship#for you the user#and also your partner#we're in this together#its a dance#are we human or are we dancers?
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Reminder kiddos, don't try to dance in combat boots (or any boots) because as it turns out having 1-2 lbs (1/2 - 1 kg) strapped to your foot slows you down a surprising amount.
#things i definitely didnt learn the hard way#advice#i went from the worst dancer to middle of the pack almost immediately when i wore sneakers instead#i was far from the best but this was a group of teenagers with skill levels ranging from “ive never danced in my life” to#“ive done ballet since i was 6”
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My Best Advice For Creative People
Video goes live April 28th at 4PM PST: https://youtu.be/PRBy0ELjQl8
My #1 Top Advice for Any Creative Person is in this video! This is especially relevant if you find yourself experiencing repeated burnout and/or confusion about your purpose as a creative person. I use a lot of imagery related to painting but it is applicable to any kind of artist working with any medium.
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there are days that it is hard, and unfair, and some horrible part of me wishes i could have been born in a different world. i love being queer, i hate how others react to it. when i first came out at 15, my mom whispered: please don't say that. your life would be so much harder.
it is harder.
it is also a tuesday, walking my dog. we are both skiving off of work, and yes both of us have dyed hair and pronouns. mine is patchy - it was my first time trying bleach; i didn't have enough. theirs is a resilient toadstool green. a little girl comes up to us and asks um, excuse me? is your hair real? 'cause jason says you're a fairy.
it is sunday brunch, all of us talking over each other, overfull on love. she is trying out a new name today, and we made her a cake with today's name scrawled in shaky purple letters. she laughs so much she cries and then gets frosting in her hair. someone young at a different table keeps giving us these large, wide eyes: the same look we have all been on the other side of. the kind that says, breathless: wait, is that possible?
it is a half-fight in a supermarket because he loves "dance moms" and says abby's tiktok is funny and meanwhile i think the children in that show should be allowed to sue abby lee miller for child abuse. i tell him that it led to the casual acceptance of child harassment for mainly adult views; and then i am standing, suddenly, in someone else's thrown soda. there's a white lady standing there, furious, saying something about hell-on-earth. i had forgotten i was wearing stuff with pride colors. and then it is this: he had just been casually arguing with me - and within an instant, he squares his shoulders and goes after her like i am his sister
on saturday i sat in a circle while beca played with my hair and we were all over 30 and we laughed about how much happier we are being this old, how much more we appreciate our community. 25 minutes from now, we will be on stage to dance in baggy beige clothing, but for now we look on with envy to the dancers in loud-and-bright buttondowns. where are they getting these shirts! i cry, distraught. everyone laughs. one of our friends has a mushroom witch hat. this would have been cringey in high school, probably. instead we are all delighted with each other; happy just to be here and alive and moving
it's that last week my new friends cried with joy for me when they heard i'm getting top surgery. every so often i have the honor of being the first person someone feels comfortable enough to tell. i'm trying to make long fluttery butterfly wings to wear to pride; but i don't know anything about fabric or dye, so my friends have been sending me their personal advice.
i think in a different poem i would talk about how sometimes you walk into a room and put the mask back on. but i'm sleepy and my whole brain is fuzzy so i think in this one, it's a monday, and my dog and i took a nap on a couch, and i had missed texts from friends. i used to wake up lonely. i think this poem is about walking into a room and seeing someone and just knowing, the way you just-know-sometimes, and then giving them that little smile, and seeing them light up with joy and relief. it is how we always seem to be able to find each other in a crowded room. how we always seem to make friends with each other before even we know-it-to-be-true. it is saying: we're very different people; but i belong to you.
it is harder, yes. but it comes with a built-in family.
#wish this was better written!!! but im sleepy!!#writeblr#pride#lgbt#but for real please help me make these lesbian wings. gonna get the supplies tomorrow . i have#no sewing machine but know how to hand sew#have never done a good job with tie dye so idk why im just runnin with it#ps im specifically going to boston pride next weekend come hang out with me
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