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haruharuz · 2 years
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If you want to be her you need to start acting like her.
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waterfairest · 5 months
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Currently...
Omega 3 Supplements.
French Nails.
Green Tea Every Morning.
Antioxidant Shots.
Ice Cold Showers.
Protein Heavy Diet + Creatine.
1 Shadow Question Everyday.
Strength Training 3 Times Per Week.
Electrolytes Water.
Turmeric + Black Pepper + Ginger + Honey.
80/20 Diet.
Bone Broth for Skin and Joints.
20k Steps/Day.
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kissmethroughthebone · 6 months
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I am high end.
I am elegant.
I am special.
I am so much unlike the others that there is no such thing as comparing me to anyone else.
I am loved.
I am artwork.
I am pleasing; to myself, and to others. But always myself. First and foremost. I never have to work hard to please others, since my natural energy draws them to want to please me first, and never the other way around.
But I am naturally caring, beautiful, and thoughtful. So I love to help with ease.
My value is seen and recognized so easily.
I am so blessed and abundant, always. God bless and amen. Thank you!
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bootobeneficiary · 6 days
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You’re Not “Masculine”, You’re a Wounded Feminine
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Many of us think that because we are out of touch with our feminine, we are automatically the opposite, masculine.
This is not true for most. Here’s why:
You likely lack leadership skills (including boundaries)
You likely lack the ability to have hard conversations
You likely lack control of your emotions
You are likely indecisive, unable to breakup with your partner or go no contact with family
How to Heal Your Feminine Wounds
Book Recommendation: “I Have > I Am: Masculine Guidance for Feminines”
Wounds include:
Xesual trauma
Abandonment issues
Resentment
Codependency
Indecisiveness
Avoiding Confrontation / Responsibilities
Shadow Work
What is “Shadow Work”?
Shadow work is the act of asking yourself (& answering) hard, intimate questions. The goal is to get to the root of your trauma(s).
Click here for a brief YT video detailing shadow work
Accountability
The greatest masculinity lesson I’ve learned is:
It’s always your fault.
Even if it’s not your “fault”, it’s your responsibility.
The “responsibility” part was the highlight for me. I needed to be more responsible about the people I allow in my life, otherwise I’ll have to be responsible for the consequences of their actions (& attitudes).
Accountability is a combination of things, including discernment and self control. You must have the physical and mental ability to honor your responsibilities, goals and boundaries.
Cancel Closure
Dismiss the need for closure. That is when you actually begin to heal.
Yes, you were wronged. Yes, you deserve one last convo. No, it’s not going to happen how you want it to. This is why you must release the need for closure, it’s a form of being controlling.
You are trying to control the ending between you two. This is why it keeps backfiring. Until you release the need to control, you will forever be in this cycle of needing to feel validated by those who wounded you.
Community
During our darkest hours, many of us are in complete isolation. No friends, no family.
As you’re emerging from this space, it is important to find a community where you can connect with people who keep you focused and inspired.
Start with community work, such as volunteering. It could be the animal shelter, working with children in the shelter or miscellaneous organizations on your area.
Click to join our Discord community, linked in our FREE “Date Great” Guide. (Limited time only)
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bbltheque · 2 years
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teauchiha · 2 months
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Idk how to say this nicely, but ladies, do not have a significantly uglier best friend (woman). This will inevitably lead to jealousy and resentment. The ugly(er) friend will certainly use any opportunity possible to compete with you in only the categories they excel over you and take every chance to lower the effect of your grace.
You would think female friendships, especially BEST FRIENDS, would uplift each other any opportunity possible. Nope. Absolutely not in this bff combo. Social class, wealth status, degrees, the car you drive, boyfriends/husbands, purses, makeup skill, etc etc might be considered contention points. Being prettier than said other person is in comprehensively more important and contentious than any of these.
Be wary but better yet REFUSE being best friends with a significantly uglier girl. She will take every chance possible to artificially inflate her worth and put you down, especially in front of others, especially in front of men. Don’t think she isn’t using every opportunity to gossip and spread rumors behind your back to make people believe you’re ugly on the inside because she cannot stand how pretty you are on the outside. Don’t get me started on how she will literally copy/emulate all the uniqueness you have about yourself to make the things that make you you less authentic, use your light and attention from others to benefit herself, try to steal your men and friends, and downplay your intelligence. If she can’t convince others you are not beautiful (because everyone knows you are), she will make it her life mission to make others believe that’s ALL you are- JUST a pretty face.
Please beware.
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veryrichbitchh · 15 days
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Let’s chat.. i am a black woman and I recently found out about ‘divesting’ from YouTube and that was the nail that broke the camels back for me. I’ve been getting so many signs saying leave SW FULLY from God.. I was fighting too hard to be handed a luxury life (that is not actually luxury) and not working for it for myself, righteously. Honestly… why are so much of us trying to sell p*ssy instead of getting ahead in life by doing the hard work that won’t leave our soul feeling rotten…?
So, I’ve accepted SW as a phase in my life. My Holy Spirit has been wanting me to stop but my body/flesh did not want to let go of it. I need to believe that God can solve my problems and have the highest faith in Him only, and serve no other gods.
Be careful who you bring around you also, friends can lead you into that lifestyle and it happens quickly. Around age 21 when I let superficial friends that only care about designers, men, etc… get around me and essentially corrupt my mind. Be careful because you can easily get sucked into that life of shallowness and do things you should not to keep up with the shallowness. It happened to me, led me to spend above my income and in turn, it led me to thinking money, rich men,luxury trips and dates, drinks, etc… can validate me. Then came me turning to older white men since I live in a city where the men with money are generally white. Even if marriage wasn’t the goal for me most times with them , it is truly embarrassing to be so strung out/in the sunken place (lol) that I thought being with a 70,60,50+ year old white man (especially in public) is okay. (I’m in my 20s!!!) I even at one point thought marriage was in the picture with them… lol. I was about to allow myself to enter that mindset when I know that’s not what I want. I know for a fact that I deserve better.
The lifestyle of the sugar baby, sw'er, whatever, I've been invested in for so long and I am just tired of faking that it is .. idk the word . Tired of faking that it is “all that”. Idk the word .. but you get my point (maybe). And I’m not saying it was an entirely horrible experience… but at the end of it all you don’t gain much. (What is it to gain the whole world and lose your soul.) and I feel God never let me get fully invested (face out) either like He kept me protected. My Holy Spirit had me understand through the whole journey that this is not forever and to not let my mistakes linger for life that I actually start to embrace the mistakes.
But thinking back to it all, what was it for? Because I could have put all that time into a more l*gal and profitable business that I am actually proud of , but I chose not to… I chose the “easy” way out which was not so easy especially when the income is sporadic. Maybe it was the thrill. It was like a high. A drug almost. This is a lot to unpack babes.. The devil wanted me to give even more than I gave to that lifestyle and I gave a lot… but nothing God cannot return.
Anyway, babes, I have so much on my mind but I am choosing to work on businesses, study/figure out how to pass my exams, take trips, learn the righteous way I can live my life, travel, lean on God always and just being at peace. I am so at peace right now it's amazing. I am okay with my past because without it i would not come to this realization and I am thankful for the Grace of God that his kindness led me here. So, ladies, the summary is, work for what you want that is beneficial for your Holy Spirit. I am no longer in sw and will continue to write updates here and there! <3
And yes I still very much am a Very Rich B*tchh😘
-VRB
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sexyoldmilf · 1 year
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Good morning 🌞
Have a wonderful and blessed week
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giselleseraphin · 11 months
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Becoming soft spoken affirmations
I am soft spoken
I have a delicate voice
My tone is soft & sweet
People fawn over me even more once I speak
My voice is highly feminine
Now practice saying these phrases in your most feminine natural voice whilst looking in the mirror.
“Oh really? I think that’s actually quite fascinating!”
“I appreciate your offer, but no thank you. Have a lovely day!”
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ms-chameleon · 8 months
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Selfcare is a privilege. Never forget that.
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waterfairest · 5 months
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Booty-Ful Beginning Workout A: Week 1-4 Training Log.
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kissmethroughthebone · 5 months
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Christmas Season list of chores:
Get as many spices, seasonings and sauces as I can to bulk up for the cozy season. If I want delicious devilled eggs and roast beef, I'm gonna have to do it myself! (And also don't be afraid to ask my long list of suitors for assistance with the fancy meats and materials I want... hey, if they want a wifey, they better be a provider man and get me what's needed for it!)
Stock up on hot chocolate, cozy teas, and any baking materials. Bake at least one warm good a week. Doesn't need to be any Cordon Bleu shit, (even though I have tried and failed at eclairs.... oh, boy, that n i g h t m a r e was as delicious as it was deconstructed!) it can just be a can of cinnamon rolls or cookies popped onto a tray and into the oven! Makes the house warm, and a warm, moist, sweet treat is every girl's best friend during a cold season!
A little extra wine, brandy and rosé in the cabinets could be stellar. Nights of sipping wine by a heater, cozied up in some blankets watching the Grinch? Could be stellar. Fantastical. :)
A humidifier for my house; or air purifier. Whichever works best to make it not too dry but not too moist.
Some more warm lighting; LED candles work, but the real deal is best. I wouldn't mind one more lamp.
Get as many vanilla and spice scented candles as possible. I *need* the house to smell warm and inviting. And incense! Vanilla, cinnamon, apple, pie, cake... all those goodies. Even if I can't bake all the time, I can make the place look, feel, and *smell* cozy all at once. :)
Stock up on even more blankets and pillows! And wash all that I do currently have!
Buy cozy socks, fleece tights, and a nice big puffer coat, with some texting gloves, and a few cozy hats to add on. All that.
Get one more heater! My place gets too cold, I can see my breath sometimes from how cold it is. Unacceptable! I need the living room nice and toasty, to easier play my video games!
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bbltheque · 2 years
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sugarology · 1 month
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Heyy guys, any SBs and SDs/SMs willing to take a survey on their surgaring experience? In it, you’ll answer questions about your SR preferences. It’s 100% anonymous and takes about 10-20 minutes.
A lil more insight into my thoughts/purpose behind the research:
The study basically centers on the idea that SRs are dynamic and mean something different to different people. From lurking in the sugar subs for over a year now, I’ve learned that there’s a lot more to these types of relationships than popular generalizations suggest.
Recent research seems to reflect that there are quite a few non-material benefits people get out of SRs, so I’m looking to expand upon that research and dive into what specific motivations lead people to start sugar dating, what intrinsic and extrinsic benefits people gain from them, and how those motivations and benefits are similar to or different from those reported in vanilla sexual/romantic relationships. I’m interested in seeing how many people prefer strictly casual arrangements vs how many are looking to find a deeper romantic connection and if any factors related to individual variation influence a preference for either.
So, here’s the link to the survey if you’re interested:
https://fullerton.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_2bF97LlH6f0AC34
The survey will be open till feb 24st & you must be 18 years or older to participate. Thanks so much for your time !!
(this research is for my masters thesis & has been ethically approved by the institutional review board)
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veryrichbitchh · 3 months
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Met a potential at a steakhouse bar while free styling with a gf and this is what an hour with him got me the following day, aka yesterday. Really hoping it blossoms into a great sugar daddy and sugar baby relationship. I met him as myself (no fake name). and myself is open now to being a heaux. Honestly. I’m happy about it. In 2024 I want to embrace being elegantly unfiltered. I want to do me wholeheartedly, and not be scared about being judged for wanting an ultimate luxury life. I’m not being scared about money in 2024. I was like that before I think but now I’m stepping back into the old me but better. God, keep me safe on my journey and happy. 2024 is the year I became debt free and I got more goodness than I imagined! Amen!🙏🏾🩷💋💎💰💎💵
-Very Rich B.
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effyeahmosegi · 7 months
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