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red-pill-to-swallow · 7 months
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How to be attractive to men and my goals
Hey babes,
like I said – I want to incorporate RPT (Red Pill Theories) into my daily life immediately.
A few things that every women within the community seemed to be content with were:
1. You are never finished with glowing or leveling up. Never stop learning. Never stop trying to better yourself.
2. Pretty privilege is real.
I agree that pretty privilege is very real. I mean, I get affected by pretty people like everybody else, even if I don’t do it on purpose. It’s just something that is ingrained in our brains and I need to learn how to take this to my advantage.
I think I have a decent starting base, because I’m a skinny white woman in her twenties with long blonde hair. I am not really tall – even short men are at least 5-7cms taller than me – but I’m also not extremely short.
I have a petite frame but my body-shape is something between an hourglass and a peach. My face is average – I don’t really have striking features or am a natural beauty model – but my features also aren’t hideous. It’s really just something you can look at without thinking too much.
On a scale, I would rate myself a 5,5-6/10 on an average day and I guess that’s great!
But how can I make myself look better on a daily basis? I really took hours to research how I could make myself more attractive to wealthy and high value men.
Obviously, no man is like the other and every man prefers something different. One man might like tattoos and piercings while another man with the same social status thinks they are hideous. I don’t want to completely change who I am and I don’t want to spend thousands of dollars for it.
However, I really like this whole clean girl and old money aesthetic that is going viral on Tiktok right now – and I think those two aesthetics could fit me and my personality really well.
Most wealthy men seem to like this traits in women:
1. great skin without obvious pimples or enlarged pores
2. long and healthy hair in a natural color
3. straight white teeth
4. clean nails on both hands and feet
5. hairless legs, armpits and at least trimmed pubic hair
6. wearing clean and wrinkle free clothes without any holes
7. wearing a nice smell that is fitting to your overall appearance
I think those are the basics and they can be achieved by almost anyone. If you can’t afford braces make sure that your teeth are always perfectly brushed and that you’re keeping up with your dental hygiene in general.
In fact – if you have problems affording certain beauty procedures, research how to get as close as possible to them with DIYs.
For years, I always wanted to be the mysterious woman in the room. The woman with a dark aura, the woman that doesn’t speak much and remains most of her life a secret.
Well, I am not this woman even if I’m trying very hard. It would be an act that I would put on and I am sure that everyone in the room would notice.
I am naturally very bubbly and I love having conversations with people in general. I would also say that I have a broad knowledge on different topics and that I’m able to talk to almost everyone.
I am also very welcoming and I enjoy making people laugh and have fun in my presence. I tend to have strong opinions and I’m not afraid to take on a discussion.
With everything that I know about myself now, I made some points that I need to tackle in order to level up:
1. stop oversharing. Being bubbly is great but not everyone needs to know everything about my business. Sometimes it’s just better to be silent and to listen.
2. start with exercise again. I am happy with my weight but I am extremely weak and I have almost zero muscle mass. My breath is getting heavy if I have to take the stairs and my legs start to hurt after roughly 15 minutes of walking. I plan on going for a walk every day and doing pilates 3x a week.
3. start doing my hair and makeup again. My hair is long and blonde – so it is an eyecatcher. It’s also very healthy but I usually just throw it up in a bun or in a clawclip, so no one is really seeing it. I have multiple styling tools at home and I need to start using them. The same applies to makeup. I have so much great stuff that looks really beautiful and natural but I am just too lazy to use it. I plan on taking 20 minutes every day to do my makeup and to suck it up – because I usually always do a double cleanse at night, so it’s not really a struggle to take it off in the evening. It’s just inconvenient in the morning.
4. taking better care of my skin and of my dental health. I have high quality skincare and I love doing my skincare but sometimes I’m just too lazy. Let me just say that it doesn’t happen often – but still too much for my liking. Also my dental health – I need to make a dentist appointment asap. I think the last time I went was around 3 years ago!
5. buying better fitting clothes. I don’t like shopping for clothes but it is what it is. Right now I only have cute lounge sets for being at home but when I go out I usually only wear jeans with a basic top and sneakers. I want to look more polished and feminine. I want to stop wearing jeans and focus more on pants, skirts and dresses. Also literally any other shoes than sneakers.
6. go out more. I’m your typical homebody. Movie night? Reading a book? Ordering food? Count me in! I always have fun when I go out but I’m still mostly at home and I want to change that. I want to have a group of like minded friends that want to hang out with me. Maybe even at home. Lol.
I really thought hard about those six points but I think those are the first things that I need to tackle down.
In the end – I was asking myself: what could I do to feel the most comfortable with spontaneous outgoings and meeting new people?
It came down to wanting to look my best. Obviously. I want to make a good first impression and maybe even profit off of pretty privilege.
I’m sure we all know those times when we’re dressed like slobs and suddenly an opportunity to go out arises and we decline because it would take hours to get ready.
That’s the reason why I want to get ready in the morning – so I would only need to touch up if anything came up.
see you soon!
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teauchiha · 2 months
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Idk how to say this nicely, but ladies, do not have a significantly uglier best friend (woman). This will inevitably lead to jealousy and resentment. The ugly(er) friend will certainly use any opportunity possible to compete with you in only the categories they excel over you and take every chance to lower the effect of your grace.
You would think female friendships, especially BEST FRIENDS, would uplift each other any opportunity possible. Nope. Absolutely not in this bff combo. Social class, wealth status, degrees, the car you drive, boyfriends/husbands, purses, makeup skill, etc etc might be considered contention points. Being prettier than said other person is in comprehensively more important and contentious than any of these.
Be wary but better yet REFUSE being best friends with a significantly uglier girl. She will take every chance possible to artificially inflate her worth and put you down, especially in front of others, especially in front of men. Don’t think she isn’t using every opportunity to gossip and spread rumors behind your back to make people believe you’re ugly on the inside because she cannot stand how pretty you are on the outside. Don’t get me started on how she will literally copy/emulate all the uniqueness you have about yourself to make the things that make you you less authentic, use your light and attention from others to benefit herself, try to steal your men and friends, and downplay your intelligence. If she can’t convince others you are not beautiful (because everyone knows you are), she will make it her life mission to make others believe that’s ALL you are- JUST a pretty face.
Please beware.
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bootobeneficiary · 5 days
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hiii i really love your blog and the advice you have given others has helped me a lot so now im coming to ask advice for myself if you can help me.
my best friend is a really negative person, always bringing herself down and sometimes other people too and i really really love her but being around her can be depressing sometimes. i dont want to cut her out because she's helped me a lot but i also don't want her energy to affect my own positive energy. what can i do?
How to Grow A Pair of Balls
Balls represent masculinity.
Anon and readers, I want you to remember these wise words passed onto me:
“Complaining is a privilege”
When I was told this (after “venting”). I was offended. I’ve earned the right to complain!
But, they were right.
If being around your best friend feels “depressing”, then you are allowing someone to make you feel depressed. Depression called and you pressed the green button instead of the red button. YOU pressed the button, babe.
You don’t need to cut bestie off, you need to cut off the weak(er) parts of yourself.
“What can I do”
Grow a pair of balls. Let your nuts hang, damn. Stop allowing people to mess up your mood to the point where you’re asking for advice. I love y’all, but the biggest lesson I’ve learned is that most of our problems are avoidable, relationship hiccups being one of them (friends, lovers, family)
You don’t want to cut her off bc you probably know damn well it’s time to part ways, but you’re looking for a substitute to avoid the inevitable.
You can either
A) do what you’re avoiding…end the friendship
B) continue to let her mess up your mood (Better you than me)
C) invite her out and set a boundary: her negativity brings you down and it’s beginning to affect you in an uncomfortable way. You don’t want to cut her off, but you are preparing to distance yourself in order to protect your mental wellbeing.
When you catch yourself complaining, it’s usually because you’re tap dancing around making a choice. You’re giving yourself “extra time” to make a decision by “venting”.
At the end of the day, it’s only affecting you. Therefore, nobody is going to address the issue for you expect you. Don’t procrastinate with confrontation or tough choices. You’re only playing yourself now and in the future.
Hope this helps! God bless 🧿
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ms-chameleon · 8 months
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Selfcare is a privilege. Never forget that.
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I am expanding my skills and drifting away from social media. So far I'm working a lot on my nail skills and going full on with puzzles... Feels very fulfilling.
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red-pill-to-swallow · 6 months
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Doing your part in a relationship
Hey babes,
it’s Monday – a new, fresh week and the ultimate opportunity to make some changes.
I don’t know why it feels so much better to start a new routine on a Monday than it does on a random Wednesday.
I took some time after I posted my last two posts and really thought about the relationship dynamic between my man and me.
I thought about changes that I would like to make and what could help us to become a better couple.
Honestly, I was pretty shocked after all my thinking because it turns out that my man is the rock in this relationship and I am not sure why he is still sticking around when he could probably do so much better.
But let me explain:
I gave up working in my full-time job around January 2023 and have been home ever since then.
My man was aware that I was totally burned out from my job and offered me that I could stay at home and take care of the household chores.
Previously we used to split the chores around the house roughly 50/50. It was very fair and in some weeks he did more than me and some weeks I did more than him, like it’s in every relationship.
I would say that I am fairly good at housekeeping. I know how to cook, how to clean and how to do laundry.
However – I never before was responsible for everything. From going grocery shopping and planning meals to cleaning the bathrooms every week – suddenly all of this was on me.
I struggle really bad with organizing myself, this was one of the reasons why I was so burned out from my previous job, and I started slacking.
I would do the laundry one day and take three days before I started folding it. My man literally had no underwear one time and flipped out because that’s obviously disgusting and instead of improving – I started to get mad at him.
It wasn’t only the laundry, it also began affecting my cooking – which I loved doing before – and I would start making only frozen meals or just serving cold meat cuts with bread.
We started fighting a lot more because my man was sad, that instead of relaxing at home he would need to help me with my chores – after a full workday.
I had my epiphany a few weeks ago (when I made this blog) and realized that my man has every right to be mad at me. He does his job. I am not.
So, let’s see – my man works really though hours. He leaves the house early in the morning and comes home in the early evening. He’s usually stressed because his job is very demanding and he is responsible for a lot of people.
Imagine coming home to your girlfriend, who’s staying at home, and almost nothing is done. The fridge isn’t restocked, the floor is dirty and there is no food. After your shower you realize that you have no fresh underwear because your girlfriend didn’t wash any.
I would flip out too.
My behavior was/is borderline disrespectful and I am honestly ashamed because of it. I would have broken up with me if I was him.
But here we are – still together and I don’t plan on dodging this second chance.
I think many girls that want the lifestyle of a spoiled girlfriend or a stay at home girlfriend don’t realize how hard it is to organize a whole household on your own.
Yes, there might be some men out there that are so rich that they don’t mind employing staff to help around the house, but I don’t think that this is achievable for a woman in her twenties without having various high value connections in the right circles. At least I don’t have those connections.
I am responsible for keeping the house clean, making food and going grocery shopping. That takes maybe 5 hours of my day and the rest of the time I can do whatever I want.
My man only wants to come home to a clean, organized house with a stocked fridge and possibly a hot meal on the stove.
Honestly – he is the one that is working his ass off every day, not me.
The worst is, that I even started to neglect my appearance. I used to shave every second day and that slowly progressed to only once a week. I used to color my hair religiously and worked out at least three times a week.
Now I haven’t touched up my hair in over three months, my roots are disgusting and I am very ashamed because of it. I mean, even though my man pays for my beauty appointments – I couldn’t get my ass up.
However, I cleaned our whole house today. From the bottom to the top. It’s spotless. I did laundry and went grocery shopping and I made a plan on how to maintain all of those things.
I won’t share the plan just yet because I want to make sure that I can actually follow it before I share it with you.
What should you take with you after reading this rant?
Be careful that you’re always a responsible partner. Don’t be like me. If you’re telling your partner that you plan on doing something – actually follow through and do it. Don’t disappoint them all the time.
Make sure that you acknowledge what they do for you and thank them for it every once in a while.
It is unattractive to be lazy and not being able to keep up with your standards. It’s unfair to your partner to let yourself go and they have every right to be upset about it.
Think before you speak and start an argument. Are you really right? Is it worth to start an argument about something that is your responsibility?
I mean, my man made it clear in the beginning: If I want to stay at home and live a cozy life – I have to take care of the house while he works and provides for us both.
He does his part of the agreement. Every single day.
I’ve only done my part of the agreement when I felt like it and that is not okay. But I am changing and I know that he has already forgiven me for all the hassle.
See you soon
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bootobeneficiary · 6 days
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hello! I love your posts and they've been super helpful! However Im struggling with my image.
Growing up as a people pleaser Ive cattered to the "innocent friend", sweet and nice, goody-two shoes, empty-headed kind, image and cant seem to break out of it (its worse with guys since Ive grown up isolated+scared of them).
Do you have any tips on breaking out of this habit of being pleasurable to be around and forgetting about myself completely?
Thank you!
this ask is over a year old. Sorry Anon!
Stop People Pleasing !
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As I grew up, I realized that I am setting myself up to be taken advantage of. My kindness was weakness.
My kindness was done in hopes of approval and validation. To show “see? I’m a good person. I’m a good friend. I got you!” That’s weak.
And so are you.
“…empty-headed, kind image and can’t seem to break out of it,”
Can’t. If you can’t do something, then I can’t give you any advice. You’ve already concluded that you’re closed.
That’s weak. Someone who can’t lift a 100 lb bag lacks the strength to pick it up. You lack the strength, patience and discipline to get out of your own way
Pardon me, I don’t intend to be mean to you Anon. However, you must understand the root of the actions you’re seeking advice on.
Tips to begin upgrading your image:
Make a decision, then actually do it (this time). Just like you’ve decided you “can’t” do something, you’re able to decide that you “can”.
An addiction is a self destructive habit. To break habits, think of how one breaks their drug habit, for example. They put a hard stop on using. They distance themselves from their vices and friends who still use. Whenever you want to break a habit, treat it as a serious addiction.
Look yourself in the mirror and detail the woman you want to be. Her looks. Her attitude. Her mindset. Her dealbreakers.
Click to Download our FREE “Date Great” Guide for self development exercises breaking down your standards, boundaries, preferences and dealbreakers.
Write down the parts of yourself you want to leave in the past. Your people pleasing. Your insecurities. Sometimes, even our arrogance. Sometimes, even our parents need to go in the trash. Write it all down as if you’re taking the trash out. Then, take the trash out.
It’s not simple. You’re just standing in your own way. Once you push yourself out the way, you’ll realize this could’ve been done ages ago.
Welcome to self development. Growth is one funny girl.
Hope this helps! God bless
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